MODERN DATING: The Bitches Edition

Modern dating from a woman’s perspective, is where we go today. You see women are beautiful and fragile creatures, some with emotions grander than the oceans themselves. Women can be delicate, they can be impulsive, they can be irrational, and they can be crazy. I’m gunna try to tell you why though and let you in on a few things that most women do and what they don’t want you to know. How they work and what makes these bitches tick.

Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.

This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.

In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.

Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.

For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!

So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.

Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.

See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!

You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.

So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.

Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.

On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!

This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!

Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.

Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.

Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.

Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.

This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.

So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.

How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.

Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.

A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.

If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.

Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.

Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!

Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.

Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.

With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.

In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…

Until next time kiddies…

Hoes Vs. Sexually Liberated Women

Women…. Statistically, we out number men easily 3 to 1... Women also live longer. Why is that we don’t rule the world? We could easily take over everything, and kick men out of positions of power…. So why don’t we?

Well… lately I’ve been thinking about this very topic more and more. The more I educate myself and reflect on history; the more I realize how fucked up we’re living. As time has gone by, women have fought for rights that were denied to us even a hundred years ago. So we now have rights and are to be seen as “equals” to men… now what?

I’d like to reflect on history and begin to analyze where and why women began being treated in such a fashion. Hmmm… not to go far too much, lets start with Medieval times, and the Dark Ages- for they were fairly dark… especially for women. Women were seen as emotional creatures… something they are still seen as today. But I found the way they described the women of the time fascinating.

Women were easily swayed and tempted by the devil… They also were said to have insatiable sex drives and for this, were seen as evil and products of the devil. They were to remain virgins in order to preserve the name and honor of her family. She was to be humble, devout and motherly. Now this all ties into religion as well… because religion back then was EVERYTHING. If you disobeyed what had been written, you were most certainly going to be condemned to Hades.

This is what I think REALLY happened. Men… know now and forever, that PUSSY runs the world. Many of wars have been fought over just that- PUSSY! Women have power in their panties, and most women don’t even know of the power that they TRULY have. Pussy has the ability to make a man dumb as shit, it has the ability to make him want to spend all his money, it can make him become estranged from family and friends, it can make him KILL someone. Sorry to tell you, but that is how powerful pussy is… some men would do ANYTHING for it.

Now the reason why men go all gaga over pussy is because logically speaking… Men have a way harder time getting laid then women do. The men who have acquired “game” and those that look good enough to eat… need not apply- you guys get the pussy thrown at you…. But, for the everyday Joe, pussy is a quest… If you don’t believe me, think about it like this- the UGLIEST, FATTEST bitch in the world, would STILL get dick, before the UGLIEST man got some pussy. Why? Men are ALWAYS down to fuck something… and most niccas don’t give a shit- especially when now, you can officially blame it on the alcohol!

Now, when it comes to getting laid…. Women have NO problem. The only thing that holds women back is their NEED to have a mental/emotional connection with the person they’re sleeping with. Real talk though…. To all the bitches that BITCH and COMPLAIN they ain’t getting laid- LOOK AROUND BITCH! Pick one, any one you want, maybe some eye candy … and 9 out of 10 times… he’s down… Bitches, stop DEPRIVING yourself of dick, and LEARN to fuck and detach feelings when doing so. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself which equals confidence; besides, you’re a MEGA bitch when you ain’t getting laid!

That is a MAIN difference in sex when it comes to men and women. Women are mental and emotional, and men are visual and physical. Women, you need to know that YOU hold the power, and if you see something you like… There’s nothing wrong with sampling different cookies in the jar. Plus, it gives you more experience and when you’re married and 40, you won’t REGRET not fucking the shit outta that sexy man 20 yrs ago.

Back to the oppression of women back in time… So what I think happened, is some MAN figured out what I just explained. PUSSY IS POWER! He figured it out and said “Oh Shit! What we gunna do, women ain’t running shit”, Why? Because men are territorial and egotistical. And at that point in time, they would of rather died, than let a WOMAN tell them about religion, politics, family or anything that involved deeper thinking skills. And…. So began the oppression of women and the double-standards that we until today carry in society.

In order to keep the women of those times in “check” and obedient… what they did was tie in RELIGION! These women were scared to do or say anything for a long time, because they believed that in doing so, they were going to HELL! The men of these times can be summed up in two words- DOUCHE BAGS!

How has times changed? Eh, while women carry many rights today that our sisters failed to have so many years ago; women are still seen in an inferior light as opposed to men. We still carry many double-standards today that existed back then as well. Double-standards that were MADE by who? MEN!

It’s crazy how much the times have changed. Women are coming up in the world, but who knows if we will ever be TRULY seen as “equals”. This can not be blamed on just one sex though. Women and men alike have fair involvement in making it what it is today. Women…. Some of you play that damsel in distress card a little too much, we’re living in 2009- get independent bitch! Men… Some of you have the audacity to judge a women for things she has done sexually, but believe it is quite all right for men to fuck everything that walks! Until everyone learns to keep an open mind and be none judgmental… the world will cease to be this way and women will be oppressed.

Women… I must address you first on this one, because frankly if you didn’t know- WOMEN are the WORST ENEMIES of other WOMEN. Seriously, we are… and you hater ass bitches KNOW who you are deep inside. It’s crazy how women could plot so deviously against other women. And it’s ridiculous that women get MAD when they see another woman doing BETTER than she is.

If you see another woman out there doing good for herself, you should be HAPPY for her. She should serve as your MOTIVATION! Hey, if SHE can do it, then so can YOU! I’m so tired of bitches hating on other bitches. You have the EXACT SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I DO… If you don’t make it work out for yourself- that’s on you dumb ass. But don’t hate on me and mine when I’m doing better than you!

Next, is how green with ENVY a bitch will get when she sees that you have a “good” man. Of course she’ll compliment you two as a couple, but secretly, she plots to steal that “good” man for herself. You sniveling, conniving, desperate sewer RATS! Be happy that your friend has gotten herself a good man, and STOP trying to take what’s not yours. You bitches help contribute to the struggle that we, as women are in. You get NO RESPECT. And remember this you GREEDY BITCH- if he cheated WITH you, then he will cheat ON you. Don’t act all surprised when that shit happens, you set yourself up lovely for that one!

Which brings me to the bitches who fuck the men of other women. You bitches are despicable and are at the extreme bottom of the food chain. It is one thing to fuck a man who lied to you about a girlfriend and/or wife, that’s his fault- you didn’t know. Now when you find out… CUT IT OFF. Have some dignity and morals. To the leeches who KNOW that a man is in a relationship… You help contribute to cheating, the breaking of families, and more seriously the hate and jealousy that shadows all women. I’d like to take this moment to say- FUCK YOU! You have no morals, values or a conscience… You, get that “Scum of the Earth” classification.

Another thing, bitches… Stop being STUPID! If your man cheated on you… your beef is NOT with the tramp he cheated with. It is with him! Unless you know the bitch, then you can whip her ass on principle alone… but if you DO NOT know the female, leave her ass out of it. HE is the ENEMY, NOT HER! I see so many bitches fighting over niccas that ain’t worth a DIME, stop playing yourself! He ain’t Reggie Bush, Denzel or Usher… and even then you shouldn’t be fighting over a damn man. Stop letting MEN put women against each other… that’s what he wants, just so you’ll forget that HE’S THE ONE THAT CHEATED!

*sigh… Back to equality, one of the main reasons I believe that men DO NOT take women seriously is because BITCHES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Really though, women want to be seen as equals, yet at the same time want special consideration because why? She’s a woman. Make up your fucking minds… You can be equal and INDEPENDENT or you can be seen as the inferior damsel in distress… You can only chose one!

Enough about the catty bitches that roam the earth… on to the DOGS! Men, for as long as history tells… You have oppressed women and honestly, I don’t all the way blame you. Women ARE emotionally unstable creatures who don’t know what the hell they want- well, MOST of them. And yea, they may fuck important shit up, who knows. But, what I DO NOT agree with are the double-standards that have come from this oppression.

In early times, women would be killed by her father and/or brothers if she were found to not be a virgin before she was married. This was done to preserve the honor of her family. Ok, WTF is that about? Marriages were arranged, and husbands were “brought”. If you had money, you could buy your daughter a great husband. Women were not a part of her fathers inheritance, and they were almost invisible in a sense to society. They held no class, instead they were seen as whatever class their fathers or husbands were in.

For centuries, men held on tightly to the reins they had invisibly and secretively thrown over women. Women worked hard to tend their homes and first and foremost, bear and raise children. Now, although women have come a long way from these dark times, some things are still alive today. One thing in particular is the double-standard of sexual escapades.

It is the year 2009, why is it that forever, men have been able to fuck WHOEVER they want… and they can fuck as MANY women they want- yet, they are NOT seen as the whores that they are? Instead, they get a pat on the back because they’re “the man”. Honestly, the world needs to WAKE THE FUCK UP! If men can do it, so can women- and women are none the lesser for it. Women have wants and needs as well, and seriously, women want to fuck JUST AS MUCH as men do. They don’t though, because they don’t want to be seen as “whores, hoes, sluts, etc.”

This is a new century, and women need to come out of those shells and get THEIR FUCK ON! There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with fucking more than a fixed amount of men. You only get one life and you should live it to the fullest. Wild the fuck out, before you run off, get married and end up a desperate housewife. When you look back, you should say “wow, I had fun” not “damn, I should of done that when I had the chance”. Most women get hung up on emotions and sex, but IT IS possible to have emotionless sex. Get with the times bitches!

Now, I’m NOT saying to go fuck every man you see. What I AM saying though is, if you REALLY want to fuck… What other people may think of you, should not be a factor. There are differences between a SEXUALLY LIBERATED woman, and a HOE! A sexually liberated woman knows the following things:

- Some sexual acts are intimate and should only be done with those special to your heart. So, sucking off every nicca on the block… is a hoeish activity.
- When you fuck two men within the same social circle, they WILL talk about your ass. So… fucking two brothers, cousins, best friends or participating in a free for all train… is a hoeish activity.
-There are hundreds of diseases in this world and sex should be done SAFELY. So, fucking and sucking raw… is a hoeish activity.
- A sexually liberated woman is confidant and knows she can get any man, and doesn’t want the ones that are already taken- even if they want her. Fucking another woman’s man is not just CLASSLESS… it is a hoeish activity.

Hmmm… Some women REALLY are hoes and they conduct themselves as much. But there are other women who just enjoy indulging in sex, and lots of it. These women should not be seen as “hoes”, when in all actuality, they are not committing any “hoeish” crimes. They just want to experience new things and people… and they SHOULD NOT be treated as the nasty, devious RATS that are REAL hoes.

Men’s main argument with why women shouldn’t have as many sexual partners is this… “Your pussy is going to be all loose”. Well, I’d like to yell BULLSHIT! The vagina is a WONDROUS invention, for you see, it is like pure ELASTIC. Women have the ability to push out something 10 cm. and above in diameter and guess what? The pussy SNAPS back to its original form. Seriously, if a bitch can push out babies and NOT be loose… I HIGHLY DOUBT some dick is going to knock the walls off that shit.

Blah… This has proven to be a lot longer than I thought it would be, so I’m a wrap this shit up. Women, we have come a long way and have fought for RIGHTS. Women protested, burned bras and FOUGHT for us to be seen as EQUALS. But seriously, bitches are FREMENEMIES to other bitches. STOP HATIN and stop letting men RUN YOUR SHIT!

It is 2009, ain’t nothing wrong with FUCKIN and enjoying sex… as long as you ain’t participating in HOEISH activities. Lastly, HOW can you expect MEN to treat us as EQUALS when we ourselves can’t treat each other with RESPECT! Men… KNOW that there is a DIFFERENCE between a sexually liberated woman and a hoe. And real talk, most of you can’t talk shit anyways, because in all actuality, you are the one who is a HOE. And lastly, if you REALLY think women’s pussies stretch out the more men they fuck- you’re a DE-DE-DE! Granted, like dicks, vaginal canals come in all shapes and sizes… But chances are if she can push out something as big as 10 cm. and it STILL snap back… NO amount of dick can do damage… And, did it ever occur to you that she’s not really loose? Maybe, you’re just REALLY small… Whomp, Whomp…

Until next time kiddies….