Modern dating from a man’s perspective of course, is naturally next. We will explore the depths of the male mind, see what makes them tick and break down my theories on them. Of course they can only be theories taken from observations and research, for I am not a man myself, so although I’ll never purely know what it’s like, I can sympathize enormously… 70% of my mentality is Dude.
Men… Mostly seen as a bed of nails. Hard. Tough. Sometimes, it’s even hard for me, and I too forget that men have real feelings as well. Although, from the time they are born, most men are taught to bottle their emotions. “Boys don’t cry”, is the common phrase, uttered by many parents in hopes of toughening up their sons. But, alas, boys DO cry. They just don’t usually let anyone see them when they do so.
Yes. Men have feelings too. Yet, the difference between men and women is that men not only internalize their feelings, their mental processes are different. When a man is normally hit with some crazy or bad news, he emotionally shuts down in an effort to sort his feelings. Women on the other hand, externalize everything and then some.
It is true that there are many men out there who are also disillusioned into believing they want something, when it is merely what society states he should want. Men can be just as confused as women when it comes to properly trying to pick a mate. But the main issue is WHEN he will be able to actually pick a mate. For you see, I don’t necessarily think MOST men actually want relationships- many just don’t know it but I have theories as to why they may do certain things.
You see the biology of a man is very different from that of a woman’s, and this includes everything from the way we perceive things, talk, our sexuality, our chemical processes… everything. Men, are in their primes early during puberty… Usually from ages 18-25… Women on the other hand don’t reach their sexual peaks until their 30’s-40’s. Now the thing with young men, is, I REALLY believe the majority of them do not want actual relationships.
Dating for men is way different than it is for women. Even growing up, a man is taught that his goal in life is to acquire status and fortunes. That is what every good man strives for- success. Now when it comes to dating, especially during the college years, I believe the reason why most relationships do not work out, is because how they came about.
Men are fairly simple creatures. They want good company and conversation, they want someone they can really be their TRUE selves around, they want a woman who will feed them and rock their worlds in the sack. Simple enough, but it’s usually never accomplished, because most of them can NEVER be their true selves around their women. And most of them resent the fact that they can’t do so.
Most men feel inadequate in this world. Which is why they lie about their status, how much they make, where they work and the such. The media, society and women do not make it any better. It’s hard out there for a Pimp! Lol… With all the images of dudes ballin out with hella hoes all over the tv screen, men in turn realize that the fastest way to get women, is to ball out. And they are right, some women are so shallow, all it takes it a dude with a nice car and clothes, and she’s dick ridin him hella hard!
What they do not realize though, is that those types of women, are truly the ones you should stay away from, because in essence, she’s with you for what you have- not who you are. This is the main way that men in turn, constantly feel used by women but like I always say- STOP trying to play Captain Save a Hoe to hoes that don’t wanna be saved. We also have loads of women who will verbalize and are very vocal about being with broke busters, so as a man, he has to step it up and he realizes that in order to get women, he must either acquire status… or lie about it. Which usually works!
Now, most men get caught up in the PUSSY=POWER extravaganza, only because they are thirsty, regular or Submissive males. An Alpha male, NEVER gets caught up, because there are no games. When dating, as a man, you usually have to pick a place, pay for it and entertain your chick. You also have to listen attentively and offer your two cents when it is asked of you. Now if you actually like this girl and want to really be with her, that is all fine and dandy. But I believe most of the men who are my peers, are not on this level yet.
You see, when men are in their prime, they aren’t trying to settle down. The ones that do, either have low self-esteems or aren’t getting any buns on the regular. I have surveyed more than a few dozen men, and when asked this question, 95% of them responded as I’d hoped.
The sample question was this… “Forget everything you know about society and dating- throw it out the window. Now if you had the choice, what would you chose? You could either be in a relationship with one girl, or you could be single and guaranteed sex, no strings ever, with as many women as you’d like- most women would never deny you. In fact, 9 outta 10 times, if you approach a girl for some ass, she’d say YES.”
Most men, picked the single option. So ladies are right in a sense… Most men, only DO want one thing. And if they could get it, they would have no reason to be in a relationship, until they got older, their testosterone levels dropped, and they finally know what they want. Most men, don’t want all the things that come with a relationship. Sure, they’d like the company and the pussy, but most men hate all the drama that comes along with that pussy.
What is funny about my sample question, is that men would love to live this type of way, almost never being denied. If they were almost never denied, they wouldn’t have a reason to settle down. The question though is derived from the way women are in this world. Women actually DO have this option, the option of either being taken or single and almost never denied dick. If women wanted, they COULD live this way, most just choose not to. Most have never thought about it that way… Drool Boys, I know you’re HATIN! Lol
So for men, the regular and Submissive’s, being that they usual work hard for the pussy- they have their own issues to attend to. Many of them have been rejected and in turn, they have low self-esteems. What is funny is that many of them, will settle with the first girl who is willing to give them ass on the regular! That is why they wanna lock that shit down. Not necessarily because they want to be in a relationship, but because they don’t have many options when it comes to sex partners and you come along and fuck em on the regular. That alone makes many men settle.
So, it’s is not necessarily that he wants to get serious and wants all the drama that comes with being with a most women (bitches are crazy lol), because he’d really rather go without it. Men being the easy creatures that they are, usually have very little will power, and will usually not deny a girl some of his dick- especially if he’s attracted to her. They have and exhibit very little self-control when faced with the scenario I previously stated. So, if men actually had it the way women did when it comes to those options, relationships probably wouldn’t start until people were in their late 20’s.
Now when men date women, it is all about the front, mainly because you have no idea what kind of chick you are with. Many men will sit there, front, and lie about what they have, like a peacock parading around proudly showing his colorful feathers, in hopes of attracting a mate. This is mainly because the media and bitches make it hard for a man to get and attract women, if you’re not balling out. So most men will lie about all that shit, in hopes of impressing a girl enough.
Sure, many men DO just want pussy. Some will be forthcoming and many more, will be sneaky about the whole thing. The main thing they like to say is “I just wanna get to know you”… that is also about the only thing they really say. So if he says some shit like that, then it’s definitely all about the pussy. And sure, he may take you out on a few dates, but he’s usually trying to get that by the 3rd or 4th date. If he doesn’t get it, many of them move on. But for some, you have become a challenge that they have accepted, and they will then do almost anything to get that pussy. Even if it means getting into a relationship with you.
Men who are serious about a woman, will take their time, and show her the upmost respect… even if he’s extra attracted to her and has already fucked her 50 times in his mind. He is chivalrous, and most importantly, he will court you properly. Men who have reached this stage, are serious about settling down, and they usually know exactly what they want and what they expect from their woman. Men will ONLY get to this stage on their own- and no amount of persuading, or pussy, will change that.
Now men in relationships, we’re gunna break it down into two sections- real and fake relationships. Fake relationships are what many men have in their teens and early 20’s. I say they are fake because most of them, if they had the chance to fuck any chick they want at any time- most would chose to do so over a relationship any day! So men in fake relationships, sure lots of them don’t care and many will lie and cheat. Many of them can’t stand their girlfriends- but, it is constant pussy, so many of them stay… Until something better comes along that is.
Now men in real relationships, who actually know what they want and want to settle down- those are gems. Those are the “good men” women claim they seek. What most men have to deal with in relationships is crazy though. Like I said before, most men, want more than anything to be able to be himself around you. He wants to be able to break down the walls and relax. Most of them can’t though, because the type of women they are with, never allows that to happen.
These men may stay around, like I said, many of them stay for the constant pussy, but many of them start to resent their other halves. It gets tiring and annoying, when you can never be real with the person you love. It also gets tiring and annoying, when it becomes a project every time you are real with a bitch. Like I said men are ill equipped and women DO NOT make it easy. Believe me when I say that some of your boyfriends and husbands deserve head all night long, just for putting up with your crazy ass shit.
Now on to sex, my favorite topic of course ;) I felt the need to address this area when it comes to men because this is something that is never talked about, and I feel that women SHOULD know this. Any woman who have ever strapped up, and fucked someone, can sympathize and will know what the fuck I’m talking about. Men spend an enormous amount of energy and strength, just to fuck you right. The amount of work that men do, the stamina that some of them have- I COMMEND YOU! Women REALLY don’t know what it is like to fuck like a man, so if your man is fucking you right… treat him nice, he works hard!
Sure, there are MANY men who don’t fuck their women right, if they did, more women would know what the Big O REALLY feels like. But like I stated before there are advantages AND disadvantages to being a beast in the sheets. If you are serious about your chick, and you want to keep her at bay- BLOW HER BACK OUT! That shit will calm her ass down, seriously, I promise. Women who are sexually happy, only become more enthralled with their men, and the power their pussy has over the situation breaks. I’ll explain more about what happens in the next blog when I break down Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
Now the negative impact that this can have, is if you are doing you’re woman wrong. If you do her wrong, or plan on doing so, please, DO NOT fuck her all crazy. I swear that the craziness levels in women increase, the better you fuck them. So if you blow her back out, and then do her dirty- she WILL make your life a living hell. And it’s mainly because she is PISSED you gave away that good dick- I don’t entirely blame her.
In conclusion, men are simple creatures, they want to be able to be themselves and they want a woman to fuck them right. Sure, many of them lie just to get to the pussy, but women don’t make it easy for a regular man to get some action too. They work hard, just as hard as women and harder in the sack (some of them), so for a woman to feel entitled to his ends- get a new hustle Gold Digger… its 2010. Sure, many of them don’t even want relationships, many of them are “trapped” into relationships, JUST cuz you give them pussy on the regular. Most don’t know what it is they want yet, but one day he will- hopefully.
Until next time kiddies… Stay tuned for the breakdown of societies Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
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Monday, December 6, 2010
MODERN DATING: The Bitches Edition
Modern dating from a woman’s perspective, is where we go today. You see women are beautiful and fragile creatures, some with emotions grander than the oceans themselves. Women can be delicate, they can be impulsive, they can be irrational, and they can be crazy. I’m gunna try to tell you why though and let you in on a few things that most women do and what they don’t want you to know. How they work and what makes these bitches tick.
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Hoes Vs. Sexually Liberated Women
Women…. Statistically, we out number men easily 3 to 1... Women also live longer. Why is that we don’t rule the world? We could easily take over everything, and kick men out of positions of power…. So why don’t we?
Well… lately I’ve been thinking about this very topic more and more. The more I educate myself and reflect on history; the more I realize how fucked up we’re living. As time has gone by, women have fought for rights that were denied to us even a hundred years ago. So we now have rights and are to be seen as “equals” to men… now what?
I’d like to reflect on history and begin to analyze where and why women began being treated in such a fashion. Hmmm… not to go far too much, lets start with Medieval times, and the Dark Ages- for they were fairly dark… especially for women. Women were seen as emotional creatures… something they are still seen as today. But I found the way they described the women of the time fascinating.
Women were easily swayed and tempted by the devil… They also were said to have insatiable sex drives and for this, were seen as evil and products of the devil. They were to remain virgins in order to preserve the name and honor of her family. She was to be humble, devout and motherly. Now this all ties into religion as well… because religion back then was EVERYTHING. If you disobeyed what had been written, you were most certainly going to be condemned to Hades.
This is what I think REALLY happened. Men… know now and forever, that PUSSY runs the world. Many of wars have been fought over just that- PUSSY! Women have power in their panties, and most women don’t even know of the power that they TRULY have. Pussy has the ability to make a man dumb as shit, it has the ability to make him want to spend all his money, it can make him become estranged from family and friends, it can make him KILL someone. Sorry to tell you, but that is how powerful pussy is… some men would do ANYTHING for it.
Now the reason why men go all gaga over pussy is because logically speaking… Men have a way harder time getting laid then women do. The men who have acquired “game” and those that look good enough to eat… need not apply- you guys get the pussy thrown at you…. But, for the everyday Joe, pussy is a quest… If you don’t believe me, think about it like this- the UGLIEST, FATTEST bitch in the world, would STILL get dick, before the UGLIEST man got some pussy. Why? Men are ALWAYS down to fuck something… and most niccas don’t give a shit- especially when now, you can officially blame it on the alcohol!
Now, when it comes to getting laid…. Women have NO problem. The only thing that holds women back is their NEED to have a mental/emotional connection with the person they’re sleeping with. Real talk though…. To all the bitches that BITCH and COMPLAIN they ain’t getting laid- LOOK AROUND BITCH! Pick one, any one you want, maybe some eye candy … and 9 out of 10 times… he’s down… Bitches, stop DEPRIVING yourself of dick, and LEARN to fuck and detach feelings when doing so. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself which equals confidence; besides, you’re a MEGA bitch when you ain’t getting laid!
That is a MAIN difference in sex when it comes to men and women. Women are mental and emotional, and men are visual and physical. Women, you need to know that YOU hold the power, and if you see something you like… There’s nothing wrong with sampling different cookies in the jar. Plus, it gives you more experience and when you’re married and 40, you won’t REGRET not fucking the shit outta that sexy man 20 yrs ago.
Back to the oppression of women back in time… So what I think happened, is some MAN figured out what I just explained. PUSSY IS POWER! He figured it out and said “Oh Shit! What we gunna do, women ain’t running shit”, Why? Because men are territorial and egotistical. And at that point in time, they would of rather died, than let a WOMAN tell them about religion, politics, family or anything that involved deeper thinking skills. And…. So began the oppression of women and the double-standards that we until today carry in society.
In order to keep the women of those times in “check” and obedient… what they did was tie in RELIGION! These women were scared to do or say anything for a long time, because they believed that in doing so, they were going to HELL! The men of these times can be summed up in two words- DOUCHE BAGS!
How has times changed? Eh, while women carry many rights today that our sisters failed to have so many years ago; women are still seen in an inferior light as opposed to men. We still carry many double-standards today that existed back then as well. Double-standards that were MADE by who? MEN!
It’s crazy how much the times have changed. Women are coming up in the world, but who knows if we will ever be TRULY seen as “equals”. This can not be blamed on just one sex though. Women and men alike have fair involvement in making it what it is today. Women…. Some of you play that damsel in distress card a little too much, we’re living in 2009- get independent bitch! Men… Some of you have the audacity to judge a women for things she has done sexually, but believe it is quite all right for men to fuck everything that walks! Until everyone learns to keep an open mind and be none judgmental… the world will cease to be this way and women will be oppressed.
Women… I must address you first on this one, because frankly if you didn’t know- WOMEN are the WORST ENEMIES of other WOMEN. Seriously, we are… and you hater ass bitches KNOW who you are deep inside. It’s crazy how women could plot so deviously against other women. And it’s ridiculous that women get MAD when they see another woman doing BETTER than she is.
If you see another woman out there doing good for herself, you should be HAPPY for her. She should serve as your MOTIVATION! Hey, if SHE can do it, then so can YOU! I’m so tired of bitches hating on other bitches. You have the EXACT SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I DO… If you don’t make it work out for yourself- that’s on you dumb ass. But don’t hate on me and mine when I’m doing better than you!
Next, is how green with ENVY a bitch will get when she sees that you have a “good” man. Of course she’ll compliment you two as a couple, but secretly, she plots to steal that “good” man for herself. You sniveling, conniving, desperate sewer RATS! Be happy that your friend has gotten herself a good man, and STOP trying to take what’s not yours. You bitches help contribute to the struggle that we, as women are in. You get NO RESPECT. And remember this you GREEDY BITCH- if he cheated WITH you, then he will cheat ON you. Don’t act all surprised when that shit happens, you set yourself up lovely for that one!
Which brings me to the bitches who fuck the men of other women. You bitches are despicable and are at the extreme bottom of the food chain. It is one thing to fuck a man who lied to you about a girlfriend and/or wife, that’s his fault- you didn’t know. Now when you find out… CUT IT OFF. Have some dignity and morals. To the leeches who KNOW that a man is in a relationship… You help contribute to cheating, the breaking of families, and more seriously the hate and jealousy that shadows all women. I’d like to take this moment to say- FUCK YOU! You have no morals, values or a conscience… You, get that “Scum of the Earth” classification.
Another thing, bitches… Stop being STUPID! If your man cheated on you… your beef is NOT with the tramp he cheated with. It is with him! Unless you know the bitch, then you can whip her ass on principle alone… but if you DO NOT know the female, leave her ass out of it. HE is the ENEMY, NOT HER! I see so many bitches fighting over niccas that ain’t worth a DIME, stop playing yourself! He ain’t Reggie Bush, Denzel or Usher… and even then you shouldn’t be fighting over a damn man. Stop letting MEN put women against each other… that’s what he wants, just so you’ll forget that HE’S THE ONE THAT CHEATED!
*sigh… Back to equality, one of the main reasons I believe that men DO NOT take women seriously is because BITCHES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Really though, women want to be seen as equals, yet at the same time want special consideration because why? She’s a woman. Make up your fucking minds… You can be equal and INDEPENDENT or you can be seen as the inferior damsel in distress… You can only chose one!
Enough about the catty bitches that roam the earth… on to the DOGS! Men, for as long as history tells… You have oppressed women and honestly, I don’t all the way blame you. Women ARE emotionally unstable creatures who don’t know what the hell they want- well, MOST of them. And yea, they may fuck important shit up, who knows. But, what I DO NOT agree with are the double-standards that have come from this oppression.
In early times, women would be killed by her father and/or brothers if she were found to not be a virgin before she was married. This was done to preserve the honor of her family. Ok, WTF is that about? Marriages were arranged, and husbands were “brought”. If you had money, you could buy your daughter a great husband. Women were not a part of her fathers inheritance, and they were almost invisible in a sense to society. They held no class, instead they were seen as whatever class their fathers or husbands were in.
For centuries, men held on tightly to the reins they had invisibly and secretively thrown over women. Women worked hard to tend their homes and first and foremost, bear and raise children. Now, although women have come a long way from these dark times, some things are still alive today. One thing in particular is the double-standard of sexual escapades.
It is the year 2009, why is it that forever, men have been able to fuck WHOEVER they want… and they can fuck as MANY women they want- yet, they are NOT seen as the whores that they are? Instead, they get a pat on the back because they’re “the man”. Honestly, the world needs to WAKE THE FUCK UP! If men can do it, so can women- and women are none the lesser for it. Women have wants and needs as well, and seriously, women want to fuck JUST AS MUCH as men do. They don’t though, because they don’t want to be seen as “whores, hoes, sluts, etc.”
This is a new century, and women need to come out of those shells and get THEIR FUCK ON! There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with fucking more than a fixed amount of men. You only get one life and you should live it to the fullest. Wild the fuck out, before you run off, get married and end up a desperate housewife. When you look back, you should say “wow, I had fun” not “damn, I should of done that when I had the chance”. Most women get hung up on emotions and sex, but IT IS possible to have emotionless sex. Get with the times bitches!
Now, I’m NOT saying to go fuck every man you see. What I AM saying though is, if you REALLY want to fuck… What other people may think of you, should not be a factor. There are differences between a SEXUALLY LIBERATED woman, and a HOE! A sexually liberated woman knows the following things:
- Some sexual acts are intimate and should only be done with those special to your heart. So, sucking off every nicca on the block… is a hoeish activity.
- When you fuck two men within the same social circle, they WILL talk about your ass. So… fucking two brothers, cousins, best friends or participating in a free for all train… is a hoeish activity.
-There are hundreds of diseases in this world and sex should be done SAFELY. So, fucking and sucking raw… is a hoeish activity.
- A sexually liberated woman is confidant and knows she can get any man, and doesn’t want the ones that are already taken- even if they want her. Fucking another woman’s man is not just CLASSLESS… it is a hoeish activity.
Hmmm… Some women REALLY are hoes and they conduct themselves as much. But there are other women who just enjoy indulging in sex, and lots of it. These women should not be seen as “hoes”, when in all actuality, they are not committing any “hoeish” crimes. They just want to experience new things and people… and they SHOULD NOT be treated as the nasty, devious RATS that are REAL hoes.
Men’s main argument with why women shouldn’t have as many sexual partners is this… “Your pussy is going to be all loose”. Well, I’d like to yell BULLSHIT! The vagina is a WONDROUS invention, for you see, it is like pure ELASTIC. Women have the ability to push out something 10 cm. and above in diameter and guess what? The pussy SNAPS back to its original form. Seriously, if a bitch can push out babies and NOT be loose… I HIGHLY DOUBT some dick is going to knock the walls off that shit.
Blah… This has proven to be a lot longer than I thought it would be, so I’m a wrap this shit up. Women, we have come a long way and have fought for RIGHTS. Women protested, burned bras and FOUGHT for us to be seen as EQUALS. But seriously, bitches are FREMENEMIES to other bitches. STOP HATIN and stop letting men RUN YOUR SHIT!
It is 2009, ain’t nothing wrong with FUCKIN and enjoying sex… as long as you ain’t participating in HOEISH activities. Lastly, HOW can you expect MEN to treat us as EQUALS when we ourselves can’t treat each other with RESPECT! Men… KNOW that there is a DIFFERENCE between a sexually liberated woman and a hoe. And real talk, most of you can’t talk shit anyways, because in all actuality, you are the one who is a HOE. And lastly, if you REALLY think women’s pussies stretch out the more men they fuck- you’re a DE-DE-DE! Granted, like dicks, vaginal canals come in all shapes and sizes… But chances are if she can push out something as big as 10 cm. and it STILL snap back… NO amount of dick can do damage… And, did it ever occur to you that she’s not really loose? Maybe, you’re just REALLY small… Whomp, Whomp…
Until next time kiddies….
Well… lately I’ve been thinking about this very topic more and more. The more I educate myself and reflect on history; the more I realize how fucked up we’re living. As time has gone by, women have fought for rights that were denied to us even a hundred years ago. So we now have rights and are to be seen as “equals” to men… now what?
I’d like to reflect on history and begin to analyze where and why women began being treated in such a fashion. Hmmm… not to go far too much, lets start with Medieval times, and the Dark Ages- for they were fairly dark… especially for women. Women were seen as emotional creatures… something they are still seen as today. But I found the way they described the women of the time fascinating.
Women were easily swayed and tempted by the devil… They also were said to have insatiable sex drives and for this, were seen as evil and products of the devil. They were to remain virgins in order to preserve the name and honor of her family. She was to be humble, devout and motherly. Now this all ties into religion as well… because religion back then was EVERYTHING. If you disobeyed what had been written, you were most certainly going to be condemned to Hades.
This is what I think REALLY happened. Men… know now and forever, that PUSSY runs the world. Many of wars have been fought over just that- PUSSY! Women have power in their panties, and most women don’t even know of the power that they TRULY have. Pussy has the ability to make a man dumb as shit, it has the ability to make him want to spend all his money, it can make him become estranged from family and friends, it can make him KILL someone. Sorry to tell you, but that is how powerful pussy is… some men would do ANYTHING for it.
Now the reason why men go all gaga over pussy is because logically speaking… Men have a way harder time getting laid then women do. The men who have acquired “game” and those that look good enough to eat… need not apply- you guys get the pussy thrown at you…. But, for the everyday Joe, pussy is a quest… If you don’t believe me, think about it like this- the UGLIEST, FATTEST bitch in the world, would STILL get dick, before the UGLIEST man got some pussy. Why? Men are ALWAYS down to fuck something… and most niccas don’t give a shit- especially when now, you can officially blame it on the alcohol!
Now, when it comes to getting laid…. Women have NO problem. The only thing that holds women back is their NEED to have a mental/emotional connection with the person they’re sleeping with. Real talk though…. To all the bitches that BITCH and COMPLAIN they ain’t getting laid- LOOK AROUND BITCH! Pick one, any one you want, maybe some eye candy … and 9 out of 10 times… he’s down… Bitches, stop DEPRIVING yourself of dick, and LEARN to fuck and detach feelings when doing so. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself which equals confidence; besides, you’re a MEGA bitch when you ain’t getting laid!
That is a MAIN difference in sex when it comes to men and women. Women are mental and emotional, and men are visual and physical. Women, you need to know that YOU hold the power, and if you see something you like… There’s nothing wrong with sampling different cookies in the jar. Plus, it gives you more experience and when you’re married and 40, you won’t REGRET not fucking the shit outta that sexy man 20 yrs ago.
Back to the oppression of women back in time… So what I think happened, is some MAN figured out what I just explained. PUSSY IS POWER! He figured it out and said “Oh Shit! What we gunna do, women ain’t running shit”, Why? Because men are territorial and egotistical. And at that point in time, they would of rather died, than let a WOMAN tell them about religion, politics, family or anything that involved deeper thinking skills. And…. So began the oppression of women and the double-standards that we until today carry in society.
In order to keep the women of those times in “check” and obedient… what they did was tie in RELIGION! These women were scared to do or say anything for a long time, because they believed that in doing so, they were going to HELL! The men of these times can be summed up in two words- DOUCHE BAGS!
How has times changed? Eh, while women carry many rights today that our sisters failed to have so many years ago; women are still seen in an inferior light as opposed to men. We still carry many double-standards today that existed back then as well. Double-standards that were MADE by who? MEN!
It’s crazy how much the times have changed. Women are coming up in the world, but who knows if we will ever be TRULY seen as “equals”. This can not be blamed on just one sex though. Women and men alike have fair involvement in making it what it is today. Women…. Some of you play that damsel in distress card a little too much, we’re living in 2009- get independent bitch! Men… Some of you have the audacity to judge a women for things she has done sexually, but believe it is quite all right for men to fuck everything that walks! Until everyone learns to keep an open mind and be none judgmental… the world will cease to be this way and women will be oppressed.
Women… I must address you first on this one, because frankly if you didn’t know- WOMEN are the WORST ENEMIES of other WOMEN. Seriously, we are… and you hater ass bitches KNOW who you are deep inside. It’s crazy how women could plot so deviously against other women. And it’s ridiculous that women get MAD when they see another woman doing BETTER than she is.
If you see another woman out there doing good for herself, you should be HAPPY for her. She should serve as your MOTIVATION! Hey, if SHE can do it, then so can YOU! I’m so tired of bitches hating on other bitches. You have the EXACT SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I DO… If you don’t make it work out for yourself- that’s on you dumb ass. But don’t hate on me and mine when I’m doing better than you!
Next, is how green with ENVY a bitch will get when she sees that you have a “good” man. Of course she’ll compliment you two as a couple, but secretly, she plots to steal that “good” man for herself. You sniveling, conniving, desperate sewer RATS! Be happy that your friend has gotten herself a good man, and STOP trying to take what’s not yours. You bitches help contribute to the struggle that we, as women are in. You get NO RESPECT. And remember this you GREEDY BITCH- if he cheated WITH you, then he will cheat ON you. Don’t act all surprised when that shit happens, you set yourself up lovely for that one!
Which brings me to the bitches who fuck the men of other women. You bitches are despicable and are at the extreme bottom of the food chain. It is one thing to fuck a man who lied to you about a girlfriend and/or wife, that’s his fault- you didn’t know. Now when you find out… CUT IT OFF. Have some dignity and morals. To the leeches who KNOW that a man is in a relationship… You help contribute to cheating, the breaking of families, and more seriously the hate and jealousy that shadows all women. I’d like to take this moment to say- FUCK YOU! You have no morals, values or a conscience… You, get that “Scum of the Earth” classification.
Another thing, bitches… Stop being STUPID! If your man cheated on you… your beef is NOT with the tramp he cheated with. It is with him! Unless you know the bitch, then you can whip her ass on principle alone… but if you DO NOT know the female, leave her ass out of it. HE is the ENEMY, NOT HER! I see so many bitches fighting over niccas that ain’t worth a DIME, stop playing yourself! He ain’t Reggie Bush, Denzel or Usher… and even then you shouldn’t be fighting over a damn man. Stop letting MEN put women against each other… that’s what he wants, just so you’ll forget that HE’S THE ONE THAT CHEATED!
*sigh… Back to equality, one of the main reasons I believe that men DO NOT take women seriously is because BITCHES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Really though, women want to be seen as equals, yet at the same time want special consideration because why? She’s a woman. Make up your fucking minds… You can be equal and INDEPENDENT or you can be seen as the inferior damsel in distress… You can only chose one!
Enough about the catty bitches that roam the earth… on to the DOGS! Men, for as long as history tells… You have oppressed women and honestly, I don’t all the way blame you. Women ARE emotionally unstable creatures who don’t know what the hell they want- well, MOST of them. And yea, they may fuck important shit up, who knows. But, what I DO NOT agree with are the double-standards that have come from this oppression.
In early times, women would be killed by her father and/or brothers if she were found to not be a virgin before she was married. This was done to preserve the honor of her family. Ok, WTF is that about? Marriages were arranged, and husbands were “brought”. If you had money, you could buy your daughter a great husband. Women were not a part of her fathers inheritance, and they were almost invisible in a sense to society. They held no class, instead they were seen as whatever class their fathers or husbands were in.
For centuries, men held on tightly to the reins they had invisibly and secretively thrown over women. Women worked hard to tend their homes and first and foremost, bear and raise children. Now, although women have come a long way from these dark times, some things are still alive today. One thing in particular is the double-standard of sexual escapades.
It is the year 2009, why is it that forever, men have been able to fuck WHOEVER they want… and they can fuck as MANY women they want- yet, they are NOT seen as the whores that they are? Instead, they get a pat on the back because they’re “the man”. Honestly, the world needs to WAKE THE FUCK UP! If men can do it, so can women- and women are none the lesser for it. Women have wants and needs as well, and seriously, women want to fuck JUST AS MUCH as men do. They don’t though, because they don’t want to be seen as “whores, hoes, sluts, etc.”
This is a new century, and women need to come out of those shells and get THEIR FUCK ON! There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with fucking more than a fixed amount of men. You only get one life and you should live it to the fullest. Wild the fuck out, before you run off, get married and end up a desperate housewife. When you look back, you should say “wow, I had fun” not “damn, I should of done that when I had the chance”. Most women get hung up on emotions and sex, but IT IS possible to have emotionless sex. Get with the times bitches!
Now, I’m NOT saying to go fuck every man you see. What I AM saying though is, if you REALLY want to fuck… What other people may think of you, should not be a factor. There are differences between a SEXUALLY LIBERATED woman, and a HOE! A sexually liberated woman knows the following things:
- Some sexual acts are intimate and should only be done with those special to your heart. So, sucking off every nicca on the block… is a hoeish activity.
- When you fuck two men within the same social circle, they WILL talk about your ass. So… fucking two brothers, cousins, best friends or participating in a free for all train… is a hoeish activity.
-There are hundreds of diseases in this world and sex should be done SAFELY. So, fucking and sucking raw… is a hoeish activity.
- A sexually liberated woman is confidant and knows she can get any man, and doesn’t want the ones that are already taken- even if they want her. Fucking another woman’s man is not just CLASSLESS… it is a hoeish activity.
Hmmm… Some women REALLY are hoes and they conduct themselves as much. But there are other women who just enjoy indulging in sex, and lots of it. These women should not be seen as “hoes”, when in all actuality, they are not committing any “hoeish” crimes. They just want to experience new things and people… and they SHOULD NOT be treated as the nasty, devious RATS that are REAL hoes.
Men’s main argument with why women shouldn’t have as many sexual partners is this… “Your pussy is going to be all loose”. Well, I’d like to yell BULLSHIT! The vagina is a WONDROUS invention, for you see, it is like pure ELASTIC. Women have the ability to push out something 10 cm. and above in diameter and guess what? The pussy SNAPS back to its original form. Seriously, if a bitch can push out babies and NOT be loose… I HIGHLY DOUBT some dick is going to knock the walls off that shit.
Blah… This has proven to be a lot longer than I thought it would be, so I’m a wrap this shit up. Women, we have come a long way and have fought for RIGHTS. Women protested, burned bras and FOUGHT for us to be seen as EQUALS. But seriously, bitches are FREMENEMIES to other bitches. STOP HATIN and stop letting men RUN YOUR SHIT!
It is 2009, ain’t nothing wrong with FUCKIN and enjoying sex… as long as you ain’t participating in HOEISH activities. Lastly, HOW can you expect MEN to treat us as EQUALS when we ourselves can’t treat each other with RESPECT! Men… KNOW that there is a DIFFERENCE between a sexually liberated woman and a hoe. And real talk, most of you can’t talk shit anyways, because in all actuality, you are the one who is a HOE. And lastly, if you REALLY think women’s pussies stretch out the more men they fuck- you’re a DE-DE-DE! Granted, like dicks, vaginal canals come in all shapes and sizes… But chances are if she can push out something as big as 10 cm. and it STILL snap back… NO amount of dick can do damage… And, did it ever occur to you that she’s not really loose? Maybe, you’re just REALLY small… Whomp, Whomp…
Until next time kiddies….
Captain Save a Hoe!
So… Captain Save a Hoe, what does this mean in essence? Well, according to Urbandictionary.com, Captain Save a Hoe is:
1. Derived from a 1993 rap song by rapper E-40 about the adventures of a Financial Savior to under privileged inner city hood rats.
2. A Gold Digger's dream. A man that will drop dimes on you (i.e. get your hair and nails done, take care of your child, pay your bills).
Ok, so lets go with number 2... A GOLD DIGGERS DREAM. Now, the elusive gold digger has many forms and DON’T get that shit twisted cuz MEN are GOLD DIGGERS too. How do you recognize a gold digger?
First of all, whether it’s a man or a woman, gold diggers are usually BROKE… as hell. Like, don’t got two nickels to rub together broke. Secondly, know that they are the BEST LIARS, and do so CHRONICALLY! I like to believe that they lie so much, they actually believe their own lies. Lastly, they tend to play the VICTIM role… and some of them could win a Oscar’s for their damn performances.
They get in your head and play that good FRIEND role, they feed you their sob story… share dreams and goals with you, make it seem like they DO have their shit together…but what they really are, are the MASTERS of MANIPULATION. And, because they have now gotten you to CARE… you are right where they want you. Why? Because when you CARE, you are MORE LIKELY to help them out… when their certain situations arise.
So, when RECOGNIZING a gold digger look for certain signs- like if you go out and they never have money and they make hints at wanting certain things. There are also those who are SCAVENGERS when you go out with them, and they don’t ever got money to drink or smoke… but they’re always STRATEGICALLY there when blunts and bottles are being passed around. These people have a large social network because they need to have SEVERAL options. They are also like LEECHES and will suck you dry for everything you have right before they leave you for someone else who has what they want and/or needs.
Now, there are some dudes… who play their position right and by some MIRACLE get women to buy them shit. They talk a good game and usually LIE like their ass depends on it (and sometimes it does). They make these women DELUSIONAL… and then, RAPE their pockets. I would like to address those men by first saying: YOU’RE A MAN! MAN THE FUCK UP! Stop being a lil bitch, in all actuality, that is what you are doing… pulling a BITCH move and you get NO respect for that.
These men are usually SURROUNDED (but not always) by others of his kind… DOGS run in packs. They usually look good, smell good and act right, but it is ALL a FRONT! In all actuality, they are broke, but you usually don’t find that out until later. Now when you do ladies, KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB… I don’t know about you broads, but I REFUSE to take care of a GROWN ASS MAN. He is NOT handicapped, therefore, if I can bust my ass for mine, SO CAN YOU NICCA!
Women, we are in 2009... And therefore, your ass SHOULD BE independent. I always had a problem with depending on other people: 1. Because if you need something done right, you have to do it yourself and 2. Because NOTHING in this world is free, and I NEVER want to feel like I OWE someone something. So, I totally believe that things should be 50/50. Ladies have some remorse for the brothers, they work JUST as hard for their cash… and shouldn’t HAVE TO spend it all on your ass.
On to women who are gold diggers… I’ve seen bitches get dudes to pay for everything- and all the man got was a KISS. For one, brother, STOP BEING STUPID. If a bitch wanna fuck you, she’s gunna REGARDLESS of how much money you shell out. So stop trying to pay to play, most of the bitches you spend YOUR hard earned cash on… DO NOT even wanna fuck you. So, find someone else who DOES… even though, I know some dudes are really dumb enough to put themselves out there and offer it. For being a DUMB ASS… lmao, YOU DESERVE IT! Stop telling bitches how much you make in hopes of impressing her… REAL WOMEN, are NOT impressed by your bank account.
To the VICTIMS of gold diggers… I cannot address a certain gender, as this is 2009, and men are JUST as bad as the bitches are. STOP playing captain save a hoe. If you don’t know that’s your ROLE, take a good look at the person you fucking with… some examples:
- If you cant really ever think of a time THEY got YOU something…
- If you feel like they ALWAYS are asking for shit, and you get nothing in return… and NO sex doesn’t fucking count… (I know some of you think it does)
- If their ass ALWAYS smoking and drinking YOUR shit, and they NEVER got shit of their own…. (and they don’t even got 5 on it or go buy the damn blunt)…
If you said yes, to any one of these above- you may very well be a CAPTAIN SAVE A HOE! What to do now? Drop that broke ass mofo.
Next, on my agenda… I must address the other type of Captain Save a Hoe… cuz in my opinion too many damn people are out trying to save hoes that DO NOT want to be saved. Men and women do it… I’d say that women do it waaaaay more though.
Women like a challenge and like to play “fix it”. What do I say about that?? If its broken, chances are YOU can’t fix it. Women preoccupy themselves with what I like to call “PROJECTS” and she meets a man who is less than up to par, but she kinda likes him and what does she say? “He’ll change”… Bitch, your fucking delusional! The way you met that man is the way he will stay, unless HE wants to change. Who are you to think you can play GOD and change anything or anyone? A change comes from within a person, and it CANNOT be swayed by the opinions or actions of another person. If he’s a BUM ASS NICCA and shows no motivation or ambition… his ass DO NOT wanna change. Which means, cut your loses and MOVE ON.
I am so TIRED of bitches who think they can change a man… if he was a HOEIN ASS NICCA when you met him, what makes you think YOU can change that? And let’s not even start on the bitches who FUCK a dude in a RELATIONSHIP. Ok, so he left her and now he with you. Now, what makes you think YOUR special… if he cheated WITH you, he will cheat ON you… if you think not… YOUR FUCKIN IGNORANT, and don’t cry when his ass FUCK your best friend.
See… people, you set yourself UP FOR FAILURE. If you’re fucking with a person who you LIKE, then HOP OFF that shit when you see RED FLAGS. Most of you don’t hop off the bandwagon, because you hope they will change, or that you can HELP them change… but true story- THAT SHIT AINT HAPPENING. So stop wasting PRECIOUS TIME on “PROJECTS”… Time is money.
So… what have we learned today? 1. If you taking care of someone else- your not ONLY a CAPTAIN SAVE a HOE, you’re also a SUCKER MC! 2. If its BROKEN, don’t FIX it… and 3. You all need to stop setting yourself up to FAIL. You will NEVER be happy that way.
Until next time kids…
1. Derived from a 1993 rap song by rapper E-40 about the adventures of a Financial Savior to under privileged inner city hood rats.
2. A Gold Digger's dream. A man that will drop dimes on you (i.e. get your hair and nails done, take care of your child, pay your bills).
Ok, so lets go with number 2... A GOLD DIGGERS DREAM. Now, the elusive gold digger has many forms and DON’T get that shit twisted cuz MEN are GOLD DIGGERS too. How do you recognize a gold digger?
First of all, whether it’s a man or a woman, gold diggers are usually BROKE… as hell. Like, don’t got two nickels to rub together broke. Secondly, know that they are the BEST LIARS, and do so CHRONICALLY! I like to believe that they lie so much, they actually believe their own lies. Lastly, they tend to play the VICTIM role… and some of them could win a Oscar’s for their damn performances.
They get in your head and play that good FRIEND role, they feed you their sob story… share dreams and goals with you, make it seem like they DO have their shit together…but what they really are, are the MASTERS of MANIPULATION. And, because they have now gotten you to CARE… you are right where they want you. Why? Because when you CARE, you are MORE LIKELY to help them out… when their certain situations arise.
So, when RECOGNIZING a gold digger look for certain signs- like if you go out and they never have money and they make hints at wanting certain things. There are also those who are SCAVENGERS when you go out with them, and they don’t ever got money to drink or smoke… but they’re always STRATEGICALLY there when blunts and bottles are being passed around. These people have a large social network because they need to have SEVERAL options. They are also like LEECHES and will suck you dry for everything you have right before they leave you for someone else who has what they want and/or needs.
Now, there are some dudes… who play their position right and by some MIRACLE get women to buy them shit. They talk a good game and usually LIE like their ass depends on it (and sometimes it does). They make these women DELUSIONAL… and then, RAPE their pockets. I would like to address those men by first saying: YOU’RE A MAN! MAN THE FUCK UP! Stop being a lil bitch, in all actuality, that is what you are doing… pulling a BITCH move and you get NO respect for that.
These men are usually SURROUNDED (but not always) by others of his kind… DOGS run in packs. They usually look good, smell good and act right, but it is ALL a FRONT! In all actuality, they are broke, but you usually don’t find that out until later. Now when you do ladies, KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB… I don’t know about you broads, but I REFUSE to take care of a GROWN ASS MAN. He is NOT handicapped, therefore, if I can bust my ass for mine, SO CAN YOU NICCA!
Women, we are in 2009... And therefore, your ass SHOULD BE independent. I always had a problem with depending on other people: 1. Because if you need something done right, you have to do it yourself and 2. Because NOTHING in this world is free, and I NEVER want to feel like I OWE someone something. So, I totally believe that things should be 50/50. Ladies have some remorse for the brothers, they work JUST as hard for their cash… and shouldn’t HAVE TO spend it all on your ass.
On to women who are gold diggers… I’ve seen bitches get dudes to pay for everything- and all the man got was a KISS. For one, brother, STOP BEING STUPID. If a bitch wanna fuck you, she’s gunna REGARDLESS of how much money you shell out. So stop trying to pay to play, most of the bitches you spend YOUR hard earned cash on… DO NOT even wanna fuck you. So, find someone else who DOES… even though, I know some dudes are really dumb enough to put themselves out there and offer it. For being a DUMB ASS… lmao, YOU DESERVE IT! Stop telling bitches how much you make in hopes of impressing her… REAL WOMEN, are NOT impressed by your bank account.
To the VICTIMS of gold diggers… I cannot address a certain gender, as this is 2009, and men are JUST as bad as the bitches are. STOP playing captain save a hoe. If you don’t know that’s your ROLE, take a good look at the person you fucking with… some examples:
- If you cant really ever think of a time THEY got YOU something…
- If you feel like they ALWAYS are asking for shit, and you get nothing in return… and NO sex doesn’t fucking count… (I know some of you think it does)
- If their ass ALWAYS smoking and drinking YOUR shit, and they NEVER got shit of their own…. (and they don’t even got 5 on it or go buy the damn blunt)…
If you said yes, to any one of these above- you may very well be a CAPTAIN SAVE A HOE! What to do now? Drop that broke ass mofo.
Next, on my agenda… I must address the other type of Captain Save a Hoe… cuz in my opinion too many damn people are out trying to save hoes that DO NOT want to be saved. Men and women do it… I’d say that women do it waaaaay more though.
Women like a challenge and like to play “fix it”. What do I say about that?? If its broken, chances are YOU can’t fix it. Women preoccupy themselves with what I like to call “PROJECTS” and she meets a man who is less than up to par, but she kinda likes him and what does she say? “He’ll change”… Bitch, your fucking delusional! The way you met that man is the way he will stay, unless HE wants to change. Who are you to think you can play GOD and change anything or anyone? A change comes from within a person, and it CANNOT be swayed by the opinions or actions of another person. If he’s a BUM ASS NICCA and shows no motivation or ambition… his ass DO NOT wanna change. Which means, cut your loses and MOVE ON.
I am so TIRED of bitches who think they can change a man… if he was a HOEIN ASS NICCA when you met him, what makes you think YOU can change that? And let’s not even start on the bitches who FUCK a dude in a RELATIONSHIP. Ok, so he left her and now he with you. Now, what makes you think YOUR special… if he cheated WITH you, he will cheat ON you… if you think not… YOUR FUCKIN IGNORANT, and don’t cry when his ass FUCK your best friend.
See… people, you set yourself UP FOR FAILURE. If you’re fucking with a person who you LIKE, then HOP OFF that shit when you see RED FLAGS. Most of you don’t hop off the bandwagon, because you hope they will change, or that you can HELP them change… but true story- THAT SHIT AINT HAPPENING. So stop wasting PRECIOUS TIME on “PROJECTS”… Time is money.
So… what have we learned today? 1. If you taking care of someone else- your not ONLY a CAPTAIN SAVE a HOE, you’re also a SUCKER MC! 2. If its BROKEN, don’t FIX it… and 3. You all need to stop setting yourself up to FAIL. You will NEVER be happy that way.
Until next time kids…
Dating... Obsolete?
Love P.T. 2... here it is.
I want to address cheating and love from a different perspective. Now, as I said in the last post- you CANNOT possibly be IN LOVE with someone and cheat on them. Now the question is… is it possible to LOVE someone and cheat on them? The answer is YES!
Like I said before, being IN LOVE and just LOVING someone are two completely different things, and they should never be used interchangeably. When you are IN LOVE- you’re a blinded race horse, but when you love someone- there is absolutely no guarantee of the magic blinders.
You can love anyone, and anything at any given point in time. The word love itself has been sooo overused that it seems to have even lost its meaning in a sense. Love is a word thrown around loosely today in age. Now to apply this to the relationship realm- when someone says the love you, are they being real?
Only you can determine this, for no one should know your partner more than you do. If you don’t REALLY know your partner that well- you better do some damn soul searching and find out EXACTLY what that person is about. That’s what is wrong today, people do not take the time to get to know each other. This is why you’re relationships fail and after being with a person for a long while- you STILL DON’T KNOW WHO THE FUCK THEY REALLY ARE!
First and foremost, before entering any relationship- you need to think of it as a business deal in a sense. Who’s gunna sign a contract for a major deal without researching, reading the damn contract FIRST, and checking out all that fine print. That’s what you need to do- delve into a person and find out who they truly are BEFORE making a commitment to them. That way, you at least know what the hell your getting yourself into before you commit to it- and most importantly, there are no surprises.
These are things that are done and discussed during the “dating” period- and seeing as its becoming obsolete- a lot of you people are FUCKED and in FUCKED UP relationships (choosing a mate- this blog will be written soon).
Now, off to matters of the heart and the monsters who cheat. I’ve come to the understanding that it is perfectly possible to cheat and still love someone. This is because there is NOT a level of deeper connections there. Being IN LOVE with someone ensures this deeper connection of mind, body and spirit.
But love… shit, I love my phone- but as soon as an upgraded model comes out, I’m getting the new one. Think of it like that, when it comes to love in these ages- anything is REPLACEABLE. Why? Because in today’s age the word love and feelings associated with JUST love (not being in love), has lost a vital part to it- LOYALTY. Anyone can say they love you, but whether or not they will be loyal is open for discussion.
How this happened… who knows, but I assure you it is very REAL. I believe that is why it is so easy for people to cheat in relationships. One, because there are a shit load of people walking the face of the earth right now who do not know the difference between love and being in love… and honestly, until you have REALLY been IN LOVE- you won’t be able to decipher these two feelings. You have absolutely nothing to go on, and people can only explain what being in love is to certain degree- but you definitely have to FEEL IT to believe it.
Being that there are so many people who do not know what the fuck they’re talking about, the words love and in love are often misused and/or used interchangeably. This causes the meaning of the word to diminish over time, and just confuse people about what these two very separate things are.
Two, because the word love has been so overused and abused… love has lost a major component- LOYALTY. Think about it like this… socially speaking, the feeling of being IN LOVE is supposed to be reserved for a significant other, while LOVE is used to describe feelings for your friends and family. Now, you love your family and friends- right? Now tell me, are you LOYAL to them? Are you loyal to your friends or family? Would you have their back at all times, support them through their endeavors, keep their secrets, stick up for them, always want to have good communication between you, and at the end of the day, you always make up after fights and you always know where home’s at.
This is the shit I’m talking about because when it comes to relationships, people can use the word love and not be loyal… which leads me to believe either one of two things- either you are a disillusioned FOOL who has absolutely no fucking idea what love is OR you simply do not REALLY love the person.
Which brings me to the conclusion that either the word LOVE in relationships has lose ties with its best friend LOYALTY, or there’s a shit load of people LYING about loving someone. This is why it may be so simple to cheat on someone you just love- because you have absolutely no loyalty to them. For you DISLOYAL FUCKERS being that you do not feel this loyalty, you don’t feel that it matters. It doesn’t matter if you cheat even if you love a person… and you can cheat with no remorse at all.
You can be on the phone with your mate and say “I love you”, hang up, and two seconds later go holla at that sexiness you just saw walk past you. I think that this is a characteristic that is becoming obsolete in the world of cheaters- loyalty. It’s come to the point where I have to give disloyal bastards their own category in the cheaters list. The main difference between disloyal cheaters and regular cheaters is their level of remorse.
Someone who is a disloyal cheater, really doesn’t GIVE A FUCK. They are serial daters, they cheat like fucking crazy in relationships, most of the time the relationship they are in is great… and the best part about it all is that they REALLY don’t give a fuck. They have NO remorse, or a moral compass instilled in them. They don’t even think what they are doing is WRONG, and that’s the worst type of cheater to deal with.
So… all my lovely readers- what did we learn today? First of all, KNOW who you are dealing with and what you are getting yourself into BEFORE you run off and commit. Don’t let someone catch you off guard and surprise you with shit a few months or years down the line (some people can front for longer periods of time).
And secondly, know the difference between love and being IN love, and discuss how you feel about these things with your partner- this is definitely something that should be discussed OPEN and HONESTLY (this means that when having this conversation: bitches- don’t get all fucking emotional and niccas- don’t lie and tell a bitch what you think she wants to hear). This should be part of the “getting to know each other phase” , before actual commitment (remember- KNOW what you’re getting yourself into).
Also, keep the conversation light- do not get too serious! The main reason for discussion is JUST to find out where their head is at when it comes to matters of love, and to find out whether or not your views are compatible.
So…. Next time someone tells you they love you- say they can keep that shit, because you’d prefer their LOYALTY!
Until next time kiddies.
I want to address cheating and love from a different perspective. Now, as I said in the last post- you CANNOT possibly be IN LOVE with someone and cheat on them. Now the question is… is it possible to LOVE someone and cheat on them? The answer is YES!
Like I said before, being IN LOVE and just LOVING someone are two completely different things, and they should never be used interchangeably. When you are IN LOVE- you’re a blinded race horse, but when you love someone- there is absolutely no guarantee of the magic blinders.
You can love anyone, and anything at any given point in time. The word love itself has been sooo overused that it seems to have even lost its meaning in a sense. Love is a word thrown around loosely today in age. Now to apply this to the relationship realm- when someone says the love you, are they being real?
Only you can determine this, for no one should know your partner more than you do. If you don’t REALLY know your partner that well- you better do some damn soul searching and find out EXACTLY what that person is about. That’s what is wrong today, people do not take the time to get to know each other. This is why you’re relationships fail and after being with a person for a long while- you STILL DON’T KNOW WHO THE FUCK THEY REALLY ARE!
First and foremost, before entering any relationship- you need to think of it as a business deal in a sense. Who’s gunna sign a contract for a major deal without researching, reading the damn contract FIRST, and checking out all that fine print. That’s what you need to do- delve into a person and find out who they truly are BEFORE making a commitment to them. That way, you at least know what the hell your getting yourself into before you commit to it- and most importantly, there are no surprises.
These are things that are done and discussed during the “dating” period- and seeing as its becoming obsolete- a lot of you people are FUCKED and in FUCKED UP relationships (choosing a mate- this blog will be written soon).
Now, off to matters of the heart and the monsters who cheat. I’ve come to the understanding that it is perfectly possible to cheat and still love someone. This is because there is NOT a level of deeper connections there. Being IN LOVE with someone ensures this deeper connection of mind, body and spirit.
But love… shit, I love my phone- but as soon as an upgraded model comes out, I’m getting the new one. Think of it like that, when it comes to love in these ages- anything is REPLACEABLE. Why? Because in today’s age the word love and feelings associated with JUST love (not being in love), has lost a vital part to it- LOYALTY. Anyone can say they love you, but whether or not they will be loyal is open for discussion.
How this happened… who knows, but I assure you it is very REAL. I believe that is why it is so easy for people to cheat in relationships. One, because there are a shit load of people walking the face of the earth right now who do not know the difference between love and being in love… and honestly, until you have REALLY been IN LOVE- you won’t be able to decipher these two feelings. You have absolutely nothing to go on, and people can only explain what being in love is to certain degree- but you definitely have to FEEL IT to believe it.
Being that there are so many people who do not know what the fuck they’re talking about, the words love and in love are often misused and/or used interchangeably. This causes the meaning of the word to diminish over time, and just confuse people about what these two very separate things are.
Two, because the word love has been so overused and abused… love has lost a major component- LOYALTY. Think about it like this… socially speaking, the feeling of being IN LOVE is supposed to be reserved for a significant other, while LOVE is used to describe feelings for your friends and family. Now, you love your family and friends- right? Now tell me, are you LOYAL to them? Are you loyal to your friends or family? Would you have their back at all times, support them through their endeavors, keep their secrets, stick up for them, always want to have good communication between you, and at the end of the day, you always make up after fights and you always know where home’s at.
This is the shit I’m talking about because when it comes to relationships, people can use the word love and not be loyal… which leads me to believe either one of two things- either you are a disillusioned FOOL who has absolutely no fucking idea what love is OR you simply do not REALLY love the person.
Which brings me to the conclusion that either the word LOVE in relationships has lose ties with its best friend LOYALTY, or there’s a shit load of people LYING about loving someone. This is why it may be so simple to cheat on someone you just love- because you have absolutely no loyalty to them. For you DISLOYAL FUCKERS being that you do not feel this loyalty, you don’t feel that it matters. It doesn’t matter if you cheat even if you love a person… and you can cheat with no remorse at all.
You can be on the phone with your mate and say “I love you”, hang up, and two seconds later go holla at that sexiness you just saw walk past you. I think that this is a characteristic that is becoming obsolete in the world of cheaters- loyalty. It’s come to the point where I have to give disloyal bastards their own category in the cheaters list. The main difference between disloyal cheaters and regular cheaters is their level of remorse.
Someone who is a disloyal cheater, really doesn’t GIVE A FUCK. They are serial daters, they cheat like fucking crazy in relationships, most of the time the relationship they are in is great… and the best part about it all is that they REALLY don’t give a fuck. They have NO remorse, or a moral compass instilled in them. They don’t even think what they are doing is WRONG, and that’s the worst type of cheater to deal with.
So… all my lovely readers- what did we learn today? First of all, KNOW who you are dealing with and what you are getting yourself into BEFORE you run off and commit. Don’t let someone catch you off guard and surprise you with shit a few months or years down the line (some people can front for longer periods of time).
And secondly, know the difference between love and being IN love, and discuss how you feel about these things with your partner- this is definitely something that should be discussed OPEN and HONESTLY (this means that when having this conversation: bitches- don’t get all fucking emotional and niccas- don’t lie and tell a bitch what you think she wants to hear). This should be part of the “getting to know each other phase” , before actual commitment (remember- KNOW what you’re getting yourself into).
Also, keep the conversation light- do not get too serious! The main reason for discussion is JUST to find out where their head is at when it comes to matters of love, and to find out whether or not your views are compatible.
So…. Next time someone tells you they love you- say they can keep that shit, because you’d prefer their LOYALTY!
Until next time kiddies.
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