Modern dating from a man’s perspective of course, is naturally next. We will explore the depths of the male mind, see what makes them tick and break down my theories on them. Of course they can only be theories taken from observations and research, for I am not a man myself, so although I’ll never purely know what it’s like, I can sympathize enormously… 70% of my mentality is Dude.
Men… Mostly seen as a bed of nails. Hard. Tough. Sometimes, it’s even hard for me, and I too forget that men have real feelings as well. Although, from the time they are born, most men are taught to bottle their emotions. “Boys don’t cry”, is the common phrase, uttered by many parents in hopes of toughening up their sons. But, alas, boys DO cry. They just don’t usually let anyone see them when they do so.
Yes. Men have feelings too. Yet, the difference between men and women is that men not only internalize their feelings, their mental processes are different. When a man is normally hit with some crazy or bad news, he emotionally shuts down in an effort to sort his feelings. Women on the other hand, externalize everything and then some.
It is true that there are many men out there who are also disillusioned into believing they want something, when it is merely what society states he should want. Men can be just as confused as women when it comes to properly trying to pick a mate. But the main issue is WHEN he will be able to actually pick a mate. For you see, I don’t necessarily think MOST men actually want relationships- many just don’t know it but I have theories as to why they may do certain things.
You see the biology of a man is very different from that of a woman’s, and this includes everything from the way we perceive things, talk, our sexuality, our chemical processes… everything. Men, are in their primes early during puberty… Usually from ages 18-25… Women on the other hand don’t reach their sexual peaks until their 30’s-40’s. Now the thing with young men, is, I REALLY believe the majority of them do not want actual relationships.
Dating for men is way different than it is for women. Even growing up, a man is taught that his goal in life is to acquire status and fortunes. That is what every good man strives for- success. Now when it comes to dating, especially during the college years, I believe the reason why most relationships do not work out, is because how they came about.
Men are fairly simple creatures. They want good company and conversation, they want someone they can really be their TRUE selves around, they want a woman who will feed them and rock their worlds in the sack. Simple enough, but it’s usually never accomplished, because most of them can NEVER be their true selves around their women. And most of them resent the fact that they can’t do so.
Most men feel inadequate in this world. Which is why they lie about their status, how much they make, where they work and the such. The media, society and women do not make it any better. It’s hard out there for a Pimp! Lol… With all the images of dudes ballin out with hella hoes all over the tv screen, men in turn realize that the fastest way to get women, is to ball out. And they are right, some women are so shallow, all it takes it a dude with a nice car and clothes, and she’s dick ridin him hella hard!
What they do not realize though, is that those types of women, are truly the ones you should stay away from, because in essence, she’s with you for what you have- not who you are. This is the main way that men in turn, constantly feel used by women but like I always say- STOP trying to play Captain Save a Hoe to hoes that don’t wanna be saved. We also have loads of women who will verbalize and are very vocal about being with broke busters, so as a man, he has to step it up and he realizes that in order to get women, he must either acquire status… or lie about it. Which usually works!
Now, most men get caught up in the PUSSY=POWER extravaganza, only because they are thirsty, regular or Submissive males. An Alpha male, NEVER gets caught up, because there are no games. When dating, as a man, you usually have to pick a place, pay for it and entertain your chick. You also have to listen attentively and offer your two cents when it is asked of you. Now if you actually like this girl and want to really be with her, that is all fine and dandy. But I believe most of the men who are my peers, are not on this level yet.
You see, when men are in their prime, they aren’t trying to settle down. The ones that do, either have low self-esteems or aren’t getting any buns on the regular. I have surveyed more than a few dozen men, and when asked this question, 95% of them responded as I’d hoped.
The sample question was this… “Forget everything you know about society and dating- throw it out the window. Now if you had the choice, what would you chose? You could either be in a relationship with one girl, or you could be single and guaranteed sex, no strings ever, with as many women as you’d like- most women would never deny you. In fact, 9 outta 10 times, if you approach a girl for some ass, she’d say YES.”
Most men, picked the single option. So ladies are right in a sense… Most men, only DO want one thing. And if they could get it, they would have no reason to be in a relationship, until they got older, their testosterone levels dropped, and they finally know what they want. Most men, don’t want all the things that come with a relationship. Sure, they’d like the company and the pussy, but most men hate all the drama that comes along with that pussy.
What is funny about my sample question, is that men would love to live this type of way, almost never being denied. If they were almost never denied, they wouldn’t have a reason to settle down. The question though is derived from the way women are in this world. Women actually DO have this option, the option of either being taken or single and almost never denied dick. If women wanted, they COULD live this way, most just choose not to. Most have never thought about it that way… Drool Boys, I know you’re HATIN! Lol
So for men, the regular and Submissive’s, being that they usual work hard for the pussy- they have their own issues to attend to. Many of them have been rejected and in turn, they have low self-esteems. What is funny is that many of them, will settle with the first girl who is willing to give them ass on the regular! That is why they wanna lock that shit down. Not necessarily because they want to be in a relationship, but because they don’t have many options when it comes to sex partners and you come along and fuck em on the regular. That alone makes many men settle.
So, it’s is not necessarily that he wants to get serious and wants all the drama that comes with being with a most women (bitches are crazy lol), because he’d really rather go without it. Men being the easy creatures that they are, usually have very little will power, and will usually not deny a girl some of his dick- especially if he’s attracted to her. They have and exhibit very little self-control when faced with the scenario I previously stated. So, if men actually had it the way women did when it comes to those options, relationships probably wouldn’t start until people were in their late 20’s.
Now when men date women, it is all about the front, mainly because you have no idea what kind of chick you are with. Many men will sit there, front, and lie about what they have, like a peacock parading around proudly showing his colorful feathers, in hopes of attracting a mate. This is mainly because the media and bitches make it hard for a man to get and attract women, if you’re not balling out. So most men will lie about all that shit, in hopes of impressing a girl enough.
Sure, many men DO just want pussy. Some will be forthcoming and many more, will be sneaky about the whole thing. The main thing they like to say is “I just wanna get to know you”… that is also about the only thing they really say. So if he says some shit like that, then it’s definitely all about the pussy. And sure, he may take you out on a few dates, but he’s usually trying to get that by the 3rd or 4th date. If he doesn’t get it, many of them move on. But for some, you have become a challenge that they have accepted, and they will then do almost anything to get that pussy. Even if it means getting into a relationship with you.
Men who are serious about a woman, will take their time, and show her the upmost respect… even if he’s extra attracted to her and has already fucked her 50 times in his mind. He is chivalrous, and most importantly, he will court you properly. Men who have reached this stage, are serious about settling down, and they usually know exactly what they want and what they expect from their woman. Men will ONLY get to this stage on their own- and no amount of persuading, or pussy, will change that.
Now men in relationships, we’re gunna break it down into two sections- real and fake relationships. Fake relationships are what many men have in their teens and early 20’s. I say they are fake because most of them, if they had the chance to fuck any chick they want at any time- most would chose to do so over a relationship any day! So men in fake relationships, sure lots of them don’t care and many will lie and cheat. Many of them can’t stand their girlfriends- but, it is constant pussy, so many of them stay… Until something better comes along that is.
Now men in real relationships, who actually know what they want and want to settle down- those are gems. Those are the “good men” women claim they seek. What most men have to deal with in relationships is crazy though. Like I said before, most men, want more than anything to be able to be himself around you. He wants to be able to break down the walls and relax. Most of them can’t though, because the type of women they are with, never allows that to happen.
These men may stay around, like I said, many of them stay for the constant pussy, but many of them start to resent their other halves. It gets tiring and annoying, when you can never be real with the person you love. It also gets tiring and annoying, when it becomes a project every time you are real with a bitch. Like I said men are ill equipped and women DO NOT make it easy. Believe me when I say that some of your boyfriends and husbands deserve head all night long, just for putting up with your crazy ass shit.
Now on to sex, my favorite topic of course ;) I felt the need to address this area when it comes to men because this is something that is never talked about, and I feel that women SHOULD know this. Any woman who have ever strapped up, and fucked someone, can sympathize and will know what the fuck I’m talking about. Men spend an enormous amount of energy and strength, just to fuck you right. The amount of work that men do, the stamina that some of them have- I COMMEND YOU! Women REALLY don’t know what it is like to fuck like a man, so if your man is fucking you right… treat him nice, he works hard!
Sure, there are MANY men who don’t fuck their women right, if they did, more women would know what the Big O REALLY feels like. But like I stated before there are advantages AND disadvantages to being a beast in the sheets. If you are serious about your chick, and you want to keep her at bay- BLOW HER BACK OUT! That shit will calm her ass down, seriously, I promise. Women who are sexually happy, only become more enthralled with their men, and the power their pussy has over the situation breaks. I’ll explain more about what happens in the next blog when I break down Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
Now the negative impact that this can have, is if you are doing you’re woman wrong. If you do her wrong, or plan on doing so, please, DO NOT fuck her all crazy. I swear that the craziness levels in women increase, the better you fuck them. So if you blow her back out, and then do her dirty- she WILL make your life a living hell. And it’s mainly because she is PISSED you gave away that good dick- I don’t entirely blame her.
In conclusion, men are simple creatures, they want to be able to be themselves and they want a woman to fuck them right. Sure, many of them lie just to get to the pussy, but women don’t make it easy for a regular man to get some action too. They work hard, just as hard as women and harder in the sack (some of them), so for a woman to feel entitled to his ends- get a new hustle Gold Digger… its 2010. Sure, many of them don’t even want relationships, many of them are “trapped” into relationships, JUST cuz you give them pussy on the regular. Most don’t know what it is they want yet, but one day he will- hopefully.
Until next time kiddies… Stay tuned for the breakdown of societies Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
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Monday, December 6, 2010
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Simplicity is Complicated
Simplicity (noun): 1. Being simple. A lack of complexity, complication,
embellishment, or difficulty.
2. Simple thing. A simple quality or thing.
Simplicity sounds like such an easy thing. It’s simple, of course! Yet when it comes to people and society at large, it seems that most people I encounter have forgotten this. They have forgotten the simple things of life. Yet, at the end of the day… it’s the simple things that make us smile. The simple things that make us happy. Moreover, it’s the simple things that are constant, never changing and will always be there.
I would first like to address the miserable people who are walking this green earth… GET OVER YOURSELF! I see so many people who constantly complain about bullshit in their lives. They complain about the most miniscule things. They make life harder on themselves and as a result- are never fucking happy. You see, even when happy, they’ll STILL find something to complain about.
These are the same people who complain that they’re never happy. These people suffer from attention problems a lot of the time. They want attention and seek it through looking miserable all the time in hopes that someone will come along and ask what’s wrong. They want to be able to tell their story of woe to someone. They yearn for drama and aren’t at peace unless some type of chaos surrounds them.
These people sulk in their misery. They are often depressed. They often verbalize this to anyone around them who will listen. Many have been this way for so long that this characteristic has become something that is a part of who they are. They are miserable and enjoy being sad and depressed. What’s crazy though is that most of them don’t know this and will still say that they just want to be happy!
What is especially crazy though is that many of these people PUT THEMSELVES IN THESE SITUATIONS. These people complain all day, yet they themselves are the keepers of their own demise. The only thing I have to say about that is this: if you PUT YOURSELF in a situation and STAY THERE, then guess what poppet’s…. You have FORFEITED all rights to complain about said situation.
This may be cruel to say for some, but nevertheless, it is the TRUTH. You cannot complain about something or anything for that matter if you stay in that situation- no matter what it is. Real talk, if it were THAT BAD, you would have found a way to escape. But, you don’t. This tells us one of two things… Either you LIKE IT or you just want something to complain about.
It is so simple to walk away from a fucked up situation. It’s as easy as getting up, walking away and not looking back. Yet so many people find this hard to do. Know this… Walking away is the easiest, most simple thing to do. Most don’t, only because they either want to be there or they let their feelings and fears dictate them.
I have known many of people in fucked up situations, that they just could not seem to get out of. The main reason being, that when they think of solutions, they are not happy with any of them. They may have to deal with another situation they may not like or people they may not like. Know this… at any point in time in our lives; we will face situations that we may not necessarily want to deal with. You can either run the opposite way and forever more have problems, or you can stand your ground and deal with it. Which in turn makes you a stronger person.
This is a part of growing up. Learning when and how to pick your battles, learning when and how to speak up for yourself, and most importantly learning when and how you should let certain things go. You have to think beyond what is happening in the here and now, and look at the bigger picture. You may have to deal with fucked up shit, just to get to where you want to be in life.
When I think about the phrase “Easier said than done”, this applies to the majority of the population. This though is only because, like I said, most people let their feelings and fears dictate them. It is not the end of the world if you walk away, stop thinking so. Those fears are what will hinder you for your entire lives. Fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of the unknown… are common amongst society. Get over it!
This also goes back to what I said about drama chasers. Many of them claim that they HATE drama, yet are constantly surrounded by it. Look around you and you’ll see it everywhere. I’ve personally seen bitches pick a fight with her man over NOTHING. All because she wanted that drama, something to complain to her girls about. This scenario is definitely seen more with women. Women after all LOOOOOVE to complain about SHIT.
The ones who love the drama are often surrounded by others of their kind. Misery loves company of course, and the depressed run in packs. Look around you, examine your peers and you will eventually start to see who people really are. The drama lovers are surges of negative energy, and that shit DOES rub off. So if you don’t want to be miserable, stay away from those who generate it like the heat from the sun. It can and will eventually affect you as an individual.
On to the people in fucked up relationships, who can’t seem to walk away. I’ve seen a wide array and variety of relationships that were shot to hell, but the people still stayed. They stayed for various reasons, mainly because they fear being alone and they fear the unknown. I’ve also seen people who live with each other and are only doing so because it’s cheaper than living on your own. For those people… one word, two syllables: roommate.
You shouldn’t stay in a fucked up relationship, where no one is happy, just so you can go half with someone on rent. It’s called a ROOMMATE! Not that fucking hard; but instead, you people just stay in fucked up relationships, more than half of you cheat, you aren’t happy and at the end of the day most of you go home to someone you have grown to hate. Guess what? You have forfeited all rights to complain about that shit! It’s not that hard to get up and leave, nor is it that hard to find a roommate.
People make their own lives harder than it has to be. You put yourselves in fucked up situations. Then, you have the audacity to sit there and complain about it. I am here to tell you, that if you are in a fucked up situation, and you know it… and you STILL stay there. Then guess what? No complaints should ever escape your breathe.
This is just the tip of the iceberg, being that there are many marriages that are like this too. If children are involved, then it just makes it that much worse. The only thing I will say about this though is that society has come to accept divorce and accept broken homes- I have not. If people would actually get to know one another before deciding to marry, things would be so much different. But… people are impulsive, people are deceitful and many have hidden agendas. Your job in a relationship is to get to REALLY know a person, and not who they portray themselves to be.
The bottom line of all this is that life can be extremely simple. We as people have made it hard upon ourselves only because we let our fears and feelings dictate us. This in essence is what makes situations harder upon us. The fact that we can’t see the bigger picture and do whatever it takes to get to where we want to be.
To those of you in shitty relationships, especially women, you bitches are disillusioned to believe certain things. Never forget one thing though, that thing you hold in between your legs IS POWERFUL! Bitches who cry over dudes and get all depressed and shit- I laugh at you bitches, cuz you REALLY don’t know what you have, nor do you value yourself.
If he was fucked up to you, get over him. There are PLENTY of men, all over the place. As a woman, we can pick and choose who we want. We have that advantage over men. We can literally pick who we want, when we want, within reason of course. So ladies, stop moping around. The world is our oyster, and we can have just about anyone within it… even if you are an ugly bitch.
Men on the other hand don’t have it as easy. They can’t just go out and get whatever girl he wants, unless of course, he is an alpha male. So men, if you are in a fucked up situation, let it go. Go out with your friends, get wasted and live it up.
It amazes me how many of you cope out and sell yourself short just because a bitch is giving you pussy on the regular. STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT! You will never be happy that way, and that bitch will always be the naggy ass bitch you met her as. Men, practice and learn some fucking self-control. No woman should want a man who displays little self-control and will power.
So, to wrap this all up. Simplicity is simple, yet we have made it hard upon ourselves. We have made our lives way harder than they originally were. Let go of certain things, it is the only way to progress. And sometimes the road less travelled may seem longer, darker and scarier, but in turn you will not only acquire growth in mind, body and spirit; you will also finally be where you want to be in life. Lastly, if you are in a fucked up situation and you know it, and you really hate it as much as you say you do- then leave. You are putting yourself through torture and it’s your own fault. Remember that anything that can easily be said, CAN easily be done. Stop being scared now, because if you don’t you will remain this way forever. If you don’t leave, also know that now, you can’t complain about it. You cannot complain about a situation or anything that is SELF-INFLICTED! Period.
Until next time, Be Real with Yourself and Each Other.
embellishment, or difficulty.
2. Simple thing. A simple quality or thing.
Simplicity sounds like such an easy thing. It’s simple, of course! Yet when it comes to people and society at large, it seems that most people I encounter have forgotten this. They have forgotten the simple things of life. Yet, at the end of the day… it’s the simple things that make us smile. The simple things that make us happy. Moreover, it’s the simple things that are constant, never changing and will always be there.
I would first like to address the miserable people who are walking this green earth… GET OVER YOURSELF! I see so many people who constantly complain about bullshit in their lives. They complain about the most miniscule things. They make life harder on themselves and as a result- are never fucking happy. You see, even when happy, they’ll STILL find something to complain about.
These are the same people who complain that they’re never happy. These people suffer from attention problems a lot of the time. They want attention and seek it through looking miserable all the time in hopes that someone will come along and ask what’s wrong. They want to be able to tell their story of woe to someone. They yearn for drama and aren’t at peace unless some type of chaos surrounds them.
These people sulk in their misery. They are often depressed. They often verbalize this to anyone around them who will listen. Many have been this way for so long that this characteristic has become something that is a part of who they are. They are miserable and enjoy being sad and depressed. What’s crazy though is that most of them don’t know this and will still say that they just want to be happy!
What is especially crazy though is that many of these people PUT THEMSELVES IN THESE SITUATIONS. These people complain all day, yet they themselves are the keepers of their own demise. The only thing I have to say about that is this: if you PUT YOURSELF in a situation and STAY THERE, then guess what poppet’s…. You have FORFEITED all rights to complain about said situation.
This may be cruel to say for some, but nevertheless, it is the TRUTH. You cannot complain about something or anything for that matter if you stay in that situation- no matter what it is. Real talk, if it were THAT BAD, you would have found a way to escape. But, you don’t. This tells us one of two things… Either you LIKE IT or you just want something to complain about.
It is so simple to walk away from a fucked up situation. It’s as easy as getting up, walking away and not looking back. Yet so many people find this hard to do. Know this… Walking away is the easiest, most simple thing to do. Most don’t, only because they either want to be there or they let their feelings and fears dictate them.
I have known many of people in fucked up situations, that they just could not seem to get out of. The main reason being, that when they think of solutions, they are not happy with any of them. They may have to deal with another situation they may not like or people they may not like. Know this… at any point in time in our lives; we will face situations that we may not necessarily want to deal with. You can either run the opposite way and forever more have problems, or you can stand your ground and deal with it. Which in turn makes you a stronger person.
This is a part of growing up. Learning when and how to pick your battles, learning when and how to speak up for yourself, and most importantly learning when and how you should let certain things go. You have to think beyond what is happening in the here and now, and look at the bigger picture. You may have to deal with fucked up shit, just to get to where you want to be in life.
When I think about the phrase “Easier said than done”, this applies to the majority of the population. This though is only because, like I said, most people let their feelings and fears dictate them. It is not the end of the world if you walk away, stop thinking so. Those fears are what will hinder you for your entire lives. Fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of the unknown… are common amongst society. Get over it!
This also goes back to what I said about drama chasers. Many of them claim that they HATE drama, yet are constantly surrounded by it. Look around you and you’ll see it everywhere. I’ve personally seen bitches pick a fight with her man over NOTHING. All because she wanted that drama, something to complain to her girls about. This scenario is definitely seen more with women. Women after all LOOOOOVE to complain about SHIT.
The ones who love the drama are often surrounded by others of their kind. Misery loves company of course, and the depressed run in packs. Look around you, examine your peers and you will eventually start to see who people really are. The drama lovers are surges of negative energy, and that shit DOES rub off. So if you don’t want to be miserable, stay away from those who generate it like the heat from the sun. It can and will eventually affect you as an individual.
On to the people in fucked up relationships, who can’t seem to walk away. I’ve seen a wide array and variety of relationships that were shot to hell, but the people still stayed. They stayed for various reasons, mainly because they fear being alone and they fear the unknown. I’ve also seen people who live with each other and are only doing so because it’s cheaper than living on your own. For those people… one word, two syllables: roommate.
You shouldn’t stay in a fucked up relationship, where no one is happy, just so you can go half with someone on rent. It’s called a ROOMMATE! Not that fucking hard; but instead, you people just stay in fucked up relationships, more than half of you cheat, you aren’t happy and at the end of the day most of you go home to someone you have grown to hate. Guess what? You have forfeited all rights to complain about that shit! It’s not that hard to get up and leave, nor is it that hard to find a roommate.
People make their own lives harder than it has to be. You put yourselves in fucked up situations. Then, you have the audacity to sit there and complain about it. I am here to tell you, that if you are in a fucked up situation, and you know it… and you STILL stay there. Then guess what? No complaints should ever escape your breathe.
This is just the tip of the iceberg, being that there are many marriages that are like this too. If children are involved, then it just makes it that much worse. The only thing I will say about this though is that society has come to accept divorce and accept broken homes- I have not. If people would actually get to know one another before deciding to marry, things would be so much different. But… people are impulsive, people are deceitful and many have hidden agendas. Your job in a relationship is to get to REALLY know a person, and not who they portray themselves to be.
The bottom line of all this is that life can be extremely simple. We as people have made it hard upon ourselves only because we let our fears and feelings dictate us. This in essence is what makes situations harder upon us. The fact that we can’t see the bigger picture and do whatever it takes to get to where we want to be.
To those of you in shitty relationships, especially women, you bitches are disillusioned to believe certain things. Never forget one thing though, that thing you hold in between your legs IS POWERFUL! Bitches who cry over dudes and get all depressed and shit- I laugh at you bitches, cuz you REALLY don’t know what you have, nor do you value yourself.
If he was fucked up to you, get over him. There are PLENTY of men, all over the place. As a woman, we can pick and choose who we want. We have that advantage over men. We can literally pick who we want, when we want, within reason of course. So ladies, stop moping around. The world is our oyster, and we can have just about anyone within it… even if you are an ugly bitch.
Men on the other hand don’t have it as easy. They can’t just go out and get whatever girl he wants, unless of course, he is an alpha male. So men, if you are in a fucked up situation, let it go. Go out with your friends, get wasted and live it up.
It amazes me how many of you cope out and sell yourself short just because a bitch is giving you pussy on the regular. STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT! You will never be happy that way, and that bitch will always be the naggy ass bitch you met her as. Men, practice and learn some fucking self-control. No woman should want a man who displays little self-control and will power.
So, to wrap this all up. Simplicity is simple, yet we have made it hard upon ourselves. We have made our lives way harder than they originally were. Let go of certain things, it is the only way to progress. And sometimes the road less travelled may seem longer, darker and scarier, but in turn you will not only acquire growth in mind, body and spirit; you will also finally be where you want to be in life. Lastly, if you are in a fucked up situation and you know it, and you really hate it as much as you say you do- then leave. You are putting yourself through torture and it’s your own fault. Remember that anything that can easily be said, CAN easily be done. Stop being scared now, because if you don’t you will remain this way forever. If you don’t leave, also know that now, you can’t complain about it. You cannot complain about a situation or anything that is SELF-INFLICTED! Period.
Until next time, Be Real with Yourself and Each Other.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Wanna Better Relationship? Learn How 2 Fuck!
So, lately I’ve been talking about sex a lot… and I decided to do a little research on my own and develop some theories as to why certain things occur in society. I’m really trying to get down to the nitty gritty of things and it all revolves around sex and society. What I found interesting, was that according to a recent survey conducted, 75% of women reported never climaxing to orgasm. How does this affect society, you may ask… Well, it certainly explains certain things about women.
Now, let’s start at the very beginning… the very first time you touched yourself. As children many of us were taught that it was a BAD thing to do. Many of us became very shameful, and as a result ultimately really stopped exploring. While the rest of us, only found better ways to cover our tracks. ;)
Those who grow up shameful, mostly women, never got to really explore themselves, their bodies. Many of them don’t even know what really arouses them and what they like. This is a sad fucking story to me. If you’re a grown ass woman, and have never reached cloud 10 and exploded into a million pieces… then, you better get like Mariah and “Touch ya Body”!
Explore your folds, your tunnels… your crook and fucking crannies. This is the only way you will ever learn your body… If YOU don’t know what you like, how the hell you gunna explain it to someone else? (That’s right most of you don’t, because you’re too embarrassed.) Get over it! If he ain’t doing it right… tell him about himself! He’s not the only one who should get to orgasm.
I believe that this is why many women don’t enjoy having sex, or don’t want it as much as men. It’s just not that enjoyable to them. This is also the reason why many women would rather have oral sex, instead of vaginal sex. Many can climax easily clitoral, but have a very hard time vaginally. I say, what’s the point of having sex, if you’re not gunna orgasm? Sex with no orgasm is pure blasphemy to me.
Ladies, if you cannot orgasm during vaginal sex, it is your own fault! First, you need to explore your body and bring yourself to full climax. If you can achieve that, then you’re ready for the big times. You need to know that, not all men know how to fuck. If that is the case, then you need to also know, that you should take it upon yourself to learn how to position yourself right. The positioning of yourself, is EVERYTHING! Practice makes perfect… So stop being a lazy bitch, and RIDE EM’ COWBOY!
You see, men on the other hand, almost always orgasm and 98% surveyed, reported doing so. Do you know why… because THEY BEAT OFF! Men are simple and straightforward with sex. They know what they like and how to reach the promised land. Although they know all of this though, what they don’t know is that most of them are terribly disillusioned.
That’s right, DISILLUSIONED! Personally, I have met many of men who were terribly disillusioned, but it’s not their fault entirely. Sure, many men have a big ego, but women play a large part in their disillusionment. Therefore, men talk a lot of shit and think highly of themselves. They believe they are a lion in the sheets, when in all actuality they are a mere kitten.
This happens purely because bitches don’t know how to keep it G and tell a man when he’s whack in the sack. Instead, they fake orgasms, moan and scream like crazy and act like he’s a sex god, when in all actuality… he couldn’t fuck his way out of a wet paper bag.
Today I read in Men’s Health, something that made me feel normal. When watching porn, you always see bitches screaming and moaning something crazy. Now, when bitches fake, being that that is the norm, they scream and moan too. But here is a rude awakening, “When climaxing, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to exhale. She’ll draw in her breathe, tighten her muscles, and then sigh or pant when she comes back to Earth. But scream? Never.”
And here I thought I was doing it wrong, because it wasn’t the “normal” thing associated with a woman climaxing. In all actuality though, many women fake it, and even worse, they lie and say the sex was great. Women seem to sympathize with the men and really just don’t want to hurt his feelings. That is what it allllll boils down to, not wanting to hurt his feelings. Bitch! Get real! You are the reason why men walk around thinking they really doing it.
Ladies, you need to learn how not to sugar coat shit. If the man was whack, tell him so, and how he could improve himself. Consider this constructive criticism. Men, need to take the criticism gracefully, and realize they may not be all they thought they were cracked up to be. Most men will accept it as such, and try to switch it up for you, ultimately increasing his own skills. Yet, if you never tell him, then he’s gunna SUCK until he meets a bitch like me, who’ll set his ass straight!
Now, let’s tie this in with society and relationships. I concur that being that many women never climax, this leads to their bitchness level. Women are seen as nags and many are very catty, especially at one another. Thinking of this logically though, I’d be a bitch too if I had sex all the time, yet never climaxed. Sex with no orgasm often leads to many women feeling empty after sex.
Achieving orgasm with your partner is the highest form of intimacy, but if most women never meet orgasm, they never truly connect with their partners. This also leads to resentment of their mates, all because he gets to orgasm and she doesn’t. Being that 75% of women, the majority, never climax, these numbers are a basic sample of the world at large. This means that 3 out of 4 women never climax, and that MOST women are ticking time bombs, waiting to explode.
Explode, these bombs do, and many women explode in crazy ways. Many women get violent, others emotional, some get depressed but all of them explode. It’s crazy because so many people talk shit about women (mainly men), about how they always nag, and they are NEVER happy. Women are depicted as such in the media, and we can see and hear shit like this said everywhere.
Well, guess what Einstein’s, you’re RIGHT! Most women, the majority, are NEVER HAPPY! Do you know why? Let me relate this to the men in terms you’d understand… Now, close your eyes and imagine spending most of your life, NEVER being able to bust a nut. I mean sure, your dick gets hard… but you could NEVER nut- like permanent blue balls. Now, tell me your ass wouldn’t be angry ALL the time too!
Although I believe that sex isn’t the most important aspect of a relationship, I would have to put it up there in my top 5. Sex to me, can make or break a relationship. Everything can be fine with a person, but if they are missing that critical element, things may go off course.
If the sex is bad, resentment occurs. This is true for both parties involved, because some men don’t talk to their women about what they like either. Also, being that you are never really satisfied, you are also easily tempted by others. You may lie to yourself, and say that sex isn’t important… but in the end, if your sex life sucks, your relationship can become subject to damage.
What is a remedy for this? Discuss sex with your partner. If you are in a committed relationship, then communication should be open and an open mind should be kept. Talk about your likes and dislikes, things you’ve dreamt of doing.
Also, keep in mind, that in a relationship you should want to please your partner and vice versa. Which means NO HOLDS BAR, sometimes. Ladies, it is 2009, if your man wants you to suck his dick, then SUCK IT! Same thing goes for you fellas. If you wanna keep your partner happy, ROCK THEIR FUCKING WORLD!
Know this: if you won’t do it, someone else will! So, don’t get caught out there, you’re in a relationship for Christ sake.
What have we learned?
Women, to discover orgasm, you must discover your bodies. The G-Spot, DOES exist, believe me, I know! Learn how to fuck right, stop being lazy logs and pillow queens and take control of the situation. Cummin makes sex so much better, so STOP lying to men and letting them think they the shit.
Men, realize that YES many women are angry at the world, but you could help, if you fucked her right! She’d be hella happier if she orgasmed! Sure, bitches lie, but you need to know how to spot that shit, and correct your flaws. Many of you are disillusioned now, but get with it! You’ll only increase your skills, and then finally be the beast, you thought you were.
Bottom line: Communication is key. It will be the way to relate to one another and REALLY find out just how good we are at doing the do.
Now, let’s start at the very beginning… the very first time you touched yourself. As children many of us were taught that it was a BAD thing to do. Many of us became very shameful, and as a result ultimately really stopped exploring. While the rest of us, only found better ways to cover our tracks. ;)
Those who grow up shameful, mostly women, never got to really explore themselves, their bodies. Many of them don’t even know what really arouses them and what they like. This is a sad fucking story to me. If you’re a grown ass woman, and have never reached cloud 10 and exploded into a million pieces… then, you better get like Mariah and “Touch ya Body”!
Explore your folds, your tunnels… your crook and fucking crannies. This is the only way you will ever learn your body… If YOU don’t know what you like, how the hell you gunna explain it to someone else? (That’s right most of you don’t, because you’re too embarrassed.) Get over it! If he ain’t doing it right… tell him about himself! He’s not the only one who should get to orgasm.
I believe that this is why many women don’t enjoy having sex, or don’t want it as much as men. It’s just not that enjoyable to them. This is also the reason why many women would rather have oral sex, instead of vaginal sex. Many can climax easily clitoral, but have a very hard time vaginally. I say, what’s the point of having sex, if you’re not gunna orgasm? Sex with no orgasm is pure blasphemy to me.
Ladies, if you cannot orgasm during vaginal sex, it is your own fault! First, you need to explore your body and bring yourself to full climax. If you can achieve that, then you’re ready for the big times. You need to know that, not all men know how to fuck. If that is the case, then you need to also know, that you should take it upon yourself to learn how to position yourself right. The positioning of yourself, is EVERYTHING! Practice makes perfect… So stop being a lazy bitch, and RIDE EM’ COWBOY!
You see, men on the other hand, almost always orgasm and 98% surveyed, reported doing so. Do you know why… because THEY BEAT OFF! Men are simple and straightforward with sex. They know what they like and how to reach the promised land. Although they know all of this though, what they don’t know is that most of them are terribly disillusioned.
That’s right, DISILLUSIONED! Personally, I have met many of men who were terribly disillusioned, but it’s not their fault entirely. Sure, many men have a big ego, but women play a large part in their disillusionment. Therefore, men talk a lot of shit and think highly of themselves. They believe they are a lion in the sheets, when in all actuality they are a mere kitten.
This happens purely because bitches don’t know how to keep it G and tell a man when he’s whack in the sack. Instead, they fake orgasms, moan and scream like crazy and act like he’s a sex god, when in all actuality… he couldn’t fuck his way out of a wet paper bag.
Today I read in Men’s Health, something that made me feel normal. When watching porn, you always see bitches screaming and moaning something crazy. Now, when bitches fake, being that that is the norm, they scream and moan too. But here is a rude awakening, “When climaxing, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to exhale. She’ll draw in her breathe, tighten her muscles, and then sigh or pant when she comes back to Earth. But scream? Never.”
And here I thought I was doing it wrong, because it wasn’t the “normal” thing associated with a woman climaxing. In all actuality though, many women fake it, and even worse, they lie and say the sex was great. Women seem to sympathize with the men and really just don’t want to hurt his feelings. That is what it allllll boils down to, not wanting to hurt his feelings. Bitch! Get real! You are the reason why men walk around thinking they really doing it.
Ladies, you need to learn how not to sugar coat shit. If the man was whack, tell him so, and how he could improve himself. Consider this constructive criticism. Men, need to take the criticism gracefully, and realize they may not be all they thought they were cracked up to be. Most men will accept it as such, and try to switch it up for you, ultimately increasing his own skills. Yet, if you never tell him, then he’s gunna SUCK until he meets a bitch like me, who’ll set his ass straight!
Now, let’s tie this in with society and relationships. I concur that being that many women never climax, this leads to their bitchness level. Women are seen as nags and many are very catty, especially at one another. Thinking of this logically though, I’d be a bitch too if I had sex all the time, yet never climaxed. Sex with no orgasm often leads to many women feeling empty after sex.
Achieving orgasm with your partner is the highest form of intimacy, but if most women never meet orgasm, they never truly connect with their partners. This also leads to resentment of their mates, all because he gets to orgasm and she doesn’t. Being that 75% of women, the majority, never climax, these numbers are a basic sample of the world at large. This means that 3 out of 4 women never climax, and that MOST women are ticking time bombs, waiting to explode.
Explode, these bombs do, and many women explode in crazy ways. Many women get violent, others emotional, some get depressed but all of them explode. It’s crazy because so many people talk shit about women (mainly men), about how they always nag, and they are NEVER happy. Women are depicted as such in the media, and we can see and hear shit like this said everywhere.
Well, guess what Einstein’s, you’re RIGHT! Most women, the majority, are NEVER HAPPY! Do you know why? Let me relate this to the men in terms you’d understand… Now, close your eyes and imagine spending most of your life, NEVER being able to bust a nut. I mean sure, your dick gets hard… but you could NEVER nut- like permanent blue balls. Now, tell me your ass wouldn’t be angry ALL the time too!
Although I believe that sex isn’t the most important aspect of a relationship, I would have to put it up there in my top 5. Sex to me, can make or break a relationship. Everything can be fine with a person, but if they are missing that critical element, things may go off course.
If the sex is bad, resentment occurs. This is true for both parties involved, because some men don’t talk to their women about what they like either. Also, being that you are never really satisfied, you are also easily tempted by others. You may lie to yourself, and say that sex isn’t important… but in the end, if your sex life sucks, your relationship can become subject to damage.
What is a remedy for this? Discuss sex with your partner. If you are in a committed relationship, then communication should be open and an open mind should be kept. Talk about your likes and dislikes, things you’ve dreamt of doing.
Also, keep in mind, that in a relationship you should want to please your partner and vice versa. Which means NO HOLDS BAR, sometimes. Ladies, it is 2009, if your man wants you to suck his dick, then SUCK IT! Same thing goes for you fellas. If you wanna keep your partner happy, ROCK THEIR FUCKING WORLD!
Know this: if you won’t do it, someone else will! So, don’t get caught out there, you’re in a relationship for Christ sake.
What have we learned?
Women, to discover orgasm, you must discover your bodies. The G-Spot, DOES exist, believe me, I know! Learn how to fuck right, stop being lazy logs and pillow queens and take control of the situation. Cummin makes sex so much better, so STOP lying to men and letting them think they the shit.
Men, realize that YES many women are angry at the world, but you could help, if you fucked her right! She’d be hella happier if she orgasmed! Sure, bitches lie, but you need to know how to spot that shit, and correct your flaws. Many of you are disillusioned now, but get with it! You’ll only increase your skills, and then finally be the beast, you thought you were.
Bottom line: Communication is key. It will be the way to relate to one another and REALLY find out just how good we are at doing the do.
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