Modern dating from a man’s perspective of course, is naturally next. We will explore the depths of the male mind, see what makes them tick and break down my theories on them. Of course they can only be theories taken from observations and research, for I am not a man myself, so although I’ll never purely know what it’s like, I can sympathize enormously… 70% of my mentality is Dude.
Men… Mostly seen as a bed of nails. Hard. Tough. Sometimes, it’s even hard for me, and I too forget that men have real feelings as well. Although, from the time they are born, most men are taught to bottle their emotions. “Boys don’t cry”, is the common phrase, uttered by many parents in hopes of toughening up their sons. But, alas, boys DO cry. They just don’t usually let anyone see them when they do so.
Yes. Men have feelings too. Yet, the difference between men and women is that men not only internalize their feelings, their mental processes are different. When a man is normally hit with some crazy or bad news, he emotionally shuts down in an effort to sort his feelings. Women on the other hand, externalize everything and then some.
It is true that there are many men out there who are also disillusioned into believing they want something, when it is merely what society states he should want. Men can be just as confused as women when it comes to properly trying to pick a mate. But the main issue is WHEN he will be able to actually pick a mate. For you see, I don’t necessarily think MOST men actually want relationships- many just don’t know it but I have theories as to why they may do certain things.
You see the biology of a man is very different from that of a woman’s, and this includes everything from the way we perceive things, talk, our sexuality, our chemical processes… everything. Men, are in their primes early during puberty… Usually from ages 18-25… Women on the other hand don’t reach their sexual peaks until their 30’s-40’s. Now the thing with young men, is, I REALLY believe the majority of them do not want actual relationships.
Dating for men is way different than it is for women. Even growing up, a man is taught that his goal in life is to acquire status and fortunes. That is what every good man strives for- success. Now when it comes to dating, especially during the college years, I believe the reason why most relationships do not work out, is because how they came about.
Men are fairly simple creatures. They want good company and conversation, they want someone they can really be their TRUE selves around, they want a woman who will feed them and rock their worlds in the sack. Simple enough, but it’s usually never accomplished, because most of them can NEVER be their true selves around their women. And most of them resent the fact that they can’t do so.
Most men feel inadequate in this world. Which is why they lie about their status, how much they make, where they work and the such. The media, society and women do not make it any better. It’s hard out there for a Pimp! Lol… With all the images of dudes ballin out with hella hoes all over the tv screen, men in turn realize that the fastest way to get women, is to ball out. And they are right, some women are so shallow, all it takes it a dude with a nice car and clothes, and she’s dick ridin him hella hard!
What they do not realize though, is that those types of women, are truly the ones you should stay away from, because in essence, she’s with you for what you have- not who you are. This is the main way that men in turn, constantly feel used by women but like I always say- STOP trying to play Captain Save a Hoe to hoes that don’t wanna be saved. We also have loads of women who will verbalize and are very vocal about being with broke busters, so as a man, he has to step it up and he realizes that in order to get women, he must either acquire status… or lie about it. Which usually works!
Now, most men get caught up in the PUSSY=POWER extravaganza, only because they are thirsty, regular or Submissive males. An Alpha male, NEVER gets caught up, because there are no games. When dating, as a man, you usually have to pick a place, pay for it and entertain your chick. You also have to listen attentively and offer your two cents when it is asked of you. Now if you actually like this girl and want to really be with her, that is all fine and dandy. But I believe most of the men who are my peers, are not on this level yet.
You see, when men are in their prime, they aren’t trying to settle down. The ones that do, either have low self-esteems or aren’t getting any buns on the regular. I have surveyed more than a few dozen men, and when asked this question, 95% of them responded as I’d hoped.
The sample question was this… “Forget everything you know about society and dating- throw it out the window. Now if you had the choice, what would you chose? You could either be in a relationship with one girl, or you could be single and guaranteed sex, no strings ever, with as many women as you’d like- most women would never deny you. In fact, 9 outta 10 times, if you approach a girl for some ass, she’d say YES.”
Most men, picked the single option. So ladies are right in a sense… Most men, only DO want one thing. And if they could get it, they would have no reason to be in a relationship, until they got older, their testosterone levels dropped, and they finally know what they want. Most men, don’t want all the things that come with a relationship. Sure, they’d like the company and the pussy, but most men hate all the drama that comes along with that pussy.
What is funny about my sample question, is that men would love to live this type of way, almost never being denied. If they were almost never denied, they wouldn’t have a reason to settle down. The question though is derived from the way women are in this world. Women actually DO have this option, the option of either being taken or single and almost never denied dick. If women wanted, they COULD live this way, most just choose not to. Most have never thought about it that way… Drool Boys, I know you’re HATIN! Lol
So for men, the regular and Submissive’s, being that they usual work hard for the pussy- they have their own issues to attend to. Many of them have been rejected and in turn, they have low self-esteems. What is funny is that many of them, will settle with the first girl who is willing to give them ass on the regular! That is why they wanna lock that shit down. Not necessarily because they want to be in a relationship, but because they don’t have many options when it comes to sex partners and you come along and fuck em on the regular. That alone makes many men settle.
So, it’s is not necessarily that he wants to get serious and wants all the drama that comes with being with a most women (bitches are crazy lol), because he’d really rather go without it. Men being the easy creatures that they are, usually have very little will power, and will usually not deny a girl some of his dick- especially if he’s attracted to her. They have and exhibit very little self-control when faced with the scenario I previously stated. So, if men actually had it the way women did when it comes to those options, relationships probably wouldn’t start until people were in their late 20’s.
Now when men date women, it is all about the front, mainly because you have no idea what kind of chick you are with. Many men will sit there, front, and lie about what they have, like a peacock parading around proudly showing his colorful feathers, in hopes of attracting a mate. This is mainly because the media and bitches make it hard for a man to get and attract women, if you’re not balling out. So most men will lie about all that shit, in hopes of impressing a girl enough.
Sure, many men DO just want pussy. Some will be forthcoming and many more, will be sneaky about the whole thing. The main thing they like to say is “I just wanna get to know you”… that is also about the only thing they really say. So if he says some shit like that, then it’s definitely all about the pussy. And sure, he may take you out on a few dates, but he’s usually trying to get that by the 3rd or 4th date. If he doesn’t get it, many of them move on. But for some, you have become a challenge that they have accepted, and they will then do almost anything to get that pussy. Even if it means getting into a relationship with you.
Men who are serious about a woman, will take their time, and show her the upmost respect… even if he’s extra attracted to her and has already fucked her 50 times in his mind. He is chivalrous, and most importantly, he will court you properly. Men who have reached this stage, are serious about settling down, and they usually know exactly what they want and what they expect from their woman. Men will ONLY get to this stage on their own- and no amount of persuading, or pussy, will change that.
Now men in relationships, we’re gunna break it down into two sections- real and fake relationships. Fake relationships are what many men have in their teens and early 20’s. I say they are fake because most of them, if they had the chance to fuck any chick they want at any time- most would chose to do so over a relationship any day! So men in fake relationships, sure lots of them don’t care and many will lie and cheat. Many of them can’t stand their girlfriends- but, it is constant pussy, so many of them stay… Until something better comes along that is.
Now men in real relationships, who actually know what they want and want to settle down- those are gems. Those are the “good men” women claim they seek. What most men have to deal with in relationships is crazy though. Like I said before, most men, want more than anything to be able to be himself around you. He wants to be able to break down the walls and relax. Most of them can’t though, because the type of women they are with, never allows that to happen.
These men may stay around, like I said, many of them stay for the constant pussy, but many of them start to resent their other halves. It gets tiring and annoying, when you can never be real with the person you love. It also gets tiring and annoying, when it becomes a project every time you are real with a bitch. Like I said men are ill equipped and women DO NOT make it easy. Believe me when I say that some of your boyfriends and husbands deserve head all night long, just for putting up with your crazy ass shit.
Now on to sex, my favorite topic of course ;) I felt the need to address this area when it comes to men because this is something that is never talked about, and I feel that women SHOULD know this. Any woman who have ever strapped up, and fucked someone, can sympathize and will know what the fuck I’m talking about. Men spend an enormous amount of energy and strength, just to fuck you right. The amount of work that men do, the stamina that some of them have- I COMMEND YOU! Women REALLY don’t know what it is like to fuck like a man, so if your man is fucking you right… treat him nice, he works hard!
Sure, there are MANY men who don’t fuck their women right, if they did, more women would know what the Big O REALLY feels like. But like I stated before there are advantages AND disadvantages to being a beast in the sheets. If you are serious about your chick, and you want to keep her at bay- BLOW HER BACK OUT! That shit will calm her ass down, seriously, I promise. Women who are sexually happy, only become more enthralled with their men, and the power their pussy has over the situation breaks. I’ll explain more about what happens in the next blog when I break down Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
Now the negative impact that this can have, is if you are doing you’re woman wrong. If you do her wrong, or plan on doing so, please, DO NOT fuck her all crazy. I swear that the craziness levels in women increase, the better you fuck them. So if you blow her back out, and then do her dirty- she WILL make your life a living hell. And it’s mainly because she is PISSED you gave away that good dick- I don’t entirely blame her.
In conclusion, men are simple creatures, they want to be able to be themselves and they want a woman to fuck them right. Sure, many of them lie just to get to the pussy, but women don’t make it easy for a regular man to get some action too. They work hard, just as hard as women and harder in the sack (some of them), so for a woman to feel entitled to his ends- get a new hustle Gold Digger… its 2010. Sure, many of them don’t even want relationships, many of them are “trapped” into relationships, JUST cuz you give them pussy on the regular. Most don’t know what it is they want yet, but one day he will- hopefully.
Until next time kiddies… Stay tuned for the breakdown of societies Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
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Monday, December 6, 2010
MODERN DATING: The Bitches Edition
Modern dating from a woman’s perspective, is where we go today. You see women are beautiful and fragile creatures, some with emotions grander than the oceans themselves. Women can be delicate, they can be impulsive, they can be irrational, and they can be crazy. I’m gunna try to tell you why though and let you in on a few things that most women do and what they don’t want you to know. How they work and what makes these bitches tick.
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
MODERN DATING: The Intro
A new year and a new mission. Last year, I decided to face the challenges of dating. What I have gained from these experiences are basic insights overlooked by many. Since there is so much to cover, and I am going to try to cover it all, this will be a mini series of sorts. This one will basically cover things that are affected by both the sexes when dating. Feelings felt, things done and said, and a certain thing that both sides definitely deal with. Then I will in further blogs, assess the dating world from both a male and females point of view.
So, let us begin this series by starting at the beginning. So, you think you may like someone and you would like to go out somewhere with them, maybe in an effort to get to know them better. It was once called courting, but we call it dating or just plain ol’ “going out”. In the hood, there seems to be a difference between dating and going out, but I have digressed.
So I want to address something felt by both sexes, felt by many people in the world. Astonishingly, many people in this world have a low self-esteem, and/or image problems. Even the people who front like they THINK they the shit… most often have deep-rooted self- esteem issues. If you do not believe me, look around and within yourself. Its’ all there!
This goes back to the formulation of fronts. A front is something put on by people who are mainly too scared to show who they truly are. This fear can be driven by many things, fear of rejection, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of getting hurt… the list goes on! Nevertheless, this is why fronts exist, mostly as defense mechanisms, and the like. People are too scared to show who they truly are… Period.
There are those who take their fronts too far though. These are the people who have come to believe their fronts. They emulate someone they would like to be, the person they dream of becoming. Yet, they are so stuck in that dream, that instead of progressing and BECOMING the person they front to be… They never do, and stay at square one… STILL fronting!
A word to those people, you are just as bad as a HATER, only because you share common characteristics. In essence, the reason why people hate on you, is mainly because they envy you, and jealousy is a mother fucker. Yet, instead of taking all that energy used to hate, and putting it towards positive, constructive ways to better themselves- they do not. All the energy used to hate and breed negativity, could be used to better yourself. And then maybe your ass wouldn’t be as miserable, and you wouldn’t have to hate on others, cuz you now got your own.
One last note on this issue… People need to mind their own fucking business. Seriously though. People fail or neglect their own issues cuz they’re so worried about what the next person is doing. Why are you so concerned with what is going on with other people? Well, it’s WAY more interesting than YOUR life- that’s for sure. Get a fucking life, and stop being so fucking nosey when it comes to matters that don’t concern you… This is anything and everything that doesn’t directly affect YOU. “Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone”… This would be NONE OF YOU! Remember that! How you gunna call someone out for not having they shit in order, and talk shit about any issue; when in your life, you are facing the same issues and have no idea how to deal with it. Two words: C’MoN SoN!
Back to the dating extravaganza. So, there are these fronts, which most people have and put into play. The only thing is that some people live deeper in their fronts than others. The people who are off on the deep end, are the ones you should avoid. Don’t try to play Captain Save a Hoe, don’t try to play Ms. Fix-iT, these people CAN NOT be fixed by anyone aside from themselves. They put themselves in these holes, and they themselves must find their way out and truly discover who they are.
There is the initial meeting, or not, nowadays people are resorting to all types of methods for meeting new people. So there isn’t always that initial meeting before a date. But something I found interesting was the amount of people I ran into who exhibited self-esteem issues.
You may not want to believe it, but you too may have these issues. I do not believe I have ever met anyone who was 100% happy with who they are and what they have or will become. And anyone who has said so, was FRONTING! Deep down inside, everyone has issues, some more than others and when it comes to our relations with other people, shit gets fucked up pretty quickly because of how we feel about ourselves.
For instance, many people settle for less because they feel they are undeserving of more, or they really don’t think they can find anything better. This basically means to me, that YOU don’t think very highly of yourself. I see both men and women cope out and stay with people who don’t necessarily make them happy, but they don’t think there is anything better. And you are right, there ain’t shit better for you, if deep down inside, you think YOUR shit. Finding yourself and KNOWING who you truly are is a journey we all must take if we ever want to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions in life. How are you going to choose a suitable mate, if you are so disillusioned that you believe you are someone you are not. It ain’t fucking happening.
What is crazy though is that the very way we feel about OURSELVES has a major impact on who we are with and date. One thing that both sexes have to deal with is REJECTION. Sure in essence women certainly do not have to deal with it as much, but most women aren’t secure enough in themselves to know this. Men and women both have instances where they won’t approach someone JUST because of how the person looks. Men are scared to holla at that bad bitch, women are scared to holla at Mr. Sexy… All because they aren’t secure enough to take the risk and say fuck it!
Let me let you in on a secret… The sexy people of the world are broken down into 2 categories… The ones who got it and know they got it… And the ones who got it and have NO idea. What was interesting is that, I would say 70%, of people who look good have self image issues. Most people that look good, also suffer from self-esteem issues. As a result, they usually aren’t gunna holla at anyone, cuz they are insecure. And on the flip side, no one holla’s at them because they don’t think they are good enough, they get intimidated cuz the person looks good and fear rejection… You know where that gets you? NOWHERE.
This is how the world turns unfortunately. I like to break people down into certain categories. There are the Alpha’s, the Submissive's and then there’s everyone else. Later on I’ll discuss how each of these categories dates and how they get along in society. But for now, know that the Alpha’s are mainly the people who are secure enough in themselves, that when they date, they are almost immune to the bullshit the opposite sex tries to pull, in order to gain control of the situation. The Submissive’s are people who are easily swayed and taken over… No fight necessary… They usually just let you run they shit… These people usually have deeply rooted mommy/daddy issues. Then there is everyone else, which is the majority of the population. Now the thing with everyone else though is that they are usually at odds with one another over CONTROL of the situation. It seems to me that nowadays, it’s all about control, who controls what and who controls who. This is where the games ensue and take place, it is where they derive from.
Back to dating, so you meet someone and have secured the first date. Let me tell your ass where NOT to go: the movies, dinner, a bar, a club, or anywhere else where you can’t have a quiet and private conversation with your date. A proper first date should be going for coffee, or ice cream, or going to the park or a museum or art gallery… Somewhere public that is quiet enough for you two to converse. Sure, people get wrapped up in the bullshit, especially women with their high maintenance shit… But seriously, the first date is IMPORTANT, it is your first time out and about together.
What people neglect is that on a first date- talking should NOT be optional! This is how you get to know a person, and it’s what you SHOULD want to do. So many people waste time, energy and effort into dates, when it should be very simple. A conversation with that person is what should be the most important part of your date, not where they are taking you or what you are doing. This is an area where people throw simplicity out the window, not knowing that simplicity will take you farther than trying to make shit all complicated.
A first date should be short, sweet and cheap! YES, I said cheap! I honestly say this because I see so many people splurge on a first date- for nothing. Fellas, save your guap for the 3rd date. If a chick has made it to a 3rd date, then you can take her somewhere nice. But don’t spend all your money on a bitch the first time around, mainly because, MOST bitches aren’t worth it! Seriously though, why spend all your money on someone you barely know? And a lot of the times it doesn’t even work out. So dudes watch your wallets, unless you can afford to ball out, cuz nowadays we got bitches being Dinner Whores. Which means, she will only call you when she wanna go out, and always makes you pay… And at the end of the day, you NEVER get to really play! Lol… Ain’t that Fucked Up?
A first date should be used to try to REALLY get a person and where they are coming from. The shit I hate about that though, is that SO MANY PEOPLE lie their asses off on a first date or any date, period. This is usually all fronting and they are doing so in hopes of impressing you. Both men and women do it, and in turn, you NEVER get to really know who that person is- that’s the worse part. You get to know who it is they PORTRAY themselves to be, but who are they really? That is to be discovered with time.
What REALLY grinds my gears is that you spend all this time and effort into getting to know someone and all they were doing the whole time is fronting. This is where you gotta check yourself and do some self evaluations and find out what YOU are fronting about in an effort to understand people more. What do you front about? Do you even know? Do you know what is reality and what is fabricated? Many people don’t know and are so stuck in their fronts that they can’t decipher reality from what they have fabricated.
People need to turn to simplicity. Shit CAN be oh so simple… if you just let it happen. If you stopped trying to impress others, if you stopped caring what others thought, if you just let yourself be who you truly are- for once. It amazingly is EASIER to tell the truth and to be REAL, than it is to lie and create an entire front. This is time that could be used to do more constructive things, like, I dunno, maybe actually getting yourself where you want to be in life.
So, what have we learned today? Most people have self-esteem issues, so don’t be scared to holla at something sexy, chances are they have the same issues you do… So grow some balls and make an initiative and go talk to them. First dates are IMPORTANT! They should be cheap and you should be conversing vigorously. Yes, people front and lie like their lives depend on it, but every person makes a difference, so STOP FRONTIN! (I need to get that shit printed on a t-shirt, like the Stop Snitchin ones lol)… As people we attract those who are reflections of ourselves, and real talk- REAL ALWAYS RECOGNIZES REAL… you just have to look past all the bullshit and lies to be able to know and appreciate what something REAL looks like.
Until Next Time Kiddies… Stay tuned for the male and female perspectives in the dating world… This should be fun ;)
So, let us begin this series by starting at the beginning. So, you think you may like someone and you would like to go out somewhere with them, maybe in an effort to get to know them better. It was once called courting, but we call it dating or just plain ol’ “going out”. In the hood, there seems to be a difference between dating and going out, but I have digressed.
So I want to address something felt by both sexes, felt by many people in the world. Astonishingly, many people in this world have a low self-esteem, and/or image problems. Even the people who front like they THINK they the shit… most often have deep-rooted self- esteem issues. If you do not believe me, look around and within yourself. Its’ all there!
This goes back to the formulation of fronts. A front is something put on by people who are mainly too scared to show who they truly are. This fear can be driven by many things, fear of rejection, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of getting hurt… the list goes on! Nevertheless, this is why fronts exist, mostly as defense mechanisms, and the like. People are too scared to show who they truly are… Period.
There are those who take their fronts too far though. These are the people who have come to believe their fronts. They emulate someone they would like to be, the person they dream of becoming. Yet, they are so stuck in that dream, that instead of progressing and BECOMING the person they front to be… They never do, and stay at square one… STILL fronting!
A word to those people, you are just as bad as a HATER, only because you share common characteristics. In essence, the reason why people hate on you, is mainly because they envy you, and jealousy is a mother fucker. Yet, instead of taking all that energy used to hate, and putting it towards positive, constructive ways to better themselves- they do not. All the energy used to hate and breed negativity, could be used to better yourself. And then maybe your ass wouldn’t be as miserable, and you wouldn’t have to hate on others, cuz you now got your own.
One last note on this issue… People need to mind their own fucking business. Seriously though. People fail or neglect their own issues cuz they’re so worried about what the next person is doing. Why are you so concerned with what is going on with other people? Well, it’s WAY more interesting than YOUR life- that’s for sure. Get a fucking life, and stop being so fucking nosey when it comes to matters that don’t concern you… This is anything and everything that doesn’t directly affect YOU. “Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone”… This would be NONE OF YOU! Remember that! How you gunna call someone out for not having they shit in order, and talk shit about any issue; when in your life, you are facing the same issues and have no idea how to deal with it. Two words: C’MoN SoN!
Back to the dating extravaganza. So, there are these fronts, which most people have and put into play. The only thing is that some people live deeper in their fronts than others. The people who are off on the deep end, are the ones you should avoid. Don’t try to play Captain Save a Hoe, don’t try to play Ms. Fix-iT, these people CAN NOT be fixed by anyone aside from themselves. They put themselves in these holes, and they themselves must find their way out and truly discover who they are.
There is the initial meeting, or not, nowadays people are resorting to all types of methods for meeting new people. So there isn’t always that initial meeting before a date. But something I found interesting was the amount of people I ran into who exhibited self-esteem issues.
You may not want to believe it, but you too may have these issues. I do not believe I have ever met anyone who was 100% happy with who they are and what they have or will become. And anyone who has said so, was FRONTING! Deep down inside, everyone has issues, some more than others and when it comes to our relations with other people, shit gets fucked up pretty quickly because of how we feel about ourselves.
For instance, many people settle for less because they feel they are undeserving of more, or they really don’t think they can find anything better. This basically means to me, that YOU don’t think very highly of yourself. I see both men and women cope out and stay with people who don’t necessarily make them happy, but they don’t think there is anything better. And you are right, there ain’t shit better for you, if deep down inside, you think YOUR shit. Finding yourself and KNOWING who you truly are is a journey we all must take if we ever want to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions in life. How are you going to choose a suitable mate, if you are so disillusioned that you believe you are someone you are not. It ain’t fucking happening.
What is crazy though is that the very way we feel about OURSELVES has a major impact on who we are with and date. One thing that both sexes have to deal with is REJECTION. Sure in essence women certainly do not have to deal with it as much, but most women aren’t secure enough in themselves to know this. Men and women both have instances where they won’t approach someone JUST because of how the person looks. Men are scared to holla at that bad bitch, women are scared to holla at Mr. Sexy… All because they aren’t secure enough to take the risk and say fuck it!
Let me let you in on a secret… The sexy people of the world are broken down into 2 categories… The ones who got it and know they got it… And the ones who got it and have NO idea. What was interesting is that, I would say 70%, of people who look good have self image issues. Most people that look good, also suffer from self-esteem issues. As a result, they usually aren’t gunna holla at anyone, cuz they are insecure. And on the flip side, no one holla’s at them because they don’t think they are good enough, they get intimidated cuz the person looks good and fear rejection… You know where that gets you? NOWHERE.
This is how the world turns unfortunately. I like to break people down into certain categories. There are the Alpha’s, the Submissive's and then there’s everyone else. Later on I’ll discuss how each of these categories dates and how they get along in society. But for now, know that the Alpha’s are mainly the people who are secure enough in themselves, that when they date, they are almost immune to the bullshit the opposite sex tries to pull, in order to gain control of the situation. The Submissive’s are people who are easily swayed and taken over… No fight necessary… They usually just let you run they shit… These people usually have deeply rooted mommy/daddy issues. Then there is everyone else, which is the majority of the population. Now the thing with everyone else though is that they are usually at odds with one another over CONTROL of the situation. It seems to me that nowadays, it’s all about control, who controls what and who controls who. This is where the games ensue and take place, it is where they derive from.
Back to dating, so you meet someone and have secured the first date. Let me tell your ass where NOT to go: the movies, dinner, a bar, a club, or anywhere else where you can’t have a quiet and private conversation with your date. A proper first date should be going for coffee, or ice cream, or going to the park or a museum or art gallery… Somewhere public that is quiet enough for you two to converse. Sure, people get wrapped up in the bullshit, especially women with their high maintenance shit… But seriously, the first date is IMPORTANT, it is your first time out and about together.
What people neglect is that on a first date- talking should NOT be optional! This is how you get to know a person, and it’s what you SHOULD want to do. So many people waste time, energy and effort into dates, when it should be very simple. A conversation with that person is what should be the most important part of your date, not where they are taking you or what you are doing. This is an area where people throw simplicity out the window, not knowing that simplicity will take you farther than trying to make shit all complicated.
A first date should be short, sweet and cheap! YES, I said cheap! I honestly say this because I see so many people splurge on a first date- for nothing. Fellas, save your guap for the 3rd date. If a chick has made it to a 3rd date, then you can take her somewhere nice. But don’t spend all your money on a bitch the first time around, mainly because, MOST bitches aren’t worth it! Seriously though, why spend all your money on someone you barely know? And a lot of the times it doesn’t even work out. So dudes watch your wallets, unless you can afford to ball out, cuz nowadays we got bitches being Dinner Whores. Which means, she will only call you when she wanna go out, and always makes you pay… And at the end of the day, you NEVER get to really play! Lol… Ain’t that Fucked Up?
A first date should be used to try to REALLY get a person and where they are coming from. The shit I hate about that though, is that SO MANY PEOPLE lie their asses off on a first date or any date, period. This is usually all fronting and they are doing so in hopes of impressing you. Both men and women do it, and in turn, you NEVER get to really know who that person is- that’s the worse part. You get to know who it is they PORTRAY themselves to be, but who are they really? That is to be discovered with time.
What REALLY grinds my gears is that you spend all this time and effort into getting to know someone and all they were doing the whole time is fronting. This is where you gotta check yourself and do some self evaluations and find out what YOU are fronting about in an effort to understand people more. What do you front about? Do you even know? Do you know what is reality and what is fabricated? Many people don’t know and are so stuck in their fronts that they can’t decipher reality from what they have fabricated.
People need to turn to simplicity. Shit CAN be oh so simple… if you just let it happen. If you stopped trying to impress others, if you stopped caring what others thought, if you just let yourself be who you truly are- for once. It amazingly is EASIER to tell the truth and to be REAL, than it is to lie and create an entire front. This is time that could be used to do more constructive things, like, I dunno, maybe actually getting yourself where you want to be in life.
So, what have we learned today? Most people have self-esteem issues, so don’t be scared to holla at something sexy, chances are they have the same issues you do… So grow some balls and make an initiative and go talk to them. First dates are IMPORTANT! They should be cheap and you should be conversing vigorously. Yes, people front and lie like their lives depend on it, but every person makes a difference, so STOP FRONTIN! (I need to get that shit printed on a t-shirt, like the Stop Snitchin ones lol)… As people we attract those who are reflections of ourselves, and real talk- REAL ALWAYS RECOGNIZES REAL… you just have to look past all the bullshit and lies to be able to know and appreciate what something REAL looks like.
Until Next Time Kiddies… Stay tuned for the male and female perspectives in the dating world… This should be fun ;)
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Simplicity is Complicated
Simplicity (noun): 1. Being simple. A lack of complexity, complication,
embellishment, or difficulty.
2. Simple thing. A simple quality or thing.
Simplicity sounds like such an easy thing. It’s simple, of course! Yet when it comes to people and society at large, it seems that most people I encounter have forgotten this. They have forgotten the simple things of life. Yet, at the end of the day… it’s the simple things that make us smile. The simple things that make us happy. Moreover, it’s the simple things that are constant, never changing and will always be there.
I would first like to address the miserable people who are walking this green earth… GET OVER YOURSELF! I see so many people who constantly complain about bullshit in their lives. They complain about the most miniscule things. They make life harder on themselves and as a result- are never fucking happy. You see, even when happy, they’ll STILL find something to complain about.
These are the same people who complain that they’re never happy. These people suffer from attention problems a lot of the time. They want attention and seek it through looking miserable all the time in hopes that someone will come along and ask what’s wrong. They want to be able to tell their story of woe to someone. They yearn for drama and aren’t at peace unless some type of chaos surrounds them.
These people sulk in their misery. They are often depressed. They often verbalize this to anyone around them who will listen. Many have been this way for so long that this characteristic has become something that is a part of who they are. They are miserable and enjoy being sad and depressed. What’s crazy though is that most of them don’t know this and will still say that they just want to be happy!
What is especially crazy though is that many of these people PUT THEMSELVES IN THESE SITUATIONS. These people complain all day, yet they themselves are the keepers of their own demise. The only thing I have to say about that is this: if you PUT YOURSELF in a situation and STAY THERE, then guess what poppet’s…. You have FORFEITED all rights to complain about said situation.
This may be cruel to say for some, but nevertheless, it is the TRUTH. You cannot complain about something or anything for that matter if you stay in that situation- no matter what it is. Real talk, if it were THAT BAD, you would have found a way to escape. But, you don’t. This tells us one of two things… Either you LIKE IT or you just want something to complain about.
It is so simple to walk away from a fucked up situation. It’s as easy as getting up, walking away and not looking back. Yet so many people find this hard to do. Know this… Walking away is the easiest, most simple thing to do. Most don’t, only because they either want to be there or they let their feelings and fears dictate them.
I have known many of people in fucked up situations, that they just could not seem to get out of. The main reason being, that when they think of solutions, they are not happy with any of them. They may have to deal with another situation they may not like or people they may not like. Know this… at any point in time in our lives; we will face situations that we may not necessarily want to deal with. You can either run the opposite way and forever more have problems, or you can stand your ground and deal with it. Which in turn makes you a stronger person.
This is a part of growing up. Learning when and how to pick your battles, learning when and how to speak up for yourself, and most importantly learning when and how you should let certain things go. You have to think beyond what is happening in the here and now, and look at the bigger picture. You may have to deal with fucked up shit, just to get to where you want to be in life.
When I think about the phrase “Easier said than done”, this applies to the majority of the population. This though is only because, like I said, most people let their feelings and fears dictate them. It is not the end of the world if you walk away, stop thinking so. Those fears are what will hinder you for your entire lives. Fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of the unknown… are common amongst society. Get over it!
This also goes back to what I said about drama chasers. Many of them claim that they HATE drama, yet are constantly surrounded by it. Look around you and you’ll see it everywhere. I’ve personally seen bitches pick a fight with her man over NOTHING. All because she wanted that drama, something to complain to her girls about. This scenario is definitely seen more with women. Women after all LOOOOOVE to complain about SHIT.
The ones who love the drama are often surrounded by others of their kind. Misery loves company of course, and the depressed run in packs. Look around you, examine your peers and you will eventually start to see who people really are. The drama lovers are surges of negative energy, and that shit DOES rub off. So if you don’t want to be miserable, stay away from those who generate it like the heat from the sun. It can and will eventually affect you as an individual.
On to the people in fucked up relationships, who can’t seem to walk away. I’ve seen a wide array and variety of relationships that were shot to hell, but the people still stayed. They stayed for various reasons, mainly because they fear being alone and they fear the unknown. I’ve also seen people who live with each other and are only doing so because it’s cheaper than living on your own. For those people… one word, two syllables: roommate.
You shouldn’t stay in a fucked up relationship, where no one is happy, just so you can go half with someone on rent. It’s called a ROOMMATE! Not that fucking hard; but instead, you people just stay in fucked up relationships, more than half of you cheat, you aren’t happy and at the end of the day most of you go home to someone you have grown to hate. Guess what? You have forfeited all rights to complain about that shit! It’s not that hard to get up and leave, nor is it that hard to find a roommate.
People make their own lives harder than it has to be. You put yourselves in fucked up situations. Then, you have the audacity to sit there and complain about it. I am here to tell you, that if you are in a fucked up situation, and you know it… and you STILL stay there. Then guess what? No complaints should ever escape your breathe.
This is just the tip of the iceberg, being that there are many marriages that are like this too. If children are involved, then it just makes it that much worse. The only thing I will say about this though is that society has come to accept divorce and accept broken homes- I have not. If people would actually get to know one another before deciding to marry, things would be so much different. But… people are impulsive, people are deceitful and many have hidden agendas. Your job in a relationship is to get to REALLY know a person, and not who they portray themselves to be.
The bottom line of all this is that life can be extremely simple. We as people have made it hard upon ourselves only because we let our fears and feelings dictate us. This in essence is what makes situations harder upon us. The fact that we can’t see the bigger picture and do whatever it takes to get to where we want to be.
To those of you in shitty relationships, especially women, you bitches are disillusioned to believe certain things. Never forget one thing though, that thing you hold in between your legs IS POWERFUL! Bitches who cry over dudes and get all depressed and shit- I laugh at you bitches, cuz you REALLY don’t know what you have, nor do you value yourself.
If he was fucked up to you, get over him. There are PLENTY of men, all over the place. As a woman, we can pick and choose who we want. We have that advantage over men. We can literally pick who we want, when we want, within reason of course. So ladies, stop moping around. The world is our oyster, and we can have just about anyone within it… even if you are an ugly bitch.
Men on the other hand don’t have it as easy. They can’t just go out and get whatever girl he wants, unless of course, he is an alpha male. So men, if you are in a fucked up situation, let it go. Go out with your friends, get wasted and live it up.
It amazes me how many of you cope out and sell yourself short just because a bitch is giving you pussy on the regular. STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT! You will never be happy that way, and that bitch will always be the naggy ass bitch you met her as. Men, practice and learn some fucking self-control. No woman should want a man who displays little self-control and will power.
So, to wrap this all up. Simplicity is simple, yet we have made it hard upon ourselves. We have made our lives way harder than they originally were. Let go of certain things, it is the only way to progress. And sometimes the road less travelled may seem longer, darker and scarier, but in turn you will not only acquire growth in mind, body and spirit; you will also finally be where you want to be in life. Lastly, if you are in a fucked up situation and you know it, and you really hate it as much as you say you do- then leave. You are putting yourself through torture and it’s your own fault. Remember that anything that can easily be said, CAN easily be done. Stop being scared now, because if you don’t you will remain this way forever. If you don’t leave, also know that now, you can’t complain about it. You cannot complain about a situation or anything that is SELF-INFLICTED! Period.
Until next time, Be Real with Yourself and Each Other.
embellishment, or difficulty.
2. Simple thing. A simple quality or thing.
Simplicity sounds like such an easy thing. It’s simple, of course! Yet when it comes to people and society at large, it seems that most people I encounter have forgotten this. They have forgotten the simple things of life. Yet, at the end of the day… it’s the simple things that make us smile. The simple things that make us happy. Moreover, it’s the simple things that are constant, never changing and will always be there.
I would first like to address the miserable people who are walking this green earth… GET OVER YOURSELF! I see so many people who constantly complain about bullshit in their lives. They complain about the most miniscule things. They make life harder on themselves and as a result- are never fucking happy. You see, even when happy, they’ll STILL find something to complain about.
These are the same people who complain that they’re never happy. These people suffer from attention problems a lot of the time. They want attention and seek it through looking miserable all the time in hopes that someone will come along and ask what’s wrong. They want to be able to tell their story of woe to someone. They yearn for drama and aren’t at peace unless some type of chaos surrounds them.
These people sulk in their misery. They are often depressed. They often verbalize this to anyone around them who will listen. Many have been this way for so long that this characteristic has become something that is a part of who they are. They are miserable and enjoy being sad and depressed. What’s crazy though is that most of them don’t know this and will still say that they just want to be happy!
What is especially crazy though is that many of these people PUT THEMSELVES IN THESE SITUATIONS. These people complain all day, yet they themselves are the keepers of their own demise. The only thing I have to say about that is this: if you PUT YOURSELF in a situation and STAY THERE, then guess what poppet’s…. You have FORFEITED all rights to complain about said situation.
This may be cruel to say for some, but nevertheless, it is the TRUTH. You cannot complain about something or anything for that matter if you stay in that situation- no matter what it is. Real talk, if it were THAT BAD, you would have found a way to escape. But, you don’t. This tells us one of two things… Either you LIKE IT or you just want something to complain about.
It is so simple to walk away from a fucked up situation. It’s as easy as getting up, walking away and not looking back. Yet so many people find this hard to do. Know this… Walking away is the easiest, most simple thing to do. Most don’t, only because they either want to be there or they let their feelings and fears dictate them.
I have known many of people in fucked up situations, that they just could not seem to get out of. The main reason being, that when they think of solutions, they are not happy with any of them. They may have to deal with another situation they may not like or people they may not like. Know this… at any point in time in our lives; we will face situations that we may not necessarily want to deal with. You can either run the opposite way and forever more have problems, or you can stand your ground and deal with it. Which in turn makes you a stronger person.
This is a part of growing up. Learning when and how to pick your battles, learning when and how to speak up for yourself, and most importantly learning when and how you should let certain things go. You have to think beyond what is happening in the here and now, and look at the bigger picture. You may have to deal with fucked up shit, just to get to where you want to be in life.
When I think about the phrase “Easier said than done”, this applies to the majority of the population. This though is only because, like I said, most people let their feelings and fears dictate them. It is not the end of the world if you walk away, stop thinking so. Those fears are what will hinder you for your entire lives. Fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of the unknown… are common amongst society. Get over it!
This also goes back to what I said about drama chasers. Many of them claim that they HATE drama, yet are constantly surrounded by it. Look around you and you’ll see it everywhere. I’ve personally seen bitches pick a fight with her man over NOTHING. All because she wanted that drama, something to complain to her girls about. This scenario is definitely seen more with women. Women after all LOOOOOVE to complain about SHIT.
The ones who love the drama are often surrounded by others of their kind. Misery loves company of course, and the depressed run in packs. Look around you, examine your peers and you will eventually start to see who people really are. The drama lovers are surges of negative energy, and that shit DOES rub off. So if you don’t want to be miserable, stay away from those who generate it like the heat from the sun. It can and will eventually affect you as an individual.
On to the people in fucked up relationships, who can’t seem to walk away. I’ve seen a wide array and variety of relationships that were shot to hell, but the people still stayed. They stayed for various reasons, mainly because they fear being alone and they fear the unknown. I’ve also seen people who live with each other and are only doing so because it’s cheaper than living on your own. For those people… one word, two syllables: roommate.
You shouldn’t stay in a fucked up relationship, where no one is happy, just so you can go half with someone on rent. It’s called a ROOMMATE! Not that fucking hard; but instead, you people just stay in fucked up relationships, more than half of you cheat, you aren’t happy and at the end of the day most of you go home to someone you have grown to hate. Guess what? You have forfeited all rights to complain about that shit! It’s not that hard to get up and leave, nor is it that hard to find a roommate.
People make their own lives harder than it has to be. You put yourselves in fucked up situations. Then, you have the audacity to sit there and complain about it. I am here to tell you, that if you are in a fucked up situation, and you know it… and you STILL stay there. Then guess what? No complaints should ever escape your breathe.
This is just the tip of the iceberg, being that there are many marriages that are like this too. If children are involved, then it just makes it that much worse. The only thing I will say about this though is that society has come to accept divorce and accept broken homes- I have not. If people would actually get to know one another before deciding to marry, things would be so much different. But… people are impulsive, people are deceitful and many have hidden agendas. Your job in a relationship is to get to REALLY know a person, and not who they portray themselves to be.
The bottom line of all this is that life can be extremely simple. We as people have made it hard upon ourselves only because we let our fears and feelings dictate us. This in essence is what makes situations harder upon us. The fact that we can’t see the bigger picture and do whatever it takes to get to where we want to be.
To those of you in shitty relationships, especially women, you bitches are disillusioned to believe certain things. Never forget one thing though, that thing you hold in between your legs IS POWERFUL! Bitches who cry over dudes and get all depressed and shit- I laugh at you bitches, cuz you REALLY don’t know what you have, nor do you value yourself.
If he was fucked up to you, get over him. There are PLENTY of men, all over the place. As a woman, we can pick and choose who we want. We have that advantage over men. We can literally pick who we want, when we want, within reason of course. So ladies, stop moping around. The world is our oyster, and we can have just about anyone within it… even if you are an ugly bitch.
Men on the other hand don’t have it as easy. They can’t just go out and get whatever girl he wants, unless of course, he is an alpha male. So men, if you are in a fucked up situation, let it go. Go out with your friends, get wasted and live it up.
It amazes me how many of you cope out and sell yourself short just because a bitch is giving you pussy on the regular. STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT! You will never be happy that way, and that bitch will always be the naggy ass bitch you met her as. Men, practice and learn some fucking self-control. No woman should want a man who displays little self-control and will power.
So, to wrap this all up. Simplicity is simple, yet we have made it hard upon ourselves. We have made our lives way harder than they originally were. Let go of certain things, it is the only way to progress. And sometimes the road less travelled may seem longer, darker and scarier, but in turn you will not only acquire growth in mind, body and spirit; you will also finally be where you want to be in life. Lastly, if you are in a fucked up situation and you know it, and you really hate it as much as you say you do- then leave. You are putting yourself through torture and it’s your own fault. Remember that anything that can easily be said, CAN easily be done. Stop being scared now, because if you don’t you will remain this way forever. If you don’t leave, also know that now, you can’t complain about it. You cannot complain about a situation or anything that is SELF-INFLICTED! Period.
Until next time, Be Real with Yourself and Each Other.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Teen Pregnancy & Hood Babies
After a conversation with a friend [hi j =)], I felt the need to rant and rave about this subject matter. I would like to start off by saying- this is ALL A VICIOUS CYCLE and that IGNORANCE IS BLISS.
Well, off to the conversation that sparked my rant… So, my homeboy hits me up and asks me to read this conversation he had been having and so I read on. Now, the jist of it all was that the female was upset and went as far as to say literally, “what‘s wrong with you,” when he stated that he had no children at the age of 27.
She went on to say that she does not know ANYONE over the age of 16, who does not have at least ONE child. I say- WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE! Now, in the hood, its true to say that there are an alarming number of teen pregnancy and single- parent households.
What is CRAZY is that 100, 50, even 30 years ago- in society, if you were a teen mother, a single-parent, had children out of wed lock, or got a divorce- you were SCRUTINIZED! Women were seen as whores for having children out of wedlock and being teen mothers, their children were ridiculed in school, and lets not even go to what they thought of you if you got a divorce.
What I believe is wrong is that these things have become an ACCEPTABLE part of society- and maybe not society as a whole, but it is definitely acceptable in the hood. It has become acceptable to become a teen mother and it is even ENCOURAGED! What the fuck happened to parents wanting better for their children? This concept has gone DOWN the fucking drain. What society is stuck with is children having children- and not just one child… but a shit load of them.
Now, it’s one thing if you had a child- it may or may not of been a mistake, and you REALIZE how hard it REALLY is and strive to make your life and the life of your child better. You work, you go to school- you handle your handle. I commend you women who work full-time, go to college at night and have a child(ren) to go home to after. I personally have classes with many women like this (and I don’t know how you do it)… You women are fierce warriors- Stay Strong and Keep Doing You! But… not everyone is as smart- the ignorant bitches continue to populate our planet and what happens to these hood babies (yes, I said hood babies)?
First of all, teens having children- you must understand that children are EXPENSIVE! Children will probably be what you spend the most money on in your entire lifetime. And if you don’t have a job- you should NOT be having a damn baby. I believe that you shouldn’t even THINK of having children until you are financially secure, but guess what- you dumb fucks will NEVER be financially secure if you keep having children every other year.
Secondly, think of what damage you are placing upon your child- children who live in poverty, are less likely to develop as quickly cognitively, socially and emotionally. Now what do these big words mean- they mean when you’re not financially secure- the child is affected even more than you are.
Children are not exposed to as much- something even as simple as a book. Socially- hood babies spend waaay too much time watching shit on tv that is not age appropriate, they are allowed to talk in certain ways, and are not taught basic social skills. Emotionally- you IGNORANT ASS BITCHES spend entirely too much time talking to your children in DISGUSTING ways.
When you put a child down, call them names, curse them out, or degrade them- you are not only destroying their self-image and self-esteem, but you are also setting an example for them to model… and it IS considered child abuse- it’s called VERBAL ABUSE bitches! And, you would know this… if you got some type of higher education- but you didn’t, instead, you chose to increase the population, and destroy the lives of your children. Now when these children go to school, they experience the most difficulty- socially, and academically. There are a lot of aspects tied into poverty.
Thirdly, teenage girls- you are not done developing yet, and you are actually FUCKING UP your body every time you get pregnant and/or have an abortion. Fourth, babies do not come with INSTRUCTION MANUELS- and chances are that if you’re in high school, you know VERY LITTLE about properly rearing children. And guess what, if you’re one of those people in the cycle- your parent knows absolutely nothing about rearing children (look at how the fuck you came out).
And if you helped raised the hood babies produced around you- that doesn’t count! You are not learning proper anything and should not be following those examples. Word of advice- PICK UP A FUCKING BOOK AND READ IT! I’ve known grown ass people with CAREERS, not a fucking job, a profession- who know SHIT about raising a baby- and they were college educated. Now, what the fuck makes YOU think YOU know anything?
Next, I need to address the parents of these broads. In the hood- it’s likely that you’ll find a girl, her mother and grandmother all under the age of 50. Why? Because this behavior has been condoned and is acceptable. You should want more and expect more from your children. You should want them to break the cycle… but you don’t because you’re a SELFISH bitch yourself.
I’ve seen mothers HATE on their children when they were doing better for themselves. I’m sorry, I don’t give a fuck if your rich or poor- EVERYONE has the same opportunities- you just have to want it. There is NO FUCKING EXCUSE for not receiving a higher education of some type- and not just college and there is NO FUCKING EXCUSE for not having a high school diploma.
We are living in an age where a high school diploma is even becoming obsolete- go ahead and try to get a decent job with just a high school diploma and see what happens. You have to plan for your future and most importantly the future of your offspring. In the hood, it is acceptable to live at home with your mom and your five kids and its acceptable because these fucking PARENTS are accepting it.
Understand that helping your kid out is one thing, but doing everything for them is something completely different. For these teens, it’s like nothing has ever changed and they do not feel the full weight of the responsibility they have because they have someone there to help them out.
I know bitches who go out every weekend and leave their kids with their parent… WTF is this? Everyone needs some me time, space and time to unwind- but not ALL the time. Know that when you have a child- there is NO YOU ANYMORE… it’s is ALL FOR THEM! I think that’s why they continue to have so many children, for they do not know the weight of such a responsibility- if they did BELIEVE ME they would stop at one.
By helping them out so much and being their crutch- they are actually becoming hindered in their natural progression through life. You are basically saying- sure, it’s ok to have a baby, even if you’re only 15- but, it’s NOT ok and should NOT be accepted.
Lastly, is the cycle of welfare. Now, I’m all for getting the government for what it’s worth- IF, you are trying to better your life. What I have a problem with is the bitches who have a million kids so they can stay on welfare FOREVER. You bitches are fucking lazy.
How about doing something CONSTRUCTIVE with your time, instead of being at the club all the time, shopping, gossiping and getting your hair and nails did. How about while you’re on welfare, you go back to school- THEY PAY FOR IT. How about you go and learn a trade? How about you acquire a skill of some kind? This would ensure a brighter future for both you and your children. But… you don’t do it. Why? Because you’re a LAZY ASS BITCH! There is absolutely no other damn excuse for not bettering yourself, and I DON’T RESPECT YOU!
Damn…. This was longer than I expected, but fuck it, two tears in a bucket. What have we learned? 1- There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with someone who does not have children and is older than 25. If anything, these are the SMART people- who will ensure that their future and the future of their children is not a fucked up one. 2- People need to stop condoning teen pregnancy. Its fucking wrong- kids, should not be having kids. You are not ready- physically or mentally. If you think you are, think again- cuz your fucking delusional. (on a side note: teens who are hell bent on having children have problems that are deeply rooted psychologically- and these problems NEED to be addressed). And 3- WRAP IT UP! People need to start talking to their children about sex.. I know it may be uncomfortable, but they need to know FACTS. Whether or not you believe it- your kids are gunna fuck with, or without your consent. The best thing you can do for your children as parents is to EDUACTE them so they can make the RIGHT decision and at least use a condom.
Well, off to the conversation that sparked my rant… So, my homeboy hits me up and asks me to read this conversation he had been having and so I read on. Now, the jist of it all was that the female was upset and went as far as to say literally, “what‘s wrong with you,” when he stated that he had no children at the age of 27.
She went on to say that she does not know ANYONE over the age of 16, who does not have at least ONE child. I say- WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE! Now, in the hood, its true to say that there are an alarming number of teen pregnancy and single- parent households.
What is CRAZY is that 100, 50, even 30 years ago- in society, if you were a teen mother, a single-parent, had children out of wed lock, or got a divorce- you were SCRUTINIZED! Women were seen as whores for having children out of wedlock and being teen mothers, their children were ridiculed in school, and lets not even go to what they thought of you if you got a divorce.
What I believe is wrong is that these things have become an ACCEPTABLE part of society- and maybe not society as a whole, but it is definitely acceptable in the hood. It has become acceptable to become a teen mother and it is even ENCOURAGED! What the fuck happened to parents wanting better for their children? This concept has gone DOWN the fucking drain. What society is stuck with is children having children- and not just one child… but a shit load of them.
Now, it’s one thing if you had a child- it may or may not of been a mistake, and you REALIZE how hard it REALLY is and strive to make your life and the life of your child better. You work, you go to school- you handle your handle. I commend you women who work full-time, go to college at night and have a child(ren) to go home to after. I personally have classes with many women like this (and I don’t know how you do it)… You women are fierce warriors- Stay Strong and Keep Doing You! But… not everyone is as smart- the ignorant bitches continue to populate our planet and what happens to these hood babies (yes, I said hood babies)?
First of all, teens having children- you must understand that children are EXPENSIVE! Children will probably be what you spend the most money on in your entire lifetime. And if you don’t have a job- you should NOT be having a damn baby. I believe that you shouldn’t even THINK of having children until you are financially secure, but guess what- you dumb fucks will NEVER be financially secure if you keep having children every other year.
Secondly, think of what damage you are placing upon your child- children who live in poverty, are less likely to develop as quickly cognitively, socially and emotionally. Now what do these big words mean- they mean when you’re not financially secure- the child is affected even more than you are.
Children are not exposed to as much- something even as simple as a book. Socially- hood babies spend waaay too much time watching shit on tv that is not age appropriate, they are allowed to talk in certain ways, and are not taught basic social skills. Emotionally- you IGNORANT ASS BITCHES spend entirely too much time talking to your children in DISGUSTING ways.
When you put a child down, call them names, curse them out, or degrade them- you are not only destroying their self-image and self-esteem, but you are also setting an example for them to model… and it IS considered child abuse- it’s called VERBAL ABUSE bitches! And, you would know this… if you got some type of higher education- but you didn’t, instead, you chose to increase the population, and destroy the lives of your children. Now when these children go to school, they experience the most difficulty- socially, and academically. There are a lot of aspects tied into poverty.
Thirdly, teenage girls- you are not done developing yet, and you are actually FUCKING UP your body every time you get pregnant and/or have an abortion. Fourth, babies do not come with INSTRUCTION MANUELS- and chances are that if you’re in high school, you know VERY LITTLE about properly rearing children. And guess what, if you’re one of those people in the cycle- your parent knows absolutely nothing about rearing children (look at how the fuck you came out).
And if you helped raised the hood babies produced around you- that doesn’t count! You are not learning proper anything and should not be following those examples. Word of advice- PICK UP A FUCKING BOOK AND READ IT! I’ve known grown ass people with CAREERS, not a fucking job, a profession- who know SHIT about raising a baby- and they were college educated. Now, what the fuck makes YOU think YOU know anything?
Next, I need to address the parents of these broads. In the hood- it’s likely that you’ll find a girl, her mother and grandmother all under the age of 50. Why? Because this behavior has been condoned and is acceptable. You should want more and expect more from your children. You should want them to break the cycle… but you don’t because you’re a SELFISH bitch yourself.
I’ve seen mothers HATE on their children when they were doing better for themselves. I’m sorry, I don’t give a fuck if your rich or poor- EVERYONE has the same opportunities- you just have to want it. There is NO FUCKING EXCUSE for not receiving a higher education of some type- and not just college and there is NO FUCKING EXCUSE for not having a high school diploma.
We are living in an age where a high school diploma is even becoming obsolete- go ahead and try to get a decent job with just a high school diploma and see what happens. You have to plan for your future and most importantly the future of your offspring. In the hood, it is acceptable to live at home with your mom and your five kids and its acceptable because these fucking PARENTS are accepting it.
Understand that helping your kid out is one thing, but doing everything for them is something completely different. For these teens, it’s like nothing has ever changed and they do not feel the full weight of the responsibility they have because they have someone there to help them out.
I know bitches who go out every weekend and leave their kids with their parent… WTF is this? Everyone needs some me time, space and time to unwind- but not ALL the time. Know that when you have a child- there is NO YOU ANYMORE… it’s is ALL FOR THEM! I think that’s why they continue to have so many children, for they do not know the weight of such a responsibility- if they did BELIEVE ME they would stop at one.
By helping them out so much and being their crutch- they are actually becoming hindered in their natural progression through life. You are basically saying- sure, it’s ok to have a baby, even if you’re only 15- but, it’s NOT ok and should NOT be accepted.
Lastly, is the cycle of welfare. Now, I’m all for getting the government for what it’s worth- IF, you are trying to better your life. What I have a problem with is the bitches who have a million kids so they can stay on welfare FOREVER. You bitches are fucking lazy.
How about doing something CONSTRUCTIVE with your time, instead of being at the club all the time, shopping, gossiping and getting your hair and nails did. How about while you’re on welfare, you go back to school- THEY PAY FOR IT. How about you go and learn a trade? How about you acquire a skill of some kind? This would ensure a brighter future for both you and your children. But… you don’t do it. Why? Because you’re a LAZY ASS BITCH! There is absolutely no other damn excuse for not bettering yourself, and I DON’T RESPECT YOU!
Damn…. This was longer than I expected, but fuck it, two tears in a bucket. What have we learned? 1- There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with someone who does not have children and is older than 25. If anything, these are the SMART people- who will ensure that their future and the future of their children is not a fucked up one. 2- People need to stop condoning teen pregnancy. Its fucking wrong- kids, should not be having kids. You are not ready- physically or mentally. If you think you are, think again- cuz your fucking delusional. (on a side note: teens who are hell bent on having children have problems that are deeply rooted psychologically- and these problems NEED to be addressed). And 3- WRAP IT UP! People need to start talking to their children about sex.. I know it may be uncomfortable, but they need to know FACTS. Whether or not you believe it- your kids are gunna fuck with, or without your consent. The best thing you can do for your children as parents is to EDUACTE them so they can make the RIGHT decision and at least use a condom.
He's Alright, But He's NOT REAL!
I believe that in today’s society… it is becoming increasingly hard to find someone who is REAL and GENUINE. But, unfortunately this is not where it stops. We also have to think about the millions of people who walk the face this earth everyday and live in these little Delusional Lie Worlds they have created. Men, women… its all the same because when you REALLY look at it, no one side can be blamed. They both go hand in hand and in fact, build on each other. Know that both men and women do this shit but today we will address men, just keep in mind that this shit is definitely interchangable.
Men… lie about stupid shit. Shit that isn’t even significant such as your status, where you work, what you drive, how much you make, whether or not u have kids (to those that do this one- STOP NOT CLAIMING YOUR KIDS FUCKTARDS- its not they‘re fault they are spawn to such an incompetent ass as yourself), where you live at, blah, blah, blah… and what’s the point of all this??? To make YOURSELF seem more desirable then what you really are (ladies realize this: you are part of the reason why men feel they need to lie). Men lie to make themselves look good. They want to get “the bad bitches” and they will lie about any and everything in order to attain her.
Now, this would work out for them if they were just fucking the chick and keeping it moving (hey, all is fair in love & fuckin and it doesn’t really matter what you tell a 1 night stand or a jump off for that matter- the bitch don’t even need to know your real name) but it doesn’t just stop there. No you end up getting close with a bitch and now that’s your “wifey”. Well, guess what? Wifey’s gunna be pissed when she finds out her dream man works at Game Stop *( ;) @ S.), lives at home with his momma, drives her car and has 2 kids he ain’t NEVER mention. And what does she do when she finds out? Hopefully leave your sorry ass for lying about STUPID shit… but most of you IGNORANT broads stay with a nigga after finding out he done lied to you about all that shit.
I SAY: if a PERSON can lie about things as insignificant as where they work at and who they live with- shit, they can LIE ABOUT ANYTHING!!!!
Men, I understand how hard it can be chasing after the bad bitches- but you need to understand some thing’s about bitches… 1- a REAL bitch doesn’t care about the little things, especially in the beginning (if a bitch is asking you how much you make and where you work at and you JUST met her- LEAVE THAT GOLD DIGGIN BITCH ALONE- it will result ONLY in sorrow for you and fuller pockets for her), 2- Realize this: a bitch KNOWS whether or not she’d give you the pussy after a minute of seeing you. Shit, she may WANT TO give you the pussy… and YOUR MAIN GOAL is to not fuck that up. This means by not doing or saying anything that would make her look at you like you’s a crazy ass mofo. And guess what, most of the time- if she wanna fuck you- she doesn’t even care how much you spend on her, cuz she’ll FUCK YOU ANYWAY.
Ok, so now that you have lied, you have definitely SABOTAGED your relationship if it happens to go beyond fuckin or if you just lied to get her to begin with. What will your relationship be based on? LIES… all lies. And you two will never have that extra deep connection because you don’t know who each other really is. If you done lied to a bitch to get at her and then got her, the least you can do is keep it real with her and let her know who YOU really are. Its NOT FAIR that you know her and she doesn’t know you nor is it fair that you TRICKED her into being with you (how about showing her who you truly are and then letting HER decide if she REALLY does wanna be with you). Its also NOT FAIR that you are parading around like a WOLF IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING, because that is EXACTLY what you are- a damn impersonator (thanks J. lol). And in the end, you may be aight… but YOU AIN’T REAL!
Whatever, so you LIED and got you the “bad bitch”… but now what? You basically have to keep up this front as long as humanly possible in order to keep her… more work than you ever thought it would be. As a result, she will not know who you truly are as a person, but eventually you will begin to show your true colors. All I’m saying is DO NOT be upset, surprised or angry if the bitch wanna leave your silly ass- she was never with YOU anyways, her ass was with your made up character. And I must address all you SILLY HOES who stay with the men who have lied to you about all this important shit…
Realize this: he IS a fucking liar and has the capacity to do so at any given time, and I know that its hard cuz you’re attached, you don’t wanna be lonely… blah, blah, blah but KNOW THIS- you were NEVER really in love/love/liked HIM anyways, it was his LIES that kept you open. And I KNOW ya bitches have a PROBLEM separating emotions and fucking and your silly ass wanna be addicted to HIS pipe game, but TRUTH BE TOLD: FOR EVERY NIGGA WHO FUCKED ME PROPER, THERE WAS 5 NIGGAS BEHIND HIM WHO COULD SERVE ME BETTER!!! And that’s REAL TALK!
How I see it… Men, how do you ever expect to find that REAL bitch, and REAL love if your ass is lying about every and any thing? How do you ever expect a chick to love you for who YOU are if your ass never let her know who you are. If you have to front and make yourself seem like your worth more than you really are- that’s sad, you need a damn hug and some fucking CONFIDENCE (it goes a looooong way niggas).
See this is exactly why I be on some “I don’t give a fuck” shit…. Why? Cuz at the end of the day- you either gunna fuck with me or you’re not. Truth be told 9 out of 10 times… you’re gunna fuck with me. I don’t like surprises which is why I try to throw all my cards on the table and let a mofo know from the door how this shit is gunna go. If he don’t like it… fuck em, but like I said, 9 out of 10 times… its going down. Niggas, you need to realize that bitches wanna fuck just as much as you do (maybe not all of em, but most of em). Bitches who say otherwise… ARE LYING TO THEIR DAMN SELVES. They KNOW they wanna fuck, they just don’t wanna be deemed a “slut, whore, hoe, jump, smut, etc…” so they are careful of how they go about it. *Ladies: it is 2009, get with it… if niggas can do them, so can you- and you are none the lesser for it*
Moral of the story kids is: KEEP IT A FUCKIN HUNDRED! Learn to keep it real with yourselves so that you can be real with others. Fellas: don’t be so quick to lie to a bitch- you may have just found the woman of your dreams, but a REAL bitch will NOT TOLERATE being lied to. Bitches: Stop condoning these lying ass niggas… if he’s a liar, take the L, and drop him like a bad habit. No, he’s not gunna change and its so sad that your still holding on to some hope that he will… and hop off his dick shorty- its not that serious and like I said- there’s ALWAYS gunna be someone else who does it better.
Men… lie about stupid shit. Shit that isn’t even significant such as your status, where you work, what you drive, how much you make, whether or not u have kids (to those that do this one- STOP NOT CLAIMING YOUR KIDS FUCKTARDS- its not they‘re fault they are spawn to such an incompetent ass as yourself), where you live at, blah, blah, blah… and what’s the point of all this??? To make YOURSELF seem more desirable then what you really are (ladies realize this: you are part of the reason why men feel they need to lie). Men lie to make themselves look good. They want to get “the bad bitches” and they will lie about any and everything in order to attain her.
Now, this would work out for them if they were just fucking the chick and keeping it moving (hey, all is fair in love & fuckin and it doesn’t really matter what you tell a 1 night stand or a jump off for that matter- the bitch don’t even need to know your real name) but it doesn’t just stop there. No you end up getting close with a bitch and now that’s your “wifey”. Well, guess what? Wifey’s gunna be pissed when she finds out her dream man works at Game Stop *( ;) @ S.), lives at home with his momma, drives her car and has 2 kids he ain’t NEVER mention. And what does she do when she finds out? Hopefully leave your sorry ass for lying about STUPID shit… but most of you IGNORANT broads stay with a nigga after finding out he done lied to you about all that shit.
I SAY: if a PERSON can lie about things as insignificant as where they work at and who they live with- shit, they can LIE ABOUT ANYTHING!!!!
Men, I understand how hard it can be chasing after the bad bitches- but you need to understand some thing’s about bitches… 1- a REAL bitch doesn’t care about the little things, especially in the beginning (if a bitch is asking you how much you make and where you work at and you JUST met her- LEAVE THAT GOLD DIGGIN BITCH ALONE- it will result ONLY in sorrow for you and fuller pockets for her), 2- Realize this: a bitch KNOWS whether or not she’d give you the pussy after a minute of seeing you. Shit, she may WANT TO give you the pussy… and YOUR MAIN GOAL is to not fuck that up. This means by not doing or saying anything that would make her look at you like you’s a crazy ass mofo. And guess what, most of the time- if she wanna fuck you- she doesn’t even care how much you spend on her, cuz she’ll FUCK YOU ANYWAY.
Ok, so now that you have lied, you have definitely SABOTAGED your relationship if it happens to go beyond fuckin or if you just lied to get her to begin with. What will your relationship be based on? LIES… all lies. And you two will never have that extra deep connection because you don’t know who each other really is. If you done lied to a bitch to get at her and then got her, the least you can do is keep it real with her and let her know who YOU really are. Its NOT FAIR that you know her and she doesn’t know you nor is it fair that you TRICKED her into being with you (how about showing her who you truly are and then letting HER decide if she REALLY does wanna be with you). Its also NOT FAIR that you are parading around like a WOLF IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING, because that is EXACTLY what you are- a damn impersonator (thanks J. lol). And in the end, you may be aight… but YOU AIN’T REAL!
Whatever, so you LIED and got you the “bad bitch”… but now what? You basically have to keep up this front as long as humanly possible in order to keep her… more work than you ever thought it would be. As a result, she will not know who you truly are as a person, but eventually you will begin to show your true colors. All I’m saying is DO NOT be upset, surprised or angry if the bitch wanna leave your silly ass- she was never with YOU anyways, her ass was with your made up character. And I must address all you SILLY HOES who stay with the men who have lied to you about all this important shit…
Realize this: he IS a fucking liar and has the capacity to do so at any given time, and I know that its hard cuz you’re attached, you don’t wanna be lonely… blah, blah, blah but KNOW THIS- you were NEVER really in love/love/liked HIM anyways, it was his LIES that kept you open. And I KNOW ya bitches have a PROBLEM separating emotions and fucking and your silly ass wanna be addicted to HIS pipe game, but TRUTH BE TOLD: FOR EVERY NIGGA WHO FUCKED ME PROPER, THERE WAS 5 NIGGAS BEHIND HIM WHO COULD SERVE ME BETTER!!! And that’s REAL TALK!
How I see it… Men, how do you ever expect to find that REAL bitch, and REAL love if your ass is lying about every and any thing? How do you ever expect a chick to love you for who YOU are if your ass never let her know who you are. If you have to front and make yourself seem like your worth more than you really are- that’s sad, you need a damn hug and some fucking CONFIDENCE (it goes a looooong way niggas).
See this is exactly why I be on some “I don’t give a fuck” shit…. Why? Cuz at the end of the day- you either gunna fuck with me or you’re not. Truth be told 9 out of 10 times… you’re gunna fuck with me. I don’t like surprises which is why I try to throw all my cards on the table and let a mofo know from the door how this shit is gunna go. If he don’t like it… fuck em, but like I said, 9 out of 10 times… its going down. Niggas, you need to realize that bitches wanna fuck just as much as you do (maybe not all of em, but most of em). Bitches who say otherwise… ARE LYING TO THEIR DAMN SELVES. They KNOW they wanna fuck, they just don’t wanna be deemed a “slut, whore, hoe, jump, smut, etc…” so they are careful of how they go about it. *Ladies: it is 2009, get with it… if niggas can do them, so can you- and you are none the lesser for it*
Moral of the story kids is: KEEP IT A FUCKIN HUNDRED! Learn to keep it real with yourselves so that you can be real with others. Fellas: don’t be so quick to lie to a bitch- you may have just found the woman of your dreams, but a REAL bitch will NOT TOLERATE being lied to. Bitches: Stop condoning these lying ass niggas… if he’s a liar, take the L, and drop him like a bad habit. No, he’s not gunna change and its so sad that your still holding on to some hope that he will… and hop off his dick shorty- its not that serious and like I said- there’s ALWAYS gunna be someone else who does it better.
Wanna Better Relationship? Learn How 2 Fuck!
So, lately I’ve been talking about sex a lot… and I decided to do a little research on my own and develop some theories as to why certain things occur in society. I’m really trying to get down to the nitty gritty of things and it all revolves around sex and society. What I found interesting, was that according to a recent survey conducted, 75% of women reported never climaxing to orgasm. How does this affect society, you may ask… Well, it certainly explains certain things about women.
Now, let’s start at the very beginning… the very first time you touched yourself. As children many of us were taught that it was a BAD thing to do. Many of us became very shameful, and as a result ultimately really stopped exploring. While the rest of us, only found better ways to cover our tracks. ;)
Those who grow up shameful, mostly women, never got to really explore themselves, their bodies. Many of them don’t even know what really arouses them and what they like. This is a sad fucking story to me. If you’re a grown ass woman, and have never reached cloud 10 and exploded into a million pieces… then, you better get like Mariah and “Touch ya Body”!
Explore your folds, your tunnels… your crook and fucking crannies. This is the only way you will ever learn your body… If YOU don’t know what you like, how the hell you gunna explain it to someone else? (That’s right most of you don’t, because you’re too embarrassed.) Get over it! If he ain’t doing it right… tell him about himself! He’s not the only one who should get to orgasm.
I believe that this is why many women don’t enjoy having sex, or don’t want it as much as men. It’s just not that enjoyable to them. This is also the reason why many women would rather have oral sex, instead of vaginal sex. Many can climax easily clitoral, but have a very hard time vaginally. I say, what’s the point of having sex, if you’re not gunna orgasm? Sex with no orgasm is pure blasphemy to me.
Ladies, if you cannot orgasm during vaginal sex, it is your own fault! First, you need to explore your body and bring yourself to full climax. If you can achieve that, then you’re ready for the big times. You need to know that, not all men know how to fuck. If that is the case, then you need to also know, that you should take it upon yourself to learn how to position yourself right. The positioning of yourself, is EVERYTHING! Practice makes perfect… So stop being a lazy bitch, and RIDE EM’ COWBOY!
You see, men on the other hand, almost always orgasm and 98% surveyed, reported doing so. Do you know why… because THEY BEAT OFF! Men are simple and straightforward with sex. They know what they like and how to reach the promised land. Although they know all of this though, what they don’t know is that most of them are terribly disillusioned.
That’s right, DISILLUSIONED! Personally, I have met many of men who were terribly disillusioned, but it’s not their fault entirely. Sure, many men have a big ego, but women play a large part in their disillusionment. Therefore, men talk a lot of shit and think highly of themselves. They believe they are a lion in the sheets, when in all actuality they are a mere kitten.
This happens purely because bitches don’t know how to keep it G and tell a man when he’s whack in the sack. Instead, they fake orgasms, moan and scream like crazy and act like he’s a sex god, when in all actuality… he couldn’t fuck his way out of a wet paper bag.
Today I read in Men’s Health, something that made me feel normal. When watching porn, you always see bitches screaming and moaning something crazy. Now, when bitches fake, being that that is the norm, they scream and moan too. But here is a rude awakening, “When climaxing, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to exhale. She’ll draw in her breathe, tighten her muscles, and then sigh or pant when she comes back to Earth. But scream? Never.”
And here I thought I was doing it wrong, because it wasn’t the “normal” thing associated with a woman climaxing. In all actuality though, many women fake it, and even worse, they lie and say the sex was great. Women seem to sympathize with the men and really just don’t want to hurt his feelings. That is what it allllll boils down to, not wanting to hurt his feelings. Bitch! Get real! You are the reason why men walk around thinking they really doing it.
Ladies, you need to learn how not to sugar coat shit. If the man was whack, tell him so, and how he could improve himself. Consider this constructive criticism. Men, need to take the criticism gracefully, and realize they may not be all they thought they were cracked up to be. Most men will accept it as such, and try to switch it up for you, ultimately increasing his own skills. Yet, if you never tell him, then he’s gunna SUCK until he meets a bitch like me, who’ll set his ass straight!
Now, let’s tie this in with society and relationships. I concur that being that many women never climax, this leads to their bitchness level. Women are seen as nags and many are very catty, especially at one another. Thinking of this logically though, I’d be a bitch too if I had sex all the time, yet never climaxed. Sex with no orgasm often leads to many women feeling empty after sex.
Achieving orgasm with your partner is the highest form of intimacy, but if most women never meet orgasm, they never truly connect with their partners. This also leads to resentment of their mates, all because he gets to orgasm and she doesn’t. Being that 75% of women, the majority, never climax, these numbers are a basic sample of the world at large. This means that 3 out of 4 women never climax, and that MOST women are ticking time bombs, waiting to explode.
Explode, these bombs do, and many women explode in crazy ways. Many women get violent, others emotional, some get depressed but all of them explode. It’s crazy because so many people talk shit about women (mainly men), about how they always nag, and they are NEVER happy. Women are depicted as such in the media, and we can see and hear shit like this said everywhere.
Well, guess what Einstein’s, you’re RIGHT! Most women, the majority, are NEVER HAPPY! Do you know why? Let me relate this to the men in terms you’d understand… Now, close your eyes and imagine spending most of your life, NEVER being able to bust a nut. I mean sure, your dick gets hard… but you could NEVER nut- like permanent blue balls. Now, tell me your ass wouldn’t be angry ALL the time too!
Although I believe that sex isn’t the most important aspect of a relationship, I would have to put it up there in my top 5. Sex to me, can make or break a relationship. Everything can be fine with a person, but if they are missing that critical element, things may go off course.
If the sex is bad, resentment occurs. This is true for both parties involved, because some men don’t talk to their women about what they like either. Also, being that you are never really satisfied, you are also easily tempted by others. You may lie to yourself, and say that sex isn’t important… but in the end, if your sex life sucks, your relationship can become subject to damage.
What is a remedy for this? Discuss sex with your partner. If you are in a committed relationship, then communication should be open and an open mind should be kept. Talk about your likes and dislikes, things you’ve dreamt of doing.
Also, keep in mind, that in a relationship you should want to please your partner and vice versa. Which means NO HOLDS BAR, sometimes. Ladies, it is 2009, if your man wants you to suck his dick, then SUCK IT! Same thing goes for you fellas. If you wanna keep your partner happy, ROCK THEIR FUCKING WORLD!
Know this: if you won’t do it, someone else will! So, don’t get caught out there, you’re in a relationship for Christ sake.
What have we learned?
Women, to discover orgasm, you must discover your bodies. The G-Spot, DOES exist, believe me, I know! Learn how to fuck right, stop being lazy logs and pillow queens and take control of the situation. Cummin makes sex so much better, so STOP lying to men and letting them think they the shit.
Men, realize that YES many women are angry at the world, but you could help, if you fucked her right! She’d be hella happier if she orgasmed! Sure, bitches lie, but you need to know how to spot that shit, and correct your flaws. Many of you are disillusioned now, but get with it! You’ll only increase your skills, and then finally be the beast, you thought you were.
Bottom line: Communication is key. It will be the way to relate to one another and REALLY find out just how good we are at doing the do.
Now, let’s start at the very beginning… the very first time you touched yourself. As children many of us were taught that it was a BAD thing to do. Many of us became very shameful, and as a result ultimately really stopped exploring. While the rest of us, only found better ways to cover our tracks. ;)
Those who grow up shameful, mostly women, never got to really explore themselves, their bodies. Many of them don’t even know what really arouses them and what they like. This is a sad fucking story to me. If you’re a grown ass woman, and have never reached cloud 10 and exploded into a million pieces… then, you better get like Mariah and “Touch ya Body”!
Explore your folds, your tunnels… your crook and fucking crannies. This is the only way you will ever learn your body… If YOU don’t know what you like, how the hell you gunna explain it to someone else? (That’s right most of you don’t, because you’re too embarrassed.) Get over it! If he ain’t doing it right… tell him about himself! He’s not the only one who should get to orgasm.
I believe that this is why many women don’t enjoy having sex, or don’t want it as much as men. It’s just not that enjoyable to them. This is also the reason why many women would rather have oral sex, instead of vaginal sex. Many can climax easily clitoral, but have a very hard time vaginally. I say, what’s the point of having sex, if you’re not gunna orgasm? Sex with no orgasm is pure blasphemy to me.
Ladies, if you cannot orgasm during vaginal sex, it is your own fault! First, you need to explore your body and bring yourself to full climax. If you can achieve that, then you’re ready for the big times. You need to know that, not all men know how to fuck. If that is the case, then you need to also know, that you should take it upon yourself to learn how to position yourself right. The positioning of yourself, is EVERYTHING! Practice makes perfect… So stop being a lazy bitch, and RIDE EM’ COWBOY!
You see, men on the other hand, almost always orgasm and 98% surveyed, reported doing so. Do you know why… because THEY BEAT OFF! Men are simple and straightforward with sex. They know what they like and how to reach the promised land. Although they know all of this though, what they don’t know is that most of them are terribly disillusioned.
That’s right, DISILLUSIONED! Personally, I have met many of men who were terribly disillusioned, but it’s not their fault entirely. Sure, many men have a big ego, but women play a large part in their disillusionment. Therefore, men talk a lot of shit and think highly of themselves. They believe they are a lion in the sheets, when in all actuality they are a mere kitten.
This happens purely because bitches don’t know how to keep it G and tell a man when he’s whack in the sack. Instead, they fake orgasms, moan and scream like crazy and act like he’s a sex god, when in all actuality… he couldn’t fuck his way out of a wet paper bag.
Today I read in Men’s Health, something that made me feel normal. When watching porn, you always see bitches screaming and moaning something crazy. Now, when bitches fake, being that that is the norm, they scream and moan too. But here is a rude awakening, “When climaxing, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to exhale. She’ll draw in her breathe, tighten her muscles, and then sigh or pant when she comes back to Earth. But scream? Never.”
And here I thought I was doing it wrong, because it wasn’t the “normal” thing associated with a woman climaxing. In all actuality though, many women fake it, and even worse, they lie and say the sex was great. Women seem to sympathize with the men and really just don’t want to hurt his feelings. That is what it allllll boils down to, not wanting to hurt his feelings. Bitch! Get real! You are the reason why men walk around thinking they really doing it.
Ladies, you need to learn how not to sugar coat shit. If the man was whack, tell him so, and how he could improve himself. Consider this constructive criticism. Men, need to take the criticism gracefully, and realize they may not be all they thought they were cracked up to be. Most men will accept it as such, and try to switch it up for you, ultimately increasing his own skills. Yet, if you never tell him, then he’s gunna SUCK until he meets a bitch like me, who’ll set his ass straight!
Now, let’s tie this in with society and relationships. I concur that being that many women never climax, this leads to their bitchness level. Women are seen as nags and many are very catty, especially at one another. Thinking of this logically though, I’d be a bitch too if I had sex all the time, yet never climaxed. Sex with no orgasm often leads to many women feeling empty after sex.
Achieving orgasm with your partner is the highest form of intimacy, but if most women never meet orgasm, they never truly connect with their partners. This also leads to resentment of their mates, all because he gets to orgasm and she doesn’t. Being that 75% of women, the majority, never climax, these numbers are a basic sample of the world at large. This means that 3 out of 4 women never climax, and that MOST women are ticking time bombs, waiting to explode.
Explode, these bombs do, and many women explode in crazy ways. Many women get violent, others emotional, some get depressed but all of them explode. It’s crazy because so many people talk shit about women (mainly men), about how they always nag, and they are NEVER happy. Women are depicted as such in the media, and we can see and hear shit like this said everywhere.
Well, guess what Einstein’s, you’re RIGHT! Most women, the majority, are NEVER HAPPY! Do you know why? Let me relate this to the men in terms you’d understand… Now, close your eyes and imagine spending most of your life, NEVER being able to bust a nut. I mean sure, your dick gets hard… but you could NEVER nut- like permanent blue balls. Now, tell me your ass wouldn’t be angry ALL the time too!
Although I believe that sex isn’t the most important aspect of a relationship, I would have to put it up there in my top 5. Sex to me, can make or break a relationship. Everything can be fine with a person, but if they are missing that critical element, things may go off course.
If the sex is bad, resentment occurs. This is true for both parties involved, because some men don’t talk to their women about what they like either. Also, being that you are never really satisfied, you are also easily tempted by others. You may lie to yourself, and say that sex isn’t important… but in the end, if your sex life sucks, your relationship can become subject to damage.
What is a remedy for this? Discuss sex with your partner. If you are in a committed relationship, then communication should be open and an open mind should be kept. Talk about your likes and dislikes, things you’ve dreamt of doing.
Also, keep in mind, that in a relationship you should want to please your partner and vice versa. Which means NO HOLDS BAR, sometimes. Ladies, it is 2009, if your man wants you to suck his dick, then SUCK IT! Same thing goes for you fellas. If you wanna keep your partner happy, ROCK THEIR FUCKING WORLD!
Know this: if you won’t do it, someone else will! So, don’t get caught out there, you’re in a relationship for Christ sake.
What have we learned?
Women, to discover orgasm, you must discover your bodies. The G-Spot, DOES exist, believe me, I know! Learn how to fuck right, stop being lazy logs and pillow queens and take control of the situation. Cummin makes sex so much better, so STOP lying to men and letting them think they the shit.
Men, realize that YES many women are angry at the world, but you could help, if you fucked her right! She’d be hella happier if she orgasmed! Sure, bitches lie, but you need to know how to spot that shit, and correct your flaws. Many of you are disillusioned now, but get with it! You’ll only increase your skills, and then finally be the beast, you thought you were.
Bottom line: Communication is key. It will be the way to relate to one another and REALLY find out just how good we are at doing the do.
So... You Wanna Be a Mistress?
In a perfect world, no one would lie. Not about themselves and not to others, or themselves for that matter. Unfortunately, lying is what most people do, mostly about themselves. Everyone walking this green Earth, has some type of front that they put on at some point of their lives. People are scared to be who they truly are, and in turn, our pure and true essence is lost in translation.
In a perfect world, no one would cheat. Not themselves, their children or their partners. Unfortunately, cheating or infidelity occurs more than some would like to admit. According to a recent survey, 45-55% of women and 50-60% of men WILL engage in some extramarital sex at least once in their marriage.
The reasons behind cheating are far too many to name, and if I had the time I would go through the top ten reasons behind cheating, (maybe in another blog), but I’m going to concentrate on the main two. Sex and Emotions. These are the two most publicized, and I will speak on them briefly before really getting the party started.
Sex. It is said that many people cheat on their partners, because their sex lives are whack! Their partners are either unfulfilling or disinterested. Others cheat because their current partner won’t try something new they want to do. Bottom line is this: learn to communicate and compromise. Remember, don’t knock it, until you’ve tried it! Lastly, if you won’t do it, someone else will!
Emotions. Other people cheat because they aren’t emotionally attached to their partners. How does this happen? Most of the time because you put other things before your relationship and put your relationship on auto-pilot. Know that, unlike a plane, your relationship will burn and crash when not tended to.
When this happens, you grow apart and then the worst thing happens- you stop communicating. When this happens, you run off and find someone you CAN talk to, who will GIVE you attention, and viola’, you’ve got an emotional affair. Nowadays, these can be trickier than physical affairs as they are hidden as such and the internet makes them oh so convenient. So that nowadays, infidelity has branched out to not just include physical involvement.
Many people don’t see emotional affairs as cheating, being that there wasn’t any penetration. Think of it like this though, all those intimate things you talk to your buddy about, are things you should be telling your spouse. The more you talk, the more intimate things become, the more you trust a person and then become curious. And you know what they said about curiosity and that damn cat!
Bottom line is this: In most aspects of a relationship, communication is KEY! It is the whole fucking kit and caboodle! Without it, your relationship will deteriorate and you WILL grow apart. People will become resentful and hostile. So, if you’ve gotten to the point that you cant talk to your mate anymore, know that something has TERRIBLY gone wrong! And that should be worked on immediately. Remember that it takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to fuck it all up!
Now, on to the main event, someone and an area rarely covered when we speak of cheating and cheaters… The mistresses (and I’m talking about men and women)! What amazes the shit out of me, is their sheer disregard for the family they are helping to hurt and the people for that matter. The moral level of many people are severely low, and it’s sad to say that this society is not only accepting it, it is EMBRACING IT!
Look around you, everywhere in the media- there is infidelity. Turn on the radio, and you hear that my girl got a girlfriend or boyfriend number two. I really can’t even listen to shit like that only because it condones this destructive behavior and it makes me angry. This is how you know this shit has become acceptable, and even worse is that children are now growing up seeing this shit and thinking it’s acceptable.
Back to the cum buckets… So, you meet someone and learn they are taken… and it doesn’t even matter what kind of taken, (whether it’s a relationship or its marriage), taken is taken, just like a dime is a dime; but you continue to talk to that person. Not only are you WRONG, you’re a fucking ignorant with no morals or values. If you would of stopped them right there and declined their advances, that would have been the RIGHT thing to do… but that’s NOT what you did.
Ahh… to be the other woman, or man for that matter, may be a fun thing to some, but seriously, people who see nothing wrong with playing that position in life, have serious mental problems occurring. It may trace back to your childhood, it may have to do with you feeling you have no self worth, or that you don’t deserve any better. You might have self-esteem problems or be out on a vendetta, either way, you’re wrong!
I have a serious bone to pick with the people that are ok with being the “other person”, only because you people help contribute to the pain, the lies and stigmas around relationships. You are helping to deteriorate families, and although that family may of already been on the brink, you helped to destroy it in the worst way.
This doesn’t only affect the person who was cheated on. In many instances, the person your fucking has an entire family at home, and needless to say, the children of divorced parents, suffer more than their parents do. Finding out that your dad/mom had an affair equals crazy problems in that child’s future when it comes to trust and THEIR relationships. So you see, you’re not just fucking them, your fucking their WHOLE family!
What has cheating done to people in general in this society? Cheating has contributed to the creation of fronts. Fronting is pure lies and illusion and cheating goes hand in hand with that. When someone is cheated on, it often changes the person they are, and there are not many people who do not become jaded when cheated on.
This creates barriars and trust issues, making it that much harder to find true happiness… all because someone cheated and you now can’t let that shit go. It’s easy to say to just get rid of the rocks in your bag, but it’s harder to actually get it done. Many of us have unforgiving traits and find it very hard to forget the things done to us in the past. So although we try to go on and not judge a new person, for past occurances, this often happens. And we end up pushing good people away.
When a person is cheated on, it’s a blow to who they are as a person. Many negative feelings float around their heads. Many of those feelings involve the self and how you feel about yourself. Feelings of resentment, inaquedacy, betrayal, hopelessness, are among a few. This battle leaves many of us with wounds, the scars of which we will carry forever.
Back to the scum… So, mistresses help to contribute to the demise of people and families. Even worse than that is that many just don’t give a fuck, and that’s what blows my fucking lid. This irks me especially with women, who some have went as far to say “it’s not my problem he’s coming to me.”
You are right super slut, it isn’t your fault, but it does take two to tango and you are being USED! That’s right bitch, USED! It doesn’t matter whether you are a man or woman, you ARE being used and the person who is using you is the ultimate playa, for getting they cake, AND eating that shit too!
Men, know that you are not above being used. I totally see your side, and sure, many of you see it as a win for you. Understand that the ONLY reason that you feel that way is because men are not offered sex as much as women. Therefore, for many of you, it’s HARD to turn down pussy, because opportunities like that don’t always present itself.
As a result, many of you men are ruthless and don’t have morals, and it is true to say that most of you wouldn’t turn down pussy when it is offered. (STOP BEING SO DAMN EASY, that shit aint cute! We, ladies, want a challenge too!) This is the same reason why some men cheat, simply because they were given the option to do so, and they took it!
Okay dude, so you’re getting pussy right, so it MUST be a win. WRONG! You too are helping to contribute to the demise of relationships. You may think you just won, but actually, SHE won, because now she has her man, and YOU in pocket. It doesn’t matter if you don’t care about all the technicalities, she now has the power and she’s got 2 for 1, homie.
You need to understand that when you give a person in a relationship you’re goodies, you are also giving them the power. The power over you and the situation. Whenever they want you, there you are and when they get tired, back home they go. Either way, you have just given them control of the whole situation.
They have the perfect scenario, their perfect home and the ass on the side. Many of them will NEVER leave their spouses. Why? Because many of them really do love their spouses, many of them have just lost communication, and since their sexual or emotional needs are being met by YOU now, it creates the perfect win-win situation for them.
Except you lose. If you don’t think you are a loser, think of it like this. Many of you mistresses WILL fall in love with your taken fuck buddy. You will invest your time, your effort, your hearts, and you will NEVER be with them the way you want to. Those of you ruthless enough to take it to the next level and break up a happy home, (especially you conniving ass bitches), remember that what goes around comes around, and you ARE NOT above that law.
Also, know that in most situations, the person who you are with is a LIAR! They are cheating on their spouse/mate, believe me, they ARE NOT above lying. Many of them play the victim role, and lie about their home situations to make it seem worse than it is. This helps you sympathize with them, and when you feel bad, you’re more likely to fuck them. In all actuality though, many of them are content where they are. It’s usually just one or two missing elements, that YOU are just happening to now help fulfill.
Real talk if nothing else bothers you as a mistress, remember, that at the end of the day, they go HOME! And do you know what MOST of them do when they get home? They FUCK their mates/spouses. Sure, they aren’t gunna tell you and some of them may lie, and say they don’t. Know, that they DO, and do you REALLY know where their mouths have been?? I think not.
At the end of the day mistresses, you are a mere accessory to the crime. You help the bad guys get away, and enable them to do so. You let the greedy people of the world have their cake and eat it too. To be able to live with that, and look at yourself in the mirror every day is ridiculous. How do you do it? No morals or conscience. No guidelines for life. STOP enabling cheaters.
It’s a cold world we live in, and there will always be mistresses, the people who just don’t give a fuck. The ones who have no guidelines. Our jobs as individuals though, is to try to live as righteously as possible, even when we are wronged. And just keep in mind, that those who wronged us, always meet their own demise sooner or later.
So if you were cheated on, breathe deep, move on with as little baggage as possible and sit back and enjoy the show! No matter what you may want to do to the cheater, KNOW that THEY WILL get theirs too. Eventually, they too will fall and KARMA will be right on their asses being a BIGGER BITCH THAN YOU COULD OF EVER BEEN
In a perfect world, no one would cheat. Not themselves, their children or their partners. Unfortunately, cheating or infidelity occurs more than some would like to admit. According to a recent survey, 45-55% of women and 50-60% of men WILL engage in some extramarital sex at least once in their marriage.
The reasons behind cheating are far too many to name, and if I had the time I would go through the top ten reasons behind cheating, (maybe in another blog), but I’m going to concentrate on the main two. Sex and Emotions. These are the two most publicized, and I will speak on them briefly before really getting the party started.
Sex. It is said that many people cheat on their partners, because their sex lives are whack! Their partners are either unfulfilling or disinterested. Others cheat because their current partner won’t try something new they want to do. Bottom line is this: learn to communicate and compromise. Remember, don’t knock it, until you’ve tried it! Lastly, if you won’t do it, someone else will!
Emotions. Other people cheat because they aren’t emotionally attached to their partners. How does this happen? Most of the time because you put other things before your relationship and put your relationship on auto-pilot. Know that, unlike a plane, your relationship will burn and crash when not tended to.
When this happens, you grow apart and then the worst thing happens- you stop communicating. When this happens, you run off and find someone you CAN talk to, who will GIVE you attention, and viola’, you’ve got an emotional affair. Nowadays, these can be trickier than physical affairs as they are hidden as such and the internet makes them oh so convenient. So that nowadays, infidelity has branched out to not just include physical involvement.
Many people don’t see emotional affairs as cheating, being that there wasn’t any penetration. Think of it like this though, all those intimate things you talk to your buddy about, are things you should be telling your spouse. The more you talk, the more intimate things become, the more you trust a person and then become curious. And you know what they said about curiosity and that damn cat!
Bottom line is this: In most aspects of a relationship, communication is KEY! It is the whole fucking kit and caboodle! Without it, your relationship will deteriorate and you WILL grow apart. People will become resentful and hostile. So, if you’ve gotten to the point that you cant talk to your mate anymore, know that something has TERRIBLY gone wrong! And that should be worked on immediately. Remember that it takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to fuck it all up!
Now, on to the main event, someone and an area rarely covered when we speak of cheating and cheaters… The mistresses (and I’m talking about men and women)! What amazes the shit out of me, is their sheer disregard for the family they are helping to hurt and the people for that matter. The moral level of many people are severely low, and it’s sad to say that this society is not only accepting it, it is EMBRACING IT!
Look around you, everywhere in the media- there is infidelity. Turn on the radio, and you hear that my girl got a girlfriend or boyfriend number two. I really can’t even listen to shit like that only because it condones this destructive behavior and it makes me angry. This is how you know this shit has become acceptable, and even worse is that children are now growing up seeing this shit and thinking it’s acceptable.
Back to the cum buckets… So, you meet someone and learn they are taken… and it doesn’t even matter what kind of taken, (whether it’s a relationship or its marriage), taken is taken, just like a dime is a dime; but you continue to talk to that person. Not only are you WRONG, you’re a fucking ignorant with no morals or values. If you would of stopped them right there and declined their advances, that would have been the RIGHT thing to do… but that’s NOT what you did.
Ahh… to be the other woman, or man for that matter, may be a fun thing to some, but seriously, people who see nothing wrong with playing that position in life, have serious mental problems occurring. It may trace back to your childhood, it may have to do with you feeling you have no self worth, or that you don’t deserve any better. You might have self-esteem problems or be out on a vendetta, either way, you’re wrong!
I have a serious bone to pick with the people that are ok with being the “other person”, only because you people help contribute to the pain, the lies and stigmas around relationships. You are helping to deteriorate families, and although that family may of already been on the brink, you helped to destroy it in the worst way.
This doesn’t only affect the person who was cheated on. In many instances, the person your fucking has an entire family at home, and needless to say, the children of divorced parents, suffer more than their parents do. Finding out that your dad/mom had an affair equals crazy problems in that child’s future when it comes to trust and THEIR relationships. So you see, you’re not just fucking them, your fucking their WHOLE family!
What has cheating done to people in general in this society? Cheating has contributed to the creation of fronts. Fronting is pure lies and illusion and cheating goes hand in hand with that. When someone is cheated on, it often changes the person they are, and there are not many people who do not become jaded when cheated on.
This creates barriars and trust issues, making it that much harder to find true happiness… all because someone cheated and you now can’t let that shit go. It’s easy to say to just get rid of the rocks in your bag, but it’s harder to actually get it done. Many of us have unforgiving traits and find it very hard to forget the things done to us in the past. So although we try to go on and not judge a new person, for past occurances, this often happens. And we end up pushing good people away.
When a person is cheated on, it’s a blow to who they are as a person. Many negative feelings float around their heads. Many of those feelings involve the self and how you feel about yourself. Feelings of resentment, inaquedacy, betrayal, hopelessness, are among a few. This battle leaves many of us with wounds, the scars of which we will carry forever.
Back to the scum… So, mistresses help to contribute to the demise of people and families. Even worse than that is that many just don’t give a fuck, and that’s what blows my fucking lid. This irks me especially with women, who some have went as far to say “it’s not my problem he’s coming to me.”
You are right super slut, it isn’t your fault, but it does take two to tango and you are being USED! That’s right bitch, USED! It doesn’t matter whether you are a man or woman, you ARE being used and the person who is using you is the ultimate playa, for getting they cake, AND eating that shit too!
Men, know that you are not above being used. I totally see your side, and sure, many of you see it as a win for you. Understand that the ONLY reason that you feel that way is because men are not offered sex as much as women. Therefore, for many of you, it’s HARD to turn down pussy, because opportunities like that don’t always present itself.
As a result, many of you men are ruthless and don’t have morals, and it is true to say that most of you wouldn’t turn down pussy when it is offered. (STOP BEING SO DAMN EASY, that shit aint cute! We, ladies, want a challenge too!) This is the same reason why some men cheat, simply because they were given the option to do so, and they took it!
Okay dude, so you’re getting pussy right, so it MUST be a win. WRONG! You too are helping to contribute to the demise of relationships. You may think you just won, but actually, SHE won, because now she has her man, and YOU in pocket. It doesn’t matter if you don’t care about all the technicalities, she now has the power and she’s got 2 for 1, homie.
You need to understand that when you give a person in a relationship you’re goodies, you are also giving them the power. The power over you and the situation. Whenever they want you, there you are and when they get tired, back home they go. Either way, you have just given them control of the whole situation.
They have the perfect scenario, their perfect home and the ass on the side. Many of them will NEVER leave their spouses. Why? Because many of them really do love their spouses, many of them have just lost communication, and since their sexual or emotional needs are being met by YOU now, it creates the perfect win-win situation for them.
Except you lose. If you don’t think you are a loser, think of it like this. Many of you mistresses WILL fall in love with your taken fuck buddy. You will invest your time, your effort, your hearts, and you will NEVER be with them the way you want to. Those of you ruthless enough to take it to the next level and break up a happy home, (especially you conniving ass bitches), remember that what goes around comes around, and you ARE NOT above that law.
Also, know that in most situations, the person who you are with is a LIAR! They are cheating on their spouse/mate, believe me, they ARE NOT above lying. Many of them play the victim role, and lie about their home situations to make it seem worse than it is. This helps you sympathize with them, and when you feel bad, you’re more likely to fuck them. In all actuality though, many of them are content where they are. It’s usually just one or two missing elements, that YOU are just happening to now help fulfill.
Real talk if nothing else bothers you as a mistress, remember, that at the end of the day, they go HOME! And do you know what MOST of them do when they get home? They FUCK their mates/spouses. Sure, they aren’t gunna tell you and some of them may lie, and say they don’t. Know, that they DO, and do you REALLY know where their mouths have been?? I think not.
At the end of the day mistresses, you are a mere accessory to the crime. You help the bad guys get away, and enable them to do so. You let the greedy people of the world have their cake and eat it too. To be able to live with that, and look at yourself in the mirror every day is ridiculous. How do you do it? No morals or conscience. No guidelines for life. STOP enabling cheaters.
It’s a cold world we live in, and there will always be mistresses, the people who just don’t give a fuck. The ones who have no guidelines. Our jobs as individuals though, is to try to live as righteously as possible, even when we are wronged. And just keep in mind, that those who wronged us, always meet their own demise sooner or later.
So if you were cheated on, breathe deep, move on with as little baggage as possible and sit back and enjoy the show! No matter what you may want to do to the cheater, KNOW that THEY WILL get theirs too. Eventually, they too will fall and KARMA will be right on their asses being a BIGGER BITCH THAN YOU COULD OF EVER BEEN
Hoes Vs. Sexually Liberated Women
Women…. Statistically, we out number men easily 3 to 1... Women also live longer. Why is that we don’t rule the world? We could easily take over everything, and kick men out of positions of power…. So why don’t we?
Well… lately I’ve been thinking about this very topic more and more. The more I educate myself and reflect on history; the more I realize how fucked up we’re living. As time has gone by, women have fought for rights that were denied to us even a hundred years ago. So we now have rights and are to be seen as “equals” to men… now what?
I’d like to reflect on history and begin to analyze where and why women began being treated in such a fashion. Hmmm… not to go far too much, lets start with Medieval times, and the Dark Ages- for they were fairly dark… especially for women. Women were seen as emotional creatures… something they are still seen as today. But I found the way they described the women of the time fascinating.
Women were easily swayed and tempted by the devil… They also were said to have insatiable sex drives and for this, were seen as evil and products of the devil. They were to remain virgins in order to preserve the name and honor of her family. She was to be humble, devout and motherly. Now this all ties into religion as well… because religion back then was EVERYTHING. If you disobeyed what had been written, you were most certainly going to be condemned to Hades.
This is what I think REALLY happened. Men… know now and forever, that PUSSY runs the world. Many of wars have been fought over just that- PUSSY! Women have power in their panties, and most women don’t even know of the power that they TRULY have. Pussy has the ability to make a man dumb as shit, it has the ability to make him want to spend all his money, it can make him become estranged from family and friends, it can make him KILL someone. Sorry to tell you, but that is how powerful pussy is… some men would do ANYTHING for it.
Now the reason why men go all gaga over pussy is because logically speaking… Men have a way harder time getting laid then women do. The men who have acquired “game” and those that look good enough to eat… need not apply- you guys get the pussy thrown at you…. But, for the everyday Joe, pussy is a quest… If you don’t believe me, think about it like this- the UGLIEST, FATTEST bitch in the world, would STILL get dick, before the UGLIEST man got some pussy. Why? Men are ALWAYS down to fuck something… and most niccas don’t give a shit- especially when now, you can officially blame it on the alcohol!
Now, when it comes to getting laid…. Women have NO problem. The only thing that holds women back is their NEED to have a mental/emotional connection with the person they’re sleeping with. Real talk though…. To all the bitches that BITCH and COMPLAIN they ain’t getting laid- LOOK AROUND BITCH! Pick one, any one you want, maybe some eye candy … and 9 out of 10 times… he’s down… Bitches, stop DEPRIVING yourself of dick, and LEARN to fuck and detach feelings when doing so. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself which equals confidence; besides, you’re a MEGA bitch when you ain’t getting laid!
That is a MAIN difference in sex when it comes to men and women. Women are mental and emotional, and men are visual and physical. Women, you need to know that YOU hold the power, and if you see something you like… There’s nothing wrong with sampling different cookies in the jar. Plus, it gives you more experience and when you’re married and 40, you won’t REGRET not fucking the shit outta that sexy man 20 yrs ago.
Back to the oppression of women back in time… So what I think happened, is some MAN figured out what I just explained. PUSSY IS POWER! He figured it out and said “Oh Shit! What we gunna do, women ain’t running shit”, Why? Because men are territorial and egotistical. And at that point in time, they would of rather died, than let a WOMAN tell them about religion, politics, family or anything that involved deeper thinking skills. And…. So began the oppression of women and the double-standards that we until today carry in society.
In order to keep the women of those times in “check” and obedient… what they did was tie in RELIGION! These women were scared to do or say anything for a long time, because they believed that in doing so, they were going to HELL! The men of these times can be summed up in two words- DOUCHE BAGS!
How has times changed? Eh, while women carry many rights today that our sisters failed to have so many years ago; women are still seen in an inferior light as opposed to men. We still carry many double-standards today that existed back then as well. Double-standards that were MADE by who? MEN!
It’s crazy how much the times have changed. Women are coming up in the world, but who knows if we will ever be TRULY seen as “equals”. This can not be blamed on just one sex though. Women and men alike have fair involvement in making it what it is today. Women…. Some of you play that damsel in distress card a little too much, we’re living in 2009- get independent bitch! Men… Some of you have the audacity to judge a women for things she has done sexually, but believe it is quite all right for men to fuck everything that walks! Until everyone learns to keep an open mind and be none judgmental… the world will cease to be this way and women will be oppressed.
Women… I must address you first on this one, because frankly if you didn’t know- WOMEN are the WORST ENEMIES of other WOMEN. Seriously, we are… and you hater ass bitches KNOW who you are deep inside. It’s crazy how women could plot so deviously against other women. And it’s ridiculous that women get MAD when they see another woman doing BETTER than she is.
If you see another woman out there doing good for herself, you should be HAPPY for her. She should serve as your MOTIVATION! Hey, if SHE can do it, then so can YOU! I’m so tired of bitches hating on other bitches. You have the EXACT SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I DO… If you don’t make it work out for yourself- that’s on you dumb ass. But don’t hate on me and mine when I’m doing better than you!
Next, is how green with ENVY a bitch will get when she sees that you have a “good” man. Of course she’ll compliment you two as a couple, but secretly, she plots to steal that “good” man for herself. You sniveling, conniving, desperate sewer RATS! Be happy that your friend has gotten herself a good man, and STOP trying to take what’s not yours. You bitches help contribute to the struggle that we, as women are in. You get NO RESPECT. And remember this you GREEDY BITCH- if he cheated WITH you, then he will cheat ON you. Don’t act all surprised when that shit happens, you set yourself up lovely for that one!
Which brings me to the bitches who fuck the men of other women. You bitches are despicable and are at the extreme bottom of the food chain. It is one thing to fuck a man who lied to you about a girlfriend and/or wife, that’s his fault- you didn’t know. Now when you find out… CUT IT OFF. Have some dignity and morals. To the leeches who KNOW that a man is in a relationship… You help contribute to cheating, the breaking of families, and more seriously the hate and jealousy that shadows all women. I’d like to take this moment to say- FUCK YOU! You have no morals, values or a conscience… You, get that “Scum of the Earth” classification.
Another thing, bitches… Stop being STUPID! If your man cheated on you… your beef is NOT with the tramp he cheated with. It is with him! Unless you know the bitch, then you can whip her ass on principle alone… but if you DO NOT know the female, leave her ass out of it. HE is the ENEMY, NOT HER! I see so many bitches fighting over niccas that ain’t worth a DIME, stop playing yourself! He ain’t Reggie Bush, Denzel or Usher… and even then you shouldn’t be fighting over a damn man. Stop letting MEN put women against each other… that’s what he wants, just so you’ll forget that HE’S THE ONE THAT CHEATED!
*sigh… Back to equality, one of the main reasons I believe that men DO NOT take women seriously is because BITCHES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Really though, women want to be seen as equals, yet at the same time want special consideration because why? She’s a woman. Make up your fucking minds… You can be equal and INDEPENDENT or you can be seen as the inferior damsel in distress… You can only chose one!
Enough about the catty bitches that roam the earth… on to the DOGS! Men, for as long as history tells… You have oppressed women and honestly, I don’t all the way blame you. Women ARE emotionally unstable creatures who don’t know what the hell they want- well, MOST of them. And yea, they may fuck important shit up, who knows. But, what I DO NOT agree with are the double-standards that have come from this oppression.
In early times, women would be killed by her father and/or brothers if she were found to not be a virgin before she was married. This was done to preserve the honor of her family. Ok, WTF is that about? Marriages were arranged, and husbands were “brought”. If you had money, you could buy your daughter a great husband. Women were not a part of her fathers inheritance, and they were almost invisible in a sense to society. They held no class, instead they were seen as whatever class their fathers or husbands were in.
For centuries, men held on tightly to the reins they had invisibly and secretively thrown over women. Women worked hard to tend their homes and first and foremost, bear and raise children. Now, although women have come a long way from these dark times, some things are still alive today. One thing in particular is the double-standard of sexual escapades.
It is the year 2009, why is it that forever, men have been able to fuck WHOEVER they want… and they can fuck as MANY women they want- yet, they are NOT seen as the whores that they are? Instead, they get a pat on the back because they’re “the man”. Honestly, the world needs to WAKE THE FUCK UP! If men can do it, so can women- and women are none the lesser for it. Women have wants and needs as well, and seriously, women want to fuck JUST AS MUCH as men do. They don’t though, because they don’t want to be seen as “whores, hoes, sluts, etc.”
This is a new century, and women need to come out of those shells and get THEIR FUCK ON! There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with fucking more than a fixed amount of men. You only get one life and you should live it to the fullest. Wild the fuck out, before you run off, get married and end up a desperate housewife. When you look back, you should say “wow, I had fun” not “damn, I should of done that when I had the chance”. Most women get hung up on emotions and sex, but IT IS possible to have emotionless sex. Get with the times bitches!
Now, I’m NOT saying to go fuck every man you see. What I AM saying though is, if you REALLY want to fuck… What other people may think of you, should not be a factor. There are differences between a SEXUALLY LIBERATED woman, and a HOE! A sexually liberated woman knows the following things:
- Some sexual acts are intimate and should only be done with those special to your heart. So, sucking off every nicca on the block… is a hoeish activity.
- When you fuck two men within the same social circle, they WILL talk about your ass. So… fucking two brothers, cousins, best friends or participating in a free for all train… is a hoeish activity.
-There are hundreds of diseases in this world and sex should be done SAFELY. So, fucking and sucking raw… is a hoeish activity.
- A sexually liberated woman is confidant and knows she can get any man, and doesn’t want the ones that are already taken- even if they want her. Fucking another woman’s man is not just CLASSLESS… it is a hoeish activity.
Hmmm… Some women REALLY are hoes and they conduct themselves as much. But there are other women who just enjoy indulging in sex, and lots of it. These women should not be seen as “hoes”, when in all actuality, they are not committing any “hoeish” crimes. They just want to experience new things and people… and they SHOULD NOT be treated as the nasty, devious RATS that are REAL hoes.
Men’s main argument with why women shouldn’t have as many sexual partners is this… “Your pussy is going to be all loose”. Well, I’d like to yell BULLSHIT! The vagina is a WONDROUS invention, for you see, it is like pure ELASTIC. Women have the ability to push out something 10 cm. and above in diameter and guess what? The pussy SNAPS back to its original form. Seriously, if a bitch can push out babies and NOT be loose… I HIGHLY DOUBT some dick is going to knock the walls off that shit.
Blah… This has proven to be a lot longer than I thought it would be, so I’m a wrap this shit up. Women, we have come a long way and have fought for RIGHTS. Women protested, burned bras and FOUGHT for us to be seen as EQUALS. But seriously, bitches are FREMENEMIES to other bitches. STOP HATIN and stop letting men RUN YOUR SHIT!
It is 2009, ain’t nothing wrong with FUCKIN and enjoying sex… as long as you ain’t participating in HOEISH activities. Lastly, HOW can you expect MEN to treat us as EQUALS when we ourselves can’t treat each other with RESPECT! Men… KNOW that there is a DIFFERENCE between a sexually liberated woman and a hoe. And real talk, most of you can’t talk shit anyways, because in all actuality, you are the one who is a HOE. And lastly, if you REALLY think women’s pussies stretch out the more men they fuck- you’re a DE-DE-DE! Granted, like dicks, vaginal canals come in all shapes and sizes… But chances are if she can push out something as big as 10 cm. and it STILL snap back… NO amount of dick can do damage… And, did it ever occur to you that she’s not really loose? Maybe, you’re just REALLY small… Whomp, Whomp…
Until next time kiddies….
Well… lately I’ve been thinking about this very topic more and more. The more I educate myself and reflect on history; the more I realize how fucked up we’re living. As time has gone by, women have fought for rights that were denied to us even a hundred years ago. So we now have rights and are to be seen as “equals” to men… now what?
I’d like to reflect on history and begin to analyze where and why women began being treated in such a fashion. Hmmm… not to go far too much, lets start with Medieval times, and the Dark Ages- for they were fairly dark… especially for women. Women were seen as emotional creatures… something they are still seen as today. But I found the way they described the women of the time fascinating.
Women were easily swayed and tempted by the devil… They also were said to have insatiable sex drives and for this, were seen as evil and products of the devil. They were to remain virgins in order to preserve the name and honor of her family. She was to be humble, devout and motherly. Now this all ties into religion as well… because religion back then was EVERYTHING. If you disobeyed what had been written, you were most certainly going to be condemned to Hades.
This is what I think REALLY happened. Men… know now and forever, that PUSSY runs the world. Many of wars have been fought over just that- PUSSY! Women have power in their panties, and most women don’t even know of the power that they TRULY have. Pussy has the ability to make a man dumb as shit, it has the ability to make him want to spend all his money, it can make him become estranged from family and friends, it can make him KILL someone. Sorry to tell you, but that is how powerful pussy is… some men would do ANYTHING for it.
Now the reason why men go all gaga over pussy is because logically speaking… Men have a way harder time getting laid then women do. The men who have acquired “game” and those that look good enough to eat… need not apply- you guys get the pussy thrown at you…. But, for the everyday Joe, pussy is a quest… If you don’t believe me, think about it like this- the UGLIEST, FATTEST bitch in the world, would STILL get dick, before the UGLIEST man got some pussy. Why? Men are ALWAYS down to fuck something… and most niccas don’t give a shit- especially when now, you can officially blame it on the alcohol!
Now, when it comes to getting laid…. Women have NO problem. The only thing that holds women back is their NEED to have a mental/emotional connection with the person they’re sleeping with. Real talk though…. To all the bitches that BITCH and COMPLAIN they ain’t getting laid- LOOK AROUND BITCH! Pick one, any one you want, maybe some eye candy … and 9 out of 10 times… he’s down… Bitches, stop DEPRIVING yourself of dick, and LEARN to fuck and detach feelings when doing so. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself which equals confidence; besides, you’re a MEGA bitch when you ain’t getting laid!
That is a MAIN difference in sex when it comes to men and women. Women are mental and emotional, and men are visual and physical. Women, you need to know that YOU hold the power, and if you see something you like… There’s nothing wrong with sampling different cookies in the jar. Plus, it gives you more experience and when you’re married and 40, you won’t REGRET not fucking the shit outta that sexy man 20 yrs ago.
Back to the oppression of women back in time… So what I think happened, is some MAN figured out what I just explained. PUSSY IS POWER! He figured it out and said “Oh Shit! What we gunna do, women ain’t running shit”, Why? Because men are territorial and egotistical. And at that point in time, they would of rather died, than let a WOMAN tell them about religion, politics, family or anything that involved deeper thinking skills. And…. So began the oppression of women and the double-standards that we until today carry in society.
In order to keep the women of those times in “check” and obedient… what they did was tie in RELIGION! These women were scared to do or say anything for a long time, because they believed that in doing so, they were going to HELL! The men of these times can be summed up in two words- DOUCHE BAGS!
How has times changed? Eh, while women carry many rights today that our sisters failed to have so many years ago; women are still seen in an inferior light as opposed to men. We still carry many double-standards today that existed back then as well. Double-standards that were MADE by who? MEN!
It’s crazy how much the times have changed. Women are coming up in the world, but who knows if we will ever be TRULY seen as “equals”. This can not be blamed on just one sex though. Women and men alike have fair involvement in making it what it is today. Women…. Some of you play that damsel in distress card a little too much, we’re living in 2009- get independent bitch! Men… Some of you have the audacity to judge a women for things she has done sexually, but believe it is quite all right for men to fuck everything that walks! Until everyone learns to keep an open mind and be none judgmental… the world will cease to be this way and women will be oppressed.
Women… I must address you first on this one, because frankly if you didn’t know- WOMEN are the WORST ENEMIES of other WOMEN. Seriously, we are… and you hater ass bitches KNOW who you are deep inside. It’s crazy how women could plot so deviously against other women. And it’s ridiculous that women get MAD when they see another woman doing BETTER than she is.
If you see another woman out there doing good for herself, you should be HAPPY for her. She should serve as your MOTIVATION! Hey, if SHE can do it, then so can YOU! I’m so tired of bitches hating on other bitches. You have the EXACT SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I DO… If you don’t make it work out for yourself- that’s on you dumb ass. But don’t hate on me and mine when I’m doing better than you!
Next, is how green with ENVY a bitch will get when she sees that you have a “good” man. Of course she’ll compliment you two as a couple, but secretly, she plots to steal that “good” man for herself. You sniveling, conniving, desperate sewer RATS! Be happy that your friend has gotten herself a good man, and STOP trying to take what’s not yours. You bitches help contribute to the struggle that we, as women are in. You get NO RESPECT. And remember this you GREEDY BITCH- if he cheated WITH you, then he will cheat ON you. Don’t act all surprised when that shit happens, you set yourself up lovely for that one!
Which brings me to the bitches who fuck the men of other women. You bitches are despicable and are at the extreme bottom of the food chain. It is one thing to fuck a man who lied to you about a girlfriend and/or wife, that’s his fault- you didn’t know. Now when you find out… CUT IT OFF. Have some dignity and morals. To the leeches who KNOW that a man is in a relationship… You help contribute to cheating, the breaking of families, and more seriously the hate and jealousy that shadows all women. I’d like to take this moment to say- FUCK YOU! You have no morals, values or a conscience… You, get that “Scum of the Earth” classification.
Another thing, bitches… Stop being STUPID! If your man cheated on you… your beef is NOT with the tramp he cheated with. It is with him! Unless you know the bitch, then you can whip her ass on principle alone… but if you DO NOT know the female, leave her ass out of it. HE is the ENEMY, NOT HER! I see so many bitches fighting over niccas that ain’t worth a DIME, stop playing yourself! He ain’t Reggie Bush, Denzel or Usher… and even then you shouldn’t be fighting over a damn man. Stop letting MEN put women against each other… that’s what he wants, just so you’ll forget that HE’S THE ONE THAT CHEATED!
*sigh… Back to equality, one of the main reasons I believe that men DO NOT take women seriously is because BITCHES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Really though, women want to be seen as equals, yet at the same time want special consideration because why? She’s a woman. Make up your fucking minds… You can be equal and INDEPENDENT or you can be seen as the inferior damsel in distress… You can only chose one!
Enough about the catty bitches that roam the earth… on to the DOGS! Men, for as long as history tells… You have oppressed women and honestly, I don’t all the way blame you. Women ARE emotionally unstable creatures who don’t know what the hell they want- well, MOST of them. And yea, they may fuck important shit up, who knows. But, what I DO NOT agree with are the double-standards that have come from this oppression.
In early times, women would be killed by her father and/or brothers if she were found to not be a virgin before she was married. This was done to preserve the honor of her family. Ok, WTF is that about? Marriages were arranged, and husbands were “brought”. If you had money, you could buy your daughter a great husband. Women were not a part of her fathers inheritance, and they were almost invisible in a sense to society. They held no class, instead they were seen as whatever class their fathers or husbands were in.
For centuries, men held on tightly to the reins they had invisibly and secretively thrown over women. Women worked hard to tend their homes and first and foremost, bear and raise children. Now, although women have come a long way from these dark times, some things are still alive today. One thing in particular is the double-standard of sexual escapades.
It is the year 2009, why is it that forever, men have been able to fuck WHOEVER they want… and they can fuck as MANY women they want- yet, they are NOT seen as the whores that they are? Instead, they get a pat on the back because they’re “the man”. Honestly, the world needs to WAKE THE FUCK UP! If men can do it, so can women- and women are none the lesser for it. Women have wants and needs as well, and seriously, women want to fuck JUST AS MUCH as men do. They don’t though, because they don’t want to be seen as “whores, hoes, sluts, etc.”
This is a new century, and women need to come out of those shells and get THEIR FUCK ON! There’s nothing wrong with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with fucking more than a fixed amount of men. You only get one life and you should live it to the fullest. Wild the fuck out, before you run off, get married and end up a desperate housewife. When you look back, you should say “wow, I had fun” not “damn, I should of done that when I had the chance”. Most women get hung up on emotions and sex, but IT IS possible to have emotionless sex. Get with the times bitches!
Now, I’m NOT saying to go fuck every man you see. What I AM saying though is, if you REALLY want to fuck… What other people may think of you, should not be a factor. There are differences between a SEXUALLY LIBERATED woman, and a HOE! A sexually liberated woman knows the following things:
- Some sexual acts are intimate and should only be done with those special to your heart. So, sucking off every nicca on the block… is a hoeish activity.
- When you fuck two men within the same social circle, they WILL talk about your ass. So… fucking two brothers, cousins, best friends or participating in a free for all train… is a hoeish activity.
-There are hundreds of diseases in this world and sex should be done SAFELY. So, fucking and sucking raw… is a hoeish activity.
- A sexually liberated woman is confidant and knows she can get any man, and doesn’t want the ones that are already taken- even if they want her. Fucking another woman’s man is not just CLASSLESS… it is a hoeish activity.
Hmmm… Some women REALLY are hoes and they conduct themselves as much. But there are other women who just enjoy indulging in sex, and lots of it. These women should not be seen as “hoes”, when in all actuality, they are not committing any “hoeish” crimes. They just want to experience new things and people… and they SHOULD NOT be treated as the nasty, devious RATS that are REAL hoes.
Men’s main argument with why women shouldn’t have as many sexual partners is this… “Your pussy is going to be all loose”. Well, I’d like to yell BULLSHIT! The vagina is a WONDROUS invention, for you see, it is like pure ELASTIC. Women have the ability to push out something 10 cm. and above in diameter and guess what? The pussy SNAPS back to its original form. Seriously, if a bitch can push out babies and NOT be loose… I HIGHLY DOUBT some dick is going to knock the walls off that shit.
Blah… This has proven to be a lot longer than I thought it would be, so I’m a wrap this shit up. Women, we have come a long way and have fought for RIGHTS. Women protested, burned bras and FOUGHT for us to be seen as EQUALS. But seriously, bitches are FREMENEMIES to other bitches. STOP HATIN and stop letting men RUN YOUR SHIT!
It is 2009, ain’t nothing wrong with FUCKIN and enjoying sex… as long as you ain’t participating in HOEISH activities. Lastly, HOW can you expect MEN to treat us as EQUALS when we ourselves can’t treat each other with RESPECT! Men… KNOW that there is a DIFFERENCE between a sexually liberated woman and a hoe. And real talk, most of you can’t talk shit anyways, because in all actuality, you are the one who is a HOE. And lastly, if you REALLY think women’s pussies stretch out the more men they fuck- you’re a DE-DE-DE! Granted, like dicks, vaginal canals come in all shapes and sizes… But chances are if she can push out something as big as 10 cm. and it STILL snap back… NO amount of dick can do damage… And, did it ever occur to you that she’s not really loose? Maybe, you’re just REALLY small… Whomp, Whomp…
Until next time kiddies….
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