Modern dating from a man’s perspective of course, is naturally next. We will explore the depths of the male mind, see what makes them tick and break down my theories on them. Of course they can only be theories taken from observations and research, for I am not a man myself, so although I’ll never purely know what it’s like, I can sympathize enormously… 70% of my mentality is Dude.
Men… Mostly seen as a bed of nails. Hard. Tough. Sometimes, it’s even hard for me, and I too forget that men have real feelings as well. Although, from the time they are born, most men are taught to bottle their emotions. “Boys don’t cry”, is the common phrase, uttered by many parents in hopes of toughening up their sons. But, alas, boys DO cry. They just don’t usually let anyone see them when they do so.
Yes. Men have feelings too. Yet, the difference between men and women is that men not only internalize their feelings, their mental processes are different. When a man is normally hit with some crazy or bad news, he emotionally shuts down in an effort to sort his feelings. Women on the other hand, externalize everything and then some.
It is true that there are many men out there who are also disillusioned into believing they want something, when it is merely what society states he should want. Men can be just as confused as women when it comes to properly trying to pick a mate. But the main issue is WHEN he will be able to actually pick a mate. For you see, I don’t necessarily think MOST men actually want relationships- many just don’t know it but I have theories as to why they may do certain things.
You see the biology of a man is very different from that of a woman’s, and this includes everything from the way we perceive things, talk, our sexuality, our chemical processes… everything. Men, are in their primes early during puberty… Usually from ages 18-25… Women on the other hand don’t reach their sexual peaks until their 30’s-40’s. Now the thing with young men, is, I REALLY believe the majority of them do not want actual relationships.
Dating for men is way different than it is for women. Even growing up, a man is taught that his goal in life is to acquire status and fortunes. That is what every good man strives for- success. Now when it comes to dating, especially during the college years, I believe the reason why most relationships do not work out, is because how they came about.
Men are fairly simple creatures. They want good company and conversation, they want someone they can really be their TRUE selves around, they want a woman who will feed them and rock their worlds in the sack. Simple enough, but it’s usually never accomplished, because most of them can NEVER be their true selves around their women. And most of them resent the fact that they can’t do so.
Most men feel inadequate in this world. Which is why they lie about their status, how much they make, where they work and the such. The media, society and women do not make it any better. It’s hard out there for a Pimp! Lol… With all the images of dudes ballin out with hella hoes all over the tv screen, men in turn realize that the fastest way to get women, is to ball out. And they are right, some women are so shallow, all it takes it a dude with a nice car and clothes, and she’s dick ridin him hella hard!
What they do not realize though, is that those types of women, are truly the ones you should stay away from, because in essence, she’s with you for what you have- not who you are. This is the main way that men in turn, constantly feel used by women but like I always say- STOP trying to play Captain Save a Hoe to hoes that don’t wanna be saved. We also have loads of women who will verbalize and are very vocal about being with broke busters, so as a man, he has to step it up and he realizes that in order to get women, he must either acquire status… or lie about it. Which usually works!
Now, most men get caught up in the PUSSY=POWER extravaganza, only because they are thirsty, regular or Submissive males. An Alpha male, NEVER gets caught up, because there are no games. When dating, as a man, you usually have to pick a place, pay for it and entertain your chick. You also have to listen attentively and offer your two cents when it is asked of you. Now if you actually like this girl and want to really be with her, that is all fine and dandy. But I believe most of the men who are my peers, are not on this level yet.
You see, when men are in their prime, they aren’t trying to settle down. The ones that do, either have low self-esteems or aren’t getting any buns on the regular. I have surveyed more than a few dozen men, and when asked this question, 95% of them responded as I’d hoped.
The sample question was this… “Forget everything you know about society and dating- throw it out the window. Now if you had the choice, what would you chose? You could either be in a relationship with one girl, or you could be single and guaranteed sex, no strings ever, with as many women as you’d like- most women would never deny you. In fact, 9 outta 10 times, if you approach a girl for some ass, she’d say YES.”
Most men, picked the single option. So ladies are right in a sense… Most men, only DO want one thing. And if they could get it, they would have no reason to be in a relationship, until they got older, their testosterone levels dropped, and they finally know what they want. Most men, don’t want all the things that come with a relationship. Sure, they’d like the company and the pussy, but most men hate all the drama that comes along with that pussy.
What is funny about my sample question, is that men would love to live this type of way, almost never being denied. If they were almost never denied, they wouldn’t have a reason to settle down. The question though is derived from the way women are in this world. Women actually DO have this option, the option of either being taken or single and almost never denied dick. If women wanted, they COULD live this way, most just choose not to. Most have never thought about it that way… Drool Boys, I know you’re HATIN! Lol
So for men, the regular and Submissive’s, being that they usual work hard for the pussy- they have their own issues to attend to. Many of them have been rejected and in turn, they have low self-esteems. What is funny is that many of them, will settle with the first girl who is willing to give them ass on the regular! That is why they wanna lock that shit down. Not necessarily because they want to be in a relationship, but because they don’t have many options when it comes to sex partners and you come along and fuck em on the regular. That alone makes many men settle.
So, it’s is not necessarily that he wants to get serious and wants all the drama that comes with being with a most women (bitches are crazy lol), because he’d really rather go without it. Men being the easy creatures that they are, usually have very little will power, and will usually not deny a girl some of his dick- especially if he’s attracted to her. They have and exhibit very little self-control when faced with the scenario I previously stated. So, if men actually had it the way women did when it comes to those options, relationships probably wouldn’t start until people were in their late 20’s.
Now when men date women, it is all about the front, mainly because you have no idea what kind of chick you are with. Many men will sit there, front, and lie about what they have, like a peacock parading around proudly showing his colorful feathers, in hopes of attracting a mate. This is mainly because the media and bitches make it hard for a man to get and attract women, if you’re not balling out. So most men will lie about all that shit, in hopes of impressing a girl enough.
Sure, many men DO just want pussy. Some will be forthcoming and many more, will be sneaky about the whole thing. The main thing they like to say is “I just wanna get to know you”… that is also about the only thing they really say. So if he says some shit like that, then it’s definitely all about the pussy. And sure, he may take you out on a few dates, but he’s usually trying to get that by the 3rd or 4th date. If he doesn’t get it, many of them move on. But for some, you have become a challenge that they have accepted, and they will then do almost anything to get that pussy. Even if it means getting into a relationship with you.
Men who are serious about a woman, will take their time, and show her the upmost respect… even if he’s extra attracted to her and has already fucked her 50 times in his mind. He is chivalrous, and most importantly, he will court you properly. Men who have reached this stage, are serious about settling down, and they usually know exactly what they want and what they expect from their woman. Men will ONLY get to this stage on their own- and no amount of persuading, or pussy, will change that.
Now men in relationships, we’re gunna break it down into two sections- real and fake relationships. Fake relationships are what many men have in their teens and early 20’s. I say they are fake because most of them, if they had the chance to fuck any chick they want at any time- most would chose to do so over a relationship any day! So men in fake relationships, sure lots of them don’t care and many will lie and cheat. Many of them can’t stand their girlfriends- but, it is constant pussy, so many of them stay… Until something better comes along that is.
Now men in real relationships, who actually know what they want and want to settle down- those are gems. Those are the “good men” women claim they seek. What most men have to deal with in relationships is crazy though. Like I said before, most men, want more than anything to be able to be himself around you. He wants to be able to break down the walls and relax. Most of them can’t though, because the type of women they are with, never allows that to happen.
These men may stay around, like I said, many of them stay for the constant pussy, but many of them start to resent their other halves. It gets tiring and annoying, when you can never be real with the person you love. It also gets tiring and annoying, when it becomes a project every time you are real with a bitch. Like I said men are ill equipped and women DO NOT make it easy. Believe me when I say that some of your boyfriends and husbands deserve head all night long, just for putting up with your crazy ass shit.
Now on to sex, my favorite topic of course ;) I felt the need to address this area when it comes to men because this is something that is never talked about, and I feel that women SHOULD know this. Any woman who have ever strapped up, and fucked someone, can sympathize and will know what the fuck I’m talking about. Men spend an enormous amount of energy and strength, just to fuck you right. The amount of work that men do, the stamina that some of them have- I COMMEND YOU! Women REALLY don’t know what it is like to fuck like a man, so if your man is fucking you right… treat him nice, he works hard!
Sure, there are MANY men who don’t fuck their women right, if they did, more women would know what the Big O REALLY feels like. But like I stated before there are advantages AND disadvantages to being a beast in the sheets. If you are serious about your chick, and you want to keep her at bay- BLOW HER BACK OUT! That shit will calm her ass down, seriously, I promise. Women who are sexually happy, only become more enthralled with their men, and the power their pussy has over the situation breaks. I’ll explain more about what happens in the next blog when I break down Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
Now the negative impact that this can have, is if you are doing you’re woman wrong. If you do her wrong, or plan on doing so, please, DO NOT fuck her all crazy. I swear that the craziness levels in women increase, the better you fuck them. So if you blow her back out, and then do her dirty- she WILL make your life a living hell. And it’s mainly because she is PISSED you gave away that good dick- I don’t entirely blame her.
In conclusion, men are simple creatures, they want to be able to be themselves and they want a woman to fuck them right. Sure, many of them lie just to get to the pussy, but women don’t make it easy for a regular man to get some action too. They work hard, just as hard as women and harder in the sack (some of them), so for a woman to feel entitled to his ends- get a new hustle Gold Digger… its 2010. Sure, many of them don’t even want relationships, many of them are “trapped” into relationships, JUST cuz you give them pussy on the regular. Most don’t know what it is they want yet, but one day he will- hopefully.
Until next time kiddies… Stay tuned for the breakdown of societies Alpha’s, Submissive’s and Everyone Else.
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Monday, December 6, 2010
MODERN DATING: The Bitches Edition
Modern dating from a woman’s perspective, is where we go today. You see women are beautiful and fragile creatures, some with emotions grander than the oceans themselves. Women can be delicate, they can be impulsive, they can be irrational, and they can be crazy. I’m gunna try to tell you why though and let you in on a few things that most women do and what they don’t want you to know. How they work and what makes these bitches tick.
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.
This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.
In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.
Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.
For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!
So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.
Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.
See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!
You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.
So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.
Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.
On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!
This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!
Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.
Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.
Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.
Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.
This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.
So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.
How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.
Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.
A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.
If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.
Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.
Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!
Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.
Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.
With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.
In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…
Until next time kiddies…
MODERN DATING: The Intro
A new year and a new mission. Last year, I decided to face the challenges of dating. What I have gained from these experiences are basic insights overlooked by many. Since there is so much to cover, and I am going to try to cover it all, this will be a mini series of sorts. This one will basically cover things that are affected by both the sexes when dating. Feelings felt, things done and said, and a certain thing that both sides definitely deal with. Then I will in further blogs, assess the dating world from both a male and females point of view.
So, let us begin this series by starting at the beginning. So, you think you may like someone and you would like to go out somewhere with them, maybe in an effort to get to know them better. It was once called courting, but we call it dating or just plain ol’ “going out”. In the hood, there seems to be a difference between dating and going out, but I have digressed.
So I want to address something felt by both sexes, felt by many people in the world. Astonishingly, many people in this world have a low self-esteem, and/or image problems. Even the people who front like they THINK they the shit… most often have deep-rooted self- esteem issues. If you do not believe me, look around and within yourself. Its’ all there!
This goes back to the formulation of fronts. A front is something put on by people who are mainly too scared to show who they truly are. This fear can be driven by many things, fear of rejection, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of getting hurt… the list goes on! Nevertheless, this is why fronts exist, mostly as defense mechanisms, and the like. People are too scared to show who they truly are… Period.
There are those who take their fronts too far though. These are the people who have come to believe their fronts. They emulate someone they would like to be, the person they dream of becoming. Yet, they are so stuck in that dream, that instead of progressing and BECOMING the person they front to be… They never do, and stay at square one… STILL fronting!
A word to those people, you are just as bad as a HATER, only because you share common characteristics. In essence, the reason why people hate on you, is mainly because they envy you, and jealousy is a mother fucker. Yet, instead of taking all that energy used to hate, and putting it towards positive, constructive ways to better themselves- they do not. All the energy used to hate and breed negativity, could be used to better yourself. And then maybe your ass wouldn’t be as miserable, and you wouldn’t have to hate on others, cuz you now got your own.
One last note on this issue… People need to mind their own fucking business. Seriously though. People fail or neglect their own issues cuz they’re so worried about what the next person is doing. Why are you so concerned with what is going on with other people? Well, it’s WAY more interesting than YOUR life- that’s for sure. Get a fucking life, and stop being so fucking nosey when it comes to matters that don’t concern you… This is anything and everything that doesn’t directly affect YOU. “Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone”… This would be NONE OF YOU! Remember that! How you gunna call someone out for not having they shit in order, and talk shit about any issue; when in your life, you are facing the same issues and have no idea how to deal with it. Two words: C’MoN SoN!
Back to the dating extravaganza. So, there are these fronts, which most people have and put into play. The only thing is that some people live deeper in their fronts than others. The people who are off on the deep end, are the ones you should avoid. Don’t try to play Captain Save a Hoe, don’t try to play Ms. Fix-iT, these people CAN NOT be fixed by anyone aside from themselves. They put themselves in these holes, and they themselves must find their way out and truly discover who they are.
There is the initial meeting, or not, nowadays people are resorting to all types of methods for meeting new people. So there isn’t always that initial meeting before a date. But something I found interesting was the amount of people I ran into who exhibited self-esteem issues.
You may not want to believe it, but you too may have these issues. I do not believe I have ever met anyone who was 100% happy with who they are and what they have or will become. And anyone who has said so, was FRONTING! Deep down inside, everyone has issues, some more than others and when it comes to our relations with other people, shit gets fucked up pretty quickly because of how we feel about ourselves.
For instance, many people settle for less because they feel they are undeserving of more, or they really don’t think they can find anything better. This basically means to me, that YOU don’t think very highly of yourself. I see both men and women cope out and stay with people who don’t necessarily make them happy, but they don’t think there is anything better. And you are right, there ain’t shit better for you, if deep down inside, you think YOUR shit. Finding yourself and KNOWING who you truly are is a journey we all must take if we ever want to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions in life. How are you going to choose a suitable mate, if you are so disillusioned that you believe you are someone you are not. It ain’t fucking happening.
What is crazy though is that the very way we feel about OURSELVES has a major impact on who we are with and date. One thing that both sexes have to deal with is REJECTION. Sure in essence women certainly do not have to deal with it as much, but most women aren’t secure enough in themselves to know this. Men and women both have instances where they won’t approach someone JUST because of how the person looks. Men are scared to holla at that bad bitch, women are scared to holla at Mr. Sexy… All because they aren’t secure enough to take the risk and say fuck it!
Let me let you in on a secret… The sexy people of the world are broken down into 2 categories… The ones who got it and know they got it… And the ones who got it and have NO idea. What was interesting is that, I would say 70%, of people who look good have self image issues. Most people that look good, also suffer from self-esteem issues. As a result, they usually aren’t gunna holla at anyone, cuz they are insecure. And on the flip side, no one holla’s at them because they don’t think they are good enough, they get intimidated cuz the person looks good and fear rejection… You know where that gets you? NOWHERE.
This is how the world turns unfortunately. I like to break people down into certain categories. There are the Alpha’s, the Submissive's and then there’s everyone else. Later on I’ll discuss how each of these categories dates and how they get along in society. But for now, know that the Alpha’s are mainly the people who are secure enough in themselves, that when they date, they are almost immune to the bullshit the opposite sex tries to pull, in order to gain control of the situation. The Submissive’s are people who are easily swayed and taken over… No fight necessary… They usually just let you run they shit… These people usually have deeply rooted mommy/daddy issues. Then there is everyone else, which is the majority of the population. Now the thing with everyone else though is that they are usually at odds with one another over CONTROL of the situation. It seems to me that nowadays, it’s all about control, who controls what and who controls who. This is where the games ensue and take place, it is where they derive from.
Back to dating, so you meet someone and have secured the first date. Let me tell your ass where NOT to go: the movies, dinner, a bar, a club, or anywhere else where you can’t have a quiet and private conversation with your date. A proper first date should be going for coffee, or ice cream, or going to the park or a museum or art gallery… Somewhere public that is quiet enough for you two to converse. Sure, people get wrapped up in the bullshit, especially women with their high maintenance shit… But seriously, the first date is IMPORTANT, it is your first time out and about together.
What people neglect is that on a first date- talking should NOT be optional! This is how you get to know a person, and it’s what you SHOULD want to do. So many people waste time, energy and effort into dates, when it should be very simple. A conversation with that person is what should be the most important part of your date, not where they are taking you or what you are doing. This is an area where people throw simplicity out the window, not knowing that simplicity will take you farther than trying to make shit all complicated.
A first date should be short, sweet and cheap! YES, I said cheap! I honestly say this because I see so many people splurge on a first date- for nothing. Fellas, save your guap for the 3rd date. If a chick has made it to a 3rd date, then you can take her somewhere nice. But don’t spend all your money on a bitch the first time around, mainly because, MOST bitches aren’t worth it! Seriously though, why spend all your money on someone you barely know? And a lot of the times it doesn’t even work out. So dudes watch your wallets, unless you can afford to ball out, cuz nowadays we got bitches being Dinner Whores. Which means, she will only call you when she wanna go out, and always makes you pay… And at the end of the day, you NEVER get to really play! Lol… Ain’t that Fucked Up?
A first date should be used to try to REALLY get a person and where they are coming from. The shit I hate about that though, is that SO MANY PEOPLE lie their asses off on a first date or any date, period. This is usually all fronting and they are doing so in hopes of impressing you. Both men and women do it, and in turn, you NEVER get to really know who that person is- that’s the worse part. You get to know who it is they PORTRAY themselves to be, but who are they really? That is to be discovered with time.
What REALLY grinds my gears is that you spend all this time and effort into getting to know someone and all they were doing the whole time is fronting. This is where you gotta check yourself and do some self evaluations and find out what YOU are fronting about in an effort to understand people more. What do you front about? Do you even know? Do you know what is reality and what is fabricated? Many people don’t know and are so stuck in their fronts that they can’t decipher reality from what they have fabricated.
People need to turn to simplicity. Shit CAN be oh so simple… if you just let it happen. If you stopped trying to impress others, if you stopped caring what others thought, if you just let yourself be who you truly are- for once. It amazingly is EASIER to tell the truth and to be REAL, than it is to lie and create an entire front. This is time that could be used to do more constructive things, like, I dunno, maybe actually getting yourself where you want to be in life.
So, what have we learned today? Most people have self-esteem issues, so don’t be scared to holla at something sexy, chances are they have the same issues you do… So grow some balls and make an initiative and go talk to them. First dates are IMPORTANT! They should be cheap and you should be conversing vigorously. Yes, people front and lie like their lives depend on it, but every person makes a difference, so STOP FRONTIN! (I need to get that shit printed on a t-shirt, like the Stop Snitchin ones lol)… As people we attract those who are reflections of ourselves, and real talk- REAL ALWAYS RECOGNIZES REAL… you just have to look past all the bullshit and lies to be able to know and appreciate what something REAL looks like.
Until Next Time Kiddies… Stay tuned for the male and female perspectives in the dating world… This should be fun ;)
So, let us begin this series by starting at the beginning. So, you think you may like someone and you would like to go out somewhere with them, maybe in an effort to get to know them better. It was once called courting, but we call it dating or just plain ol’ “going out”. In the hood, there seems to be a difference between dating and going out, but I have digressed.
So I want to address something felt by both sexes, felt by many people in the world. Astonishingly, many people in this world have a low self-esteem, and/or image problems. Even the people who front like they THINK they the shit… most often have deep-rooted self- esteem issues. If you do not believe me, look around and within yourself. Its’ all there!
This goes back to the formulation of fronts. A front is something put on by people who are mainly too scared to show who they truly are. This fear can be driven by many things, fear of rejection, fear of being taken advantage of, fear of getting hurt… the list goes on! Nevertheless, this is why fronts exist, mostly as defense mechanisms, and the like. People are too scared to show who they truly are… Period.
There are those who take their fronts too far though. These are the people who have come to believe their fronts. They emulate someone they would like to be, the person they dream of becoming. Yet, they are so stuck in that dream, that instead of progressing and BECOMING the person they front to be… They never do, and stay at square one… STILL fronting!
A word to those people, you are just as bad as a HATER, only because you share common characteristics. In essence, the reason why people hate on you, is mainly because they envy you, and jealousy is a mother fucker. Yet, instead of taking all that energy used to hate, and putting it towards positive, constructive ways to better themselves- they do not. All the energy used to hate and breed negativity, could be used to better yourself. And then maybe your ass wouldn’t be as miserable, and you wouldn’t have to hate on others, cuz you now got your own.
One last note on this issue… People need to mind their own fucking business. Seriously though. People fail or neglect their own issues cuz they’re so worried about what the next person is doing. Why are you so concerned with what is going on with other people? Well, it’s WAY more interesting than YOUR life- that’s for sure. Get a fucking life, and stop being so fucking nosey when it comes to matters that don’t concern you… This is anything and everything that doesn’t directly affect YOU. “Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone”… This would be NONE OF YOU! Remember that! How you gunna call someone out for not having they shit in order, and talk shit about any issue; when in your life, you are facing the same issues and have no idea how to deal with it. Two words: C’MoN SoN!
Back to the dating extravaganza. So, there are these fronts, which most people have and put into play. The only thing is that some people live deeper in their fronts than others. The people who are off on the deep end, are the ones you should avoid. Don’t try to play Captain Save a Hoe, don’t try to play Ms. Fix-iT, these people CAN NOT be fixed by anyone aside from themselves. They put themselves in these holes, and they themselves must find their way out and truly discover who they are.
There is the initial meeting, or not, nowadays people are resorting to all types of methods for meeting new people. So there isn’t always that initial meeting before a date. But something I found interesting was the amount of people I ran into who exhibited self-esteem issues.
You may not want to believe it, but you too may have these issues. I do not believe I have ever met anyone who was 100% happy with who they are and what they have or will become. And anyone who has said so, was FRONTING! Deep down inside, everyone has issues, some more than others and when it comes to our relations with other people, shit gets fucked up pretty quickly because of how we feel about ourselves.
For instance, many people settle for less because they feel they are undeserving of more, or they really don’t think they can find anything better. This basically means to me, that YOU don’t think very highly of yourself. I see both men and women cope out and stay with people who don’t necessarily make them happy, but they don’t think there is anything better. And you are right, there ain’t shit better for you, if deep down inside, you think YOUR shit. Finding yourself and KNOWING who you truly are is a journey we all must take if we ever want to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions in life. How are you going to choose a suitable mate, if you are so disillusioned that you believe you are someone you are not. It ain’t fucking happening.
What is crazy though is that the very way we feel about OURSELVES has a major impact on who we are with and date. One thing that both sexes have to deal with is REJECTION. Sure in essence women certainly do not have to deal with it as much, but most women aren’t secure enough in themselves to know this. Men and women both have instances where they won’t approach someone JUST because of how the person looks. Men are scared to holla at that bad bitch, women are scared to holla at Mr. Sexy… All because they aren’t secure enough to take the risk and say fuck it!
Let me let you in on a secret… The sexy people of the world are broken down into 2 categories… The ones who got it and know they got it… And the ones who got it and have NO idea. What was interesting is that, I would say 70%, of people who look good have self image issues. Most people that look good, also suffer from self-esteem issues. As a result, they usually aren’t gunna holla at anyone, cuz they are insecure. And on the flip side, no one holla’s at them because they don’t think they are good enough, they get intimidated cuz the person looks good and fear rejection… You know where that gets you? NOWHERE.
This is how the world turns unfortunately. I like to break people down into certain categories. There are the Alpha’s, the Submissive's and then there’s everyone else. Later on I’ll discuss how each of these categories dates and how they get along in society. But for now, know that the Alpha’s are mainly the people who are secure enough in themselves, that when they date, they are almost immune to the bullshit the opposite sex tries to pull, in order to gain control of the situation. The Submissive’s are people who are easily swayed and taken over… No fight necessary… They usually just let you run they shit… These people usually have deeply rooted mommy/daddy issues. Then there is everyone else, which is the majority of the population. Now the thing with everyone else though is that they are usually at odds with one another over CONTROL of the situation. It seems to me that nowadays, it’s all about control, who controls what and who controls who. This is where the games ensue and take place, it is where they derive from.
Back to dating, so you meet someone and have secured the first date. Let me tell your ass where NOT to go: the movies, dinner, a bar, a club, or anywhere else where you can’t have a quiet and private conversation with your date. A proper first date should be going for coffee, or ice cream, or going to the park or a museum or art gallery… Somewhere public that is quiet enough for you two to converse. Sure, people get wrapped up in the bullshit, especially women with their high maintenance shit… But seriously, the first date is IMPORTANT, it is your first time out and about together.
What people neglect is that on a first date- talking should NOT be optional! This is how you get to know a person, and it’s what you SHOULD want to do. So many people waste time, energy and effort into dates, when it should be very simple. A conversation with that person is what should be the most important part of your date, not where they are taking you or what you are doing. This is an area where people throw simplicity out the window, not knowing that simplicity will take you farther than trying to make shit all complicated.
A first date should be short, sweet and cheap! YES, I said cheap! I honestly say this because I see so many people splurge on a first date- for nothing. Fellas, save your guap for the 3rd date. If a chick has made it to a 3rd date, then you can take her somewhere nice. But don’t spend all your money on a bitch the first time around, mainly because, MOST bitches aren’t worth it! Seriously though, why spend all your money on someone you barely know? And a lot of the times it doesn’t even work out. So dudes watch your wallets, unless you can afford to ball out, cuz nowadays we got bitches being Dinner Whores. Which means, she will only call you when she wanna go out, and always makes you pay… And at the end of the day, you NEVER get to really play! Lol… Ain’t that Fucked Up?
A first date should be used to try to REALLY get a person and where they are coming from. The shit I hate about that though, is that SO MANY PEOPLE lie their asses off on a first date or any date, period. This is usually all fronting and they are doing so in hopes of impressing you. Both men and women do it, and in turn, you NEVER get to really know who that person is- that’s the worse part. You get to know who it is they PORTRAY themselves to be, but who are they really? That is to be discovered with time.
What REALLY grinds my gears is that you spend all this time and effort into getting to know someone and all they were doing the whole time is fronting. This is where you gotta check yourself and do some self evaluations and find out what YOU are fronting about in an effort to understand people more. What do you front about? Do you even know? Do you know what is reality and what is fabricated? Many people don’t know and are so stuck in their fronts that they can’t decipher reality from what they have fabricated.
People need to turn to simplicity. Shit CAN be oh so simple… if you just let it happen. If you stopped trying to impress others, if you stopped caring what others thought, if you just let yourself be who you truly are- for once. It amazingly is EASIER to tell the truth and to be REAL, than it is to lie and create an entire front. This is time that could be used to do more constructive things, like, I dunno, maybe actually getting yourself where you want to be in life.
So, what have we learned today? Most people have self-esteem issues, so don’t be scared to holla at something sexy, chances are they have the same issues you do… So grow some balls and make an initiative and go talk to them. First dates are IMPORTANT! They should be cheap and you should be conversing vigorously. Yes, people front and lie like their lives depend on it, but every person makes a difference, so STOP FRONTIN! (I need to get that shit printed on a t-shirt, like the Stop Snitchin ones lol)… As people we attract those who are reflections of ourselves, and real talk- REAL ALWAYS RECOGNIZES REAL… you just have to look past all the bullshit and lies to be able to know and appreciate what something REAL looks like.
Until Next Time Kiddies… Stay tuned for the male and female perspectives in the dating world… This should be fun ;)
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