MODERN DATING: The Bitches Edition

Modern dating from a woman’s perspective, is where we go today. You see women are beautiful and fragile creatures, some with emotions grander than the oceans themselves. Women can be delicate, they can be impulsive, they can be irrational, and they can be crazy. I’m gunna try to tell you why though and let you in on a few things that most women do and what they don’t want you to know. How they work and what makes these bitches tick.

Women, most of them are balls of emotion. I’m going to try to tie everything and correlate them to society and dating so that we can better dissect them and what goes on. So of course we will start at the very beginning, when we are all children. Little girls, for the most part are sheltered. Many grow up being ashamed of their bodies and their sexuality. Growing up little girls are also told constantly what they should expect and want from a man. These are things drilled into our heads as little girls.

This is the main reason why women are so confused when it comes to dating and when they first date. You have to understand that when we get older, what we like and what we attract, doesn’t always coincide with what we are told we SHOULD want and attract. That’s why there are so many women who say this “I want a good man”. Now what is amazing is that ANY woman that says that, and that alone is CONFUSED as fuck. When a woman KNOWS what she wants, she doesn’t stop at a “good man”. She will verbalize EXACTLY what she wants and expects from a man.

In the world of dating, there are exceptions to society, but for most of the population all of this holds true. Women, as we all know are very emotional creatures. They let their actions be dictated by their emotions and fears. This is why women don’t rule the world! They ARE too emotional, so emotional that the majority of them become extremely impulsive and irrational when they are upset. This is the main reason why men lie… Not necessarily because they WANT to… NO. Most men lie about the petty little things, because they don’t wanna deal with their woman getting all crazy on them.

Most women say they just want a man who is honest, and these are the same women who can’t handle honesty gracefully. This is the reason why so many lies ensue and are told. It is true to say that MOST women don’t actually really know what they want, and it’s not just women. The population in total is full of people who are living in dream worlds, and none of them know what it is they TRULY want, not what society tells them they SHOULD want. Nor do they know who they TRULY are, behind all the masks they wear.

For many women, the dating world is all about control, for you see PUSSY=POWER. This holds true when it comes to the regular people and the Submissive’s of the world. The Alpha’s are in no way affected by the control tactics used by the regular people (I will discuss why and how, at a later time). So women use their pussies as ways to control, trap and even torture hopeless saps. In most circumstances, it works, especially if she’s with another “regular” person or a Submissive. That shit would never fly with an Alpha male, for they are impervious to it!

So with most women of the world, they are taught they should be pious and that image should hold, no matter what. This is why women front and lie. They are so concerned with what people may think of them or say, that most of them tend to play the innocent role, and keep all the dirt they do to themselves. That’s the main difference between men and women, or dogs and cats. When a dog takes a shit, he just leaves it there… but a cat covers her tracks and her shit! Yes, women are sneaky creatures, they formulate and plot things out! Which is why women seldom get caught out there.

Now when you first meet a woman, several things run threw her head. One of the first things is whether or not you are fuckable. See a woman knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone whether or not she’d fuck them- any woman that says different is either a nun or a liar. We think about sex just as much as men do, if not more, for some of us. The reason why a woman isn’t going to jump your bones though falls to two factors… 1: in society, women aren’t supposed to enjoy casual sex and if you do, you are automatically assumed to be a whore, and 2: most women, feel the need to have an emotional connection with a man before fucking them. Therefore, in an effort for most to keep their image squeaky clean, they are either sexually repressed or they front and they lie on their sexuality.

See the reason why women front and lie though, is mainly to keep their image intact. Something they wouldn’t have to even worry about if double standards didn’t exist amongst the sexes. So when dating, women might front and lie about what they are doing with themselves and their lives, like men, but one thing you can always count on is a woman lying on her sexual tryst. That is something most women will lie and not tell you about, because in doing so, she relinquishes the power of her pussy!

You see, when you tell a man that you are dating, or talking to, that you are fucking someone else, HIS perception of you changes. He then looks at you as nothing more, but ass and pussy. And most women aren’t gunna take that chance, especially if she really likes you. And even if she doesn’t really like you, like I said, pussy=power, and as long as he thinks you ain’t giving it up to anyone else, you have the control in the situation.

So a woman is NOT gunna tell you she’s fucking someone else, even if she is. This is mainly because men, can’t handle that concept gracefully without looking at a woman differently. I honestly believe the only reason regular men look at women differently, is cuz you’re a HATER! From experience, men who were also doing them, well the Alpha males, don’t look at a woman differently. Only because he’s not worried about that, he’s secure in himself enough to know what he’s got.

Regular men, look at a woman differently, because deep down inside, your just mad that you don’t got it like that, and that you’re the one NOT getting any. You are envious of the sexuality of a woman, and jealous of the fact that sex comes to women with such ease… No bullshit, if a woman wants dick, it’s TOO easy to get it.

On the other hand, though, regular men and Submissive’s have to work hard for pussy. How do you think these double-standards got started? Hating ass men, who weren’t getting any pussy, mad that women get it as such ease, decided to call them evil and of the devil, if women were found to be promiscuous. Blah. You just hating that she wouldn’t fuck YOU, that’s what it boils down to!

This is the biggest lie told by women, “No, I’m not seeing or fucking anyone else”. Men, check yourself and whether or not YOU would be able to handle it gracefully if she WAS real with you. How would you react? Probably like a douche bag… Which is why you get lied to!

Besides, with lots of women it is all about who controls the situation. When you tell a man you are dating, that you had sex with another man, you lose the control of your situation, and the power of pussy that was holding him in place, becomes non-existent. Yes, he may or may not look at you differently, but even more important is that as a woman, you no longer solely call the shots. It becomes a 50/50 type of situation, and most women fear that because they themselves are either control freaks, or are insecure. They need to control when YOU will be getting pussy from HER, and needs to keep you in the dark of her dealings if she ever wants a future with you.

Seriously, from experience, when you omit your sexuality from the situation, the man is more forthcoming and is on some “I wanna wife you up” type of shit. The art of seduction for women, is merely not stating what she does when she’s NOT around you. What is fucked up is, THAT is the ONLY way to really wrangle a man. If a woman wants to be taken seriously by a man, she HAS TO lie to him about what she’s done sexually or what she’s doing. As soon as she tells him ANYTHING, HE CHANGES, and no longer wants a relationship with her… So men, you do it to yourselves sometimes.

Now when dating, women have different men around for different reasons. There are those who even have distinct categories for the men in their lives. Depending on what kind of woman you are dealing with, that will determine how the dating goes with them.

Gold Diggers, run rampant in this world, both men and women, but mostly women. But it’s not just the gold diggers, it is also the women who feel entitled to things. I completely understand where they are coming from and why they do what they do- even though I do not personally agree with it all the time. The main reason why most women feel like they are entitled, is because they believe that most men have hidden agendas.

This is true for the most part, most men do just want to fuck. I’ll discuss the male point of view in the next blog of course. But just skipping across the surface, women believe most men JUST want their goodies. Being that they just want their goodies, most women feel like you have to work for that shit, pay for it, wine and dine it! And I don’t entirely blame them. If men only knew what it felt like to be objectified and looked at as nothing except pieces of ass, tits and pussy. Most men aren’t very tactful and most women will feel used at least once in their lives.

So, I do not entirely blame some women for feeling entitled. They are usually the ones who have been hurt, scorned and used the most. Their feelings of entitlement are usually their defense mechanisms. They feel that how much a man cares for you is tied to how much he is willing to do for you monetarily. They validate it this way… If he’s willing to do and buy X,Y, and Z for me, then he must truly like me. But this is where they get the game twisted, because some men will do all that JUST in conquest of their pussies.

How much someone cares for you should never be connected or correlated to how much they are willing to spend on you. At the end of the day, it IS the simple things and actions that matter and count the most. The way he acts around you, what he says and how he treats you, should determine whether or not he is worthy. Not how much he’s willing to spend on you. So yes, some women DO feel entitled, most are products of fucked up relations with men, and at the end of the day… They are all wrong and will never know true happiness.

Women aren’t dumb, and neither are men for that matter, even though both parties resort to games, lies and fronting, to get what they want. See, lots of women KNOW what it is that men want… And it sure as hell isn’t JUST good company and conversations. And the thirstier a man is, the worse off he is… Women can SMELL thirstiness, like a dog can smell fear. And most women will use it to their advantage.

A thirsty man, is willing to do any and every thing for you. All in hopes that one day, he will get some pussy. Most women don’t like you, because you are easily swayed and convinced of things. Most women, don’t necessarily want to control and over power their men (most women just want to control the situation)… But most men, make it easy to do so. That shit IS NOT SEXY… No one wants a man with no back bone who will say “how high?” when she yells JUMP. Men don’t understand that women, like a challenge too, but most men are so easy, that a challenge is never met. It’s TOO easy to get into a man’s drawers. So yes, Gold Diggers exist. Mainly to leech off of the insecure people, and more importantly, thirsty men.

If you happen to encounter the elusive Independent Woman, watch out, she may just be perpetrating! Like I said before, women front on themselves just as hard, in hopes of impressing men. Women talk lots of shit, and before you believe her, test her ass out and delve a little deeper. Remember a REAL independent woman, won’t have a problem if you asked her to go half on something. You may or may not want her to, but if you want to know what kind of chick she REALLY is… Ask that bitch to go half and see what she says and how she reacts to that.

Now women in relationships, can be tricky. However, the most common bitch characteristics are impulsiveness and irrational tendencies. Many women never stop to think about what it is they do or say. They do not think before they speak. Instead, they let their emotions take a hold of them and out spews the garbage, that half of the time, is not cohesive. Women resort to all types of measures to get their way, crying and screaming, like toddlers with horrible cases of the terrible two’s.

Most of the time, it works, you see men give in, what you don’t see is the resentment towards her building inside. You see men give in, not necessarily because they agree with you. They agree because they don’t want to hear you bitch, cry or scream anymore. They are ill equipped to deal with your emotions and will give in JUST so they won’t have to deal with that shit. Believe me when I tell you, if some of you only saw what you looked like… You wouldn’t wanna deal with that shit either!

Seriously though, most women in relationships fall in love and they love very blindly, often not heeding warnings and red flags. They love deeply and overlook many things the man may do or say, especially if he’s beating it out the frame constantly. Astonishingly, many others will stay with men who DO NOT satisfy her in the bedroom. As a result, these women, who are very unaware of where these feelings stem from, are angry! I truly believe this is why the world has so many angry women.

Putting a woman on smash and blowing her back out, can be a thin line between love and hate. It can be a double-edged sword, if you do not wield it properly (no pun intended). All I will say for now, is that if you plan on being good to your woman, you are at a tremendous advantage. Nevertheless, if you do her wrong, you will wish that you hadn’t. I’ll explain more in the next blog on the male’s perspective.

With statistics like every 3 out of 4 women never reaching orgasm during sex and about 15% of women never reaching any in their lifetime, of course these women are angry, bitter bitches. Men can’t truly understand, as 98% of men always climax, but if only 25% of you did, we would live in chaos. Your testosterone would overcome you, and our world would be at constant war! Think about that.

In conclusion, women are emotional, irrational and impulsive creatures… beautiful, but they can be dangerous and crazy. Most of it is a result of dealing with men who are just trying to use them, and many of them front and lie about just as much. Most will use the power of their pussy, if you leave yourself open to it… And most will devour you if you’re a thirst bucket. Many are angry, but that is only because their men are not smashing them properly. Believe me, if you were, she would calm her ass the fuck down! On to the next one, and the male’s perspective, with which I identify a lot with…

Until next time kiddies…